Discussion What is your sexuality?

[Fragile]

i consider myself asexual. regardless of gender, i never found myself comfortable with another person in romantic or sexual situations, plus i never experienced sexual urges towards anyone anyway. the good thing about it is that i never had to deal with sexual frustration or a broken hearth, at least not in a romantic way.

 

[charlottewilts]

lesbian, i have no interest in men sexually though i have had a few crushes if that counts. do fictional characters count?

 

[SnowWhite]

I typically describe myself as pansexual, although I haven't dated a guy since college. My parents are very conservative though and, since I still live with them, my parents are a bit suspicious. Not a fun situation.

 

[justanotherday]

Asexual.... Not wanting any relationships

 

[WhyIsLife56]

I'm asexual as well :)

 

[k75]

I'm straight, but I am very much into other woman in a fantasy setting. I love to look at them and fantasize about them, but the actual encounters I've had did little for me. It's weird.

 

[mathieu]

Gay but on occasion I've been somewhat attracted to girls too. Never done anything about it, though. I hate being gay because it's like this oddity. I hate being in a minority/ not normal. If I could take a pill to turn straight I would in a heartbeat.

 

[Scooter]

I've thought about it for a while, and i would say I'm Bi-Curious. Idk not much to say with this one, but it just hurts a lot when looking back at my life.

 

[BPD Barbie]

Bisexual. Have had relationships with men and women.

 

[peacefully31425]

Straight man but I have experimented in the past. So, possibly bi, not really sure though.

 

[Maravillosa]

Biromantic greysexual. I rate myself as a 4 on the Kinsey scale (I am slightly more attracted to women than men). I also like to flirt, but do not want to have sex with somebody in real life. This is mostly because I am a practicing Catholic who a) does not want children (although I have been menopausal since 2013, so it is now a moot point) and b) believes that artificial contraception is immoral. The thought of having sex with actual people scares me.

 

[TheSoulless]

lesbian, i have no interest in men sexually though i have had a few crushes if that counts. do fictional characters count?

Of course! I don't think it's uncommon to be attracted to fictional characters, like anime characters, for example (cough).

Although in my case it's apparently called a "squish".

 

[WhyIsLife56]

Of course! I don't think it's uncommon to be attracted to fictional characters, like anime characters, for example (cough).

Although in my case it's apparently called a "squish".

I've had squishes before. :)

 

[TheSoulless]

I've had squishes before. :)

I see! I used to mistake them for actual crushes when I thought I was straight. I never thought about actual sex at all.

 

[WhyIsLife56]

I see! I used to mistake them for actual crushes when I thought I was straight. I never thought about actual sex at all.

They're close to crushes since they both aquire affection and admiration for the other person. So it can sometimes be hard to tell if it's a crush or a squish.

 

[TheSoulless]

They're close to crushes since they both aquire affection and admiration for the other person. So it can sometimes be hard to tell if it's a crush or a squish.

Right.

 

[enjoy]

i'm queer. i stopped trying to find a label for myself because it was driving me nuts. i'm definitely attracted to women romantically and sexually, but i can only date a man under very certain circumstances. i've never dated a nb person before, but i know i could do so happily.

sexual preferences are a secret. only close friends and significant others get to know. sorry!

 

[Mr2005]

Confused

 

[Thereisnothing]

I'm hetrosexual, although been hurt so badly in love over the years, am alone so no relationship now. Still have sexual feelings etc. I am very loyal and would've loved to have someone to care and cherish me and treat me right, but never to be.

 

[Abaigh]

I'm not sure to be honest. I've always been interested in girls but I have never told anyone and never explored it but I am currently dating my boyfriend for the past 2 years.

 

[TheDevilsAngel]

I am bi, but have not been with a woman..yet( I do hope I can at least try at some stage) .. I prefer men but I definitely would love to explore with a woman

 

[Iwanttooffmyself]

I identify as a homoromantic asexual. I am romantically attracted to women and sexually attracted to no one.

 

[TheDevilsAngel]

I'm hetrosexual, although been hurt so badly in love over the years, am alone so no relationship now. Still have sexual feelings etc. I am very loyal and would've loved to have someone to care and cherish me and treat me right, but never to be.

That sounds like something I would of wrote, it's exactly how I feel.... (except for the heterosexual part) .... I understand how hard it is.. Sending you hugs

 

[ScorpiusDragon]

Straight, but if I weren't currently in a relationship with my bf, I'd be curious about experimenting with a woman once. I've never been romantically interested in women, but I sometimes watch lesbian porn.

 

[Jessamine]

Bisexual and will never be any other way. I love women and I love men. I can't imagine being closed off to an entire gender it doesn't feel natural to me.

 

[Kikoo Loool]

Straighy but already had a bj by a guy.

 

[GinaIsReady]

Straight except I'm obsessed with boobs and enjoy playing with a woman now and then. I would say mildly bisexual.

 

[maka]

Either Panrimantic or Biromantic Asexual. When I develop feelings for someone I only see them, not their gender really. I also don't know if I'm really asexual or if my lack of sexual attraction stems from being sexually assaulted as a child, and I know the ace community hates it when people make accusations like that, so I'm trying to be careful and do my research about it. Pretty sure I've just always been attracted to others romantically/aesthetically rather than sexually.

 

[listeningpost1379]

im bi and have been with both men and women. i do think heteronormative society is one of the little cherries on top of my suffering cake.

 

[vonvonwantpeace]

I'm Bi yeahh being bisexual is the main reason of my depression..