Discussion What is your sexuality?

[TheLastSacrifice]

Gay but on occasion I've been somewhat attracted to girls too. Never done anything about it, though. I hate being gay because it's like this oddity. I hate being in a minority/ not normal. If I could take a pill to turn straight I would in a heartbeat.

Or you could just do like me and date women and like men too or vice versa/both. I know it can be complicated but you really can just like either/or. It's fine.
Definitely bisexual. I prefer women and want to be married to a woman but also can enjoy men too in certain ways.

 

[Sensei]

Plain heterosexual. I suspect some people believe I'm homosexual because I don't have a spouse and children which you're supposed to have at my age, though. Conformity is the killer.

 

[TheLastSacrifice]

Yes sir. I do get tired of this attitude that everyone is secretly gay. I am bisexual myself but out of all my male friends only me and one other will admit to it. Based of what I know about my own sexuality I would never assume someone is gay based on anything other than them telling me. It is a tired old trope. Your frustration being people assume you are gay when you aren't, mine being that I love women and want to be married to one but people wrongfully assume I am gay and confused. I hate that one personally, because it oversimplies me and simply isn't true. I am not confused. I just like both. Preferably Dames. Pretty ones too.
Although I do understand how a straight person might not understand this. It's just frustrating when I explain and people still insist I'm confused. I get that alot and will just roll my eyes and let it slide.

 

[Apathy79]

I dunno if this is tmi but what the heck.

I'm straight, all of my fantasies/fetishes involve beautiful women, but none of them have ever involved sex. Over time, that morphed into an aversion to sex or even kissing. Sex in movies makes me want to turn it off, and I don't like any of the porn that my friends watch. I didn't enjoy my earlier sexual encounters, and I doubt the girls did either - I had to fantasise about something else the whole time.

As a result, I stopped trying to date anyone and haven't now for over a decade. It's not that I'm against relationships, even with my earlier girlfriends I enjoyed cuddling on the couch watching something, I just don't enjoy kissing or sex, assume women do and therefore it won't work.

I just discovered the term asexual in this thread - I don't know whether that applies to me or not. If I'm attracted to women but not interested in sex, does that make me a straight asexual?

 

[Polly]

My sexuality is really strange, I talked about it in another post, I feel strong attraction to cis women, but I can not feel sexual desire, however if I can feel sexual desire towards trans women.

It is one of my reasons for CTB, my strange sexual orientation and my null social skills, etc. makes it impossible for me to have a partner. I can't even have friends, I'm doomed to be alone.

Just so you know you're not alone, I've had several friends oriented the same way. Tricky but not impossible, although unfortunately there no support group fir that right now. Consider this the start of one.

 

[BPDbitch]

(F) I think I am bisexual, although I do prefer men and haven't been in a relationship with a woman for about 7 years. Usually I just tell people I'm straight but I don't know.

 

[TheLastSacrifice]

I dunno if this is tmi but what the heck.

I'm straight, all of my fantasies/fetishes involve beautiful women, but none of them have ever involved sex. Over time, that morphed into an aversion to sex or even kissing. Sex in movies makes me want to turn it off, and I don't like any of the porn that my friends watch. I didn't enjoy my earlier sexual encounters, and I doubt the girls did either - I had to fantasise about something else the whole time.

As a result, I stopped trying to date anyone and haven't now for over a decade. It's not that I'm against relationships, even with my earlier girlfriends I enjoyed cuddling on the couch watching something, I just don't enjoy kissing or sex, assume women do and therefore it won't work.

I just discovered the term asexual in this thread - I don't know whether that applies to me or not. If I'm attracted to women but not interested in sex, does that make me a straight asexual?

It makes you how you are right now. You could be asexual or there could be something bothering you that you don't fully understand.

 

[Eren]

Just so you know you're not alone, I've had several friends oriented the same way. Tricky but not impossible, although unfortunately there no support group fir that right now. Consider this the start of one.

It is impossible for me, I have no social skills since I exist, I can not maintain friendly relations, even worse having a partner, and also my strange sexuality.

 

[Suicide_vampire]

My sexuality now there's a good question... Wish I knew, I have been straight the majority of my life been married and stuff, but as I got older I think I may be gay, but am also really attracted to transgender. So maybe I'm pan and its more about the person than the gender.
It confuses the hell out of me and as I have no social skills due to autism and other difficulties I think I will be alone the rest of my life. Been properly single now for about 10 years
Maybe I've just had too long to think about, but I think I'm more attracted to women if I had to be pushed for an answer

 

[Sour]

My sexuality is... I like sex. All kinds of sex with all kinds of people. I don't discriminate pansexual and have been polyamorous at times.

 

[Suicide_vampire]

I miss sex

 

[paroxyical]

i identify as queer.

im sexually attracted to feminine bodies. im also sexually attracted to male genitals. im more romantically attracted to men, with the right personalities. but i can also crush on women for their personalities. enbys are great.

im just a lump of confusion tbh. so, queer

 

[Tiktok]

I'm straight. Actually for a long time I identified as bisexual but with a preference for women.( I'm female)
Only after trying out with women I realized I was straight.

 

[Burbank]

I'm bisexual girl. I don't, however feel that sexually attracted to women as i do to men. I do generally feel more comfortable with women though.

Not that I have much experience romantically or sexually lol.

 

[lowres]

i am attracted to anyone as long as they have some physical appeal to me which is very broad and they also cool and not mean