Why are people so mean to me

[Valentino]

I got a haircut and i felt so nice about my appearance for once, but then i went to school and everyone started making fun of me and laughing at me. Even my 'friends.' I just wanna die

 

[AerialBoundaries]

I used to get made fun of for my appearance, all the time. I had a big head and big ears, relative to my size at the time. It fucked me up for a while and destroyed my confidence. Thankfully, I did eventually grow into that big head and ears and am a decent looking guy nowadays, but I never did get that confidence back.

People that go out of their way to insult others' apperances, are hurting themselves. I wouldn't take too much notice of it. I'm sure you're a decent looking individual. Don't let the bastards get you down.

 

[StaticCryBabye]

I'm sorry to hear that, it sounds like a rough day. Don't let other people's opinions define how you feel about yourself. You are amazing just the way you are, and your haircut is a reflection of your unique personality.

 

[sashimi_]

that sounds horrible im really sorry that happened. unfortunately "friends" can become like pack animals and do the same thing that everyone else is doing because itd be harder to go against them .... that certainly doesnt make it right though. i know how it feels to be singled out and its rough, especially when its even people you thought you could trust. try to hold on to the original feeling of feeling nice, because you are right and THEY are wrong

 

[Valentino]

I'm sorry to hear that, it sounds like a rough day. Don't let other people's opinions define how you feel about yourself. You are amazing just the way you are, and your haircut is a reflection of your unique personality.

Thank you:)

that sounds horrible im really sorry that happened. unfortunately "friends" can become like pack animals and do the same thing that everyone else is doing because itd be harder to go against them .... that certainly doesnt make it right though. i know how it feels to be singled out and its rough, especially when its even people you thought you could trust. try to hold on to the original feeling of feeling nice, because you are right and THEY are wrong

I just feel so sad, people are so cruel to me

I used to get made fun of for my appearance, all the time. I had a big head and big ears, relative to my size at the time. It fucked me up for a while and destroyed my confidence. Thankfully, I did eventually grow into that big head and ears and am a decent looking guy nowadays, but I never did get that confidence back.

People that go out of their way to insult others' apperances, are hurting themselves. I wouldn't take too much notice of it. I'm sure you're a decent looking individual. Don't let the bastards get you down.

Thank you! This makes me feel better

 

[AerialBoundaries]

Thank you:)

I just feel so sad, people are so cruel to me

Thank you! This makes me feel better

I actually ended up shaving my head with a 0 guard one time and got made fun of, even further! I looked like Nosferatu. It's an old adage, but do the people that make fun of you opinions really matter?

 

[Valentino]

I actually ended up shaving my head with a 0 guard one time and got made fun of, even further! I looked like Nosferatu. It's an old adage, but do the people that make fun of you opinions really matter?

They kinda matter to me, because they're my 'school friends', i dont have any other friends because people think i act odd

 

[PurpleParadigm]

Punch them.

 

[Valentino]

Punch them.

I might!

 

[AerialBoundaries]

They kinda matter to me, because they're my 'school friends', i dont have any other friends because people think i act odd

I concur with punching them. Don't take any shit. You'll realise very quickly that they'll stop with the insults once you stand up for yourself.

 

[Ambivalent1]

Tell them to fuck off. Showing strength even if it's insincere often stops bullies.

 

[FuneralCry]

Humans really are so unnecessarily cruel, sadly it's just the reality of existing, I guess the best thing that one can do is try to avoid other people and see their opinions as insignificant. It sounds like those people are best ignored, they aren't really friends.

 

[AkaRed]

People are horrible, you didn't deserve that.
<3

 

[Linda]

I got a haircut and i felt so nice about my appearance for once, but then i went to school and everyone started making fun of me and laughing at me. Even my 'friends.' I just wanna die

It's not worth dying over a haircut. Your best response is to act with complete confidence. (If you do that, you may find that within a few weeks your style of haircut is the height of fashion at your school.)

 

[The Unpenetrated]

I got a haircut and i felt so nice about my appearance for once, but then i went to school and everyone started making fun of me and laughing at me. Even my 'friends.' I just wanna die

Normies are bullies by nature, always mocking and ridiculing those they deem below them. I've seen them belitting disabled people, poor people, "ugly" people. Ordinary people are inherently evil and if you aren't normal or an outcast, chances are you hold a moral high ground against them. Your morality is perhaps ahead of your time thus making you an outcast in the sea of rotten people.