vanibless
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- Nov 9, 2024
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Lost all my friends, attempted this year too and honestly I wish it had worked... I feel even worse than I did in 2021
I feel for you. It seems I may be more stupid, tried and failed 3 times so far. I'm definitely too stupid to figure out how to die. The years get worse and worse for me.This year has been the worst for me because the demands from life are significantly higher compared to previous years. This is a trend that will continue for me until I'm dead and, unfortunately, I have to wait it out until I die naturally because I'm too stupid to figure out how to die
I totally understand. I will turn 61 in a month. I've struggled with Complex PTSD all my life. In 2019, after almost ten years in therapy, I felt like I had finally overcome my demons, but Covid undid all the progress I made. I haven't felt this bad in 40 years. I've been out of work since March and on public assistance. My apartment lease expires in April, and I'm behind in my rent. There is a very good chance that I will be homeless by this time next year.I didn't do anything slightly productive besides immersing myself deeply in my limerence over my fav artist. I know this might be a coping mechanism since she's basically the only source of joy I still have and she made me feel happiness when I needed most.
I feel so dumb and ridiculous because I'll turn 30 next year and I've amounted to nothing in life besided neeting. At the same time I know I couldn't bring myself to do anything productive because I'm not well mentally. People think I'm just lazy but only I know what I go through every day in my mind. It's a struggle to survive with my brain each day but it doesn't stop me from feeling terrible.
I know how you feel. I've been out of work for 8 months and my lease expires in April of next year. I have the means to end my life. I can OD on Phenobarbital, but I just can't seem to do itI lost everything this year.
My health, my gf, everything in a matter of months. I am trying my best not to make it to 2025 tho. Already failed once but will try again as soon as possible.
Likewise in last 18 months , partner left without saying goodbye, now about to lose home and business . Thought I could rebuild but I can't . It hasn't mattered how much I gave back to all, I can't find the strength to go on.I lost everything this year.
My health, my gf, everything in a matter of months. I am trying my best not to make it to 2025 tho. Already failed once but will try again as soon as possible.
Heck pass the pheno if you change your mind, seriously DM me if you change your mind. Covid was out of nowhere hopefully once in 100 years off the charts alteration of how we live life. Don't blame yourself there, I imagine you are doing what you can to survive, just surviving is the hardest thing. I can only dream of going lights out, tried and failed 3 times now. I just want to be gone. Are there any programs whether through Social Services, local organizations like United Way or others that could help with rent? Maybe even reach out to AARP to find out if there's any help they can point you towards, even the local Foodbanks may be able to refer you to organizations that may be able to help with rent even if just for a month or two or a few months. It's so damn hard when you're just surviving because all your thoughts and energy go to that, no time to dream, create, relax, focus on bettering our health, etc. I've spent far too long in survival mode and want to be gone.I totally understand. I will turn 61 in a month. I've struggled with Complex PTSD all my life. In 2019, after almost ten years in therapy, I felt like I had finally overcome my demons, but Covid undid all the progress I made. I haven't felt this bad in 40 years. I've been out of work since March and on public assistance. My apartment lease expires in April, and I'm behind in my rent. There is a very good chance that I will be homeless by this time next year.
I know how you feel. I've been out of work for 8 months and my lease expires in April of next year. I have the means to end my life. I can OD on Phenobarbital, but I just can't seem to do it