Discussion What is your escape?

[abruptum]

So I have realized recently I am either living with the constant struggle of wishing for death and having all of my burdensome thoughts, or I am using something to distract myself whether it be self destructive, playing games, or just sleeping for 10+ hours in a day (I know its not alot but I normally am limited to <4)
Anyways let me know what you guys do to escape or stop your thoughts.

 

[WornOutLife]

Alcohol, playing videogames, learning japanese and watching tv shows/anime

 

[abruptum]

Alcohol, playing videogames, learning japanese and watching tv shows/anime

Drop me some anime recommendations if you dont mind :)

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

I normally am limited to <4)

Why?

 

[Symbiote]

Work and planning for one last getaway before I kick the bucket.

 

[KleinerWolf]

Fantasy, alcohol, learning a language I like
+
Soon having sn perhaps.

 

[abruptum]

Why?

I cant get myself to sleep because my thoughts start racing and I feel like I havent done enough to feel deserving of sleep

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

I cant get myself to sleep because my thoughts start racing and I feel like I havent done enough to feel deserving of sleep

In my view, no one deserves anything. Have you had this sleep disorder for long?

 

[abruptum]

In my view, no one deserves anything. Have you had this sleep disorder for long?

only for the past year

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

only

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[lifesucksxoxo]

Alcohol, playing videogames, learning japanese and watching tv shows/anime

All of those are good copes except for learning japanese

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

All of those are good copes except for learning japanese

Ohaio lifesucksxoxo-san, dattebayo.

 

[JustLosingMyself]

Model kits and miniatures.
It's quite the meditation.
Currently a submarine and a galleon on the bench

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

Oh, right. My copes are shows, music, gooming and cooming. I tried to remind myself to not only talk about myself and forgot to even answer heh.

 

[Shadowrider]

For me, it's music and reading. Especially crime stories and Stephen King.

 

[lucacaro]

All of those are good copes except for learning japanese

How is learning a new language not a good thing to do as a distraction??? lmaoo.

 

[WornOutLife]

Drop me some anime recommendations if you dont mind :)

Durarara, mushoku tensei, barakamon, those who hunt elves (this one is an oldie), Orphen (oldie too), Mayoiga and HxH 2011.

I could continue for hours but I bet some of those will be fine for now

 

[lifesucksxoxo]

How is learning a new language not a good thing to do as a distraction??? lmaoo.

It's pointless. Japanese people don't want you anyways. Waste of critical thinking and focus

Oh, right. My copes are shows, music, gooming and cooming. I tried to remind myself to not only talk about myself and forgot to even answer heh.

gooming? Like eating?

If so, then yes thats a really good cope. I like eating fastfood a lot cause it taste really fucking good and it makes the pain go all away

Music, Food, Video-Games, Porn/Anime Porn, TV/Netflix are the top copes.

 

[abruptum]

Durarara, mushoku tensei, barakamon, those who hunt elves (this one is an oldie), Orphen (oldie too), Mayoiga and HxH 2011.

I could continue for hours but I bet some of those will be fine for now

durarara is fucking amazing if these are anything like that ur a smart man

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

It's pointless. Japanese people don't want you anyways. Waste of critical thinking and focus

gooming? Like eating?

If so, then yes thats a really good cope. I like eating fastfood a lot cause it taste really fucking good and it makes the pain go all away

Music, Food, Video-Games, Porn/Anime Porn, TV/Netflix are the top copes.

Gooming is gaming but without any enjoyment, much like cooming is like masturbation but just to pass the time in order to reach the point of death faster.

 

[lucacaro]

It's pointless. Japanese people don't want you anyways. Waste of critical thinking and focus

Lmao that is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard in my life.

 

[lifesucksxoxo]

Lmao that is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard in my life.

expect more to come

 

[lucacaro]

I'm sure you won't let me down

 

[abruptum]

expect more to come

dude come on why are you shitting on someone for wanting to learn a new language it doesnt affect you in any way so plz stop

 

[lucacaro]

dude come on why are you shitting on someone for wanting to learn a new language it doesnt affect you in any way so plz stop

Don't bother replying this dude has no critical thinking skills

 

[Ber0]

@abruptum yo name a genre, I have tons of recommendations.
@WornOutLife Japanese is great, although the fact that is has 3 systems instead of 1 like English was hard to get past. How far are you in studies?
@lifesucksxoxo I've been learning for 2y now and I hear what your opinion is, but Japanese can be useful in business degrees or anything that requires translation. They've always looking for English teachers as well and have dedicated programs for it to get it. Some people see Japan as a way to escape from the West anyways, where they feel they're creative lifestyles are limited. I've known several people that have moved and it has had a positive impact + their knowledge of Japanese has helped ofc. Most Japanese people appreciate when people at least try to learn the language or at least enough to get by. Also that kind of thinking exists in every country in some form or another. There will always be a view that sees people as "outsiders" or "foreigners" that aren't wanted. Also while it's true that some Japanese people might not want foreigners in their country, like I said every country has that crowd, Japanese *need* foreigners to fill the job loss that they are experiencing due to their workforce being of an older generation. Among other problems. Learning Japanese can open many opportunities in life, especially if one were to move to the country itself. Learning a language also requires tons of dedication, practicing each day for multiple hours to become fluent. So I'd say that even if nothing comes of it, that person's determination to the learning process is a good thing for their character, or if they just need something to distract them.

 

[abruptum]

@abruptum yo name a genre, I have tons of recommendations.

I like shows like durarara and paranoia agent and made in abyss idk what genre those fall into lol

 

[Ber0]

I like shows like durarara and paranoia agent and made in abyss idk what genre those fall into lol

Paranoia agent was a trip to say the least lmao. Hmmmm not sure, it's a bit spread out between action, mystery, sci-fi, fantasy. I can recommend a lot of sci-fi which have those. Have you ever watched Cowboy Bebop, Ghost in the Shell, or Psycho Pass?

 

[abruptum]

Paranoia agent was a trip to say the least lmao. Hmmmm not sure, it's a bit spread out between action, mystery, sci-fi, fantasy. I can recommend a lot of sci-fi which have those. Have you ever watched Cowboy Bebop, Ghost in the Shell, or Psycho Pass?

never any of these but will add to my list :)

 

[lifesucksxoxo]

@abruptum yo name a genre, I have tons of recommendations.
@WornOutLife Japanese is great, although the fact that is has 3 systems instead of 1 like English was hard to get past. How far are you in studies?
@lifesucksxoxo I've been learning for 2y now and I hear what your opinion is, but Japanese can be useful in business degrees or anything that requires translation. They've always looking for English teachers as well and have dedicated programs for it to get it. Some people see Japan as a way to escape from the West anyways, where they feel they're creative lifestyles are limited. I've known several people that have moved and it has had a positive impact + their knowledge of Japanese has helped ofc. Most Japanese people appreciate when people at least try to learn the language or at least enough to get by. Also that kind of thinking exists in every country in some form or another. There will always be a view that sees people as "outsiders" or "foreigners" that aren't wanted. Also while it's true that some Japanese people might not want foreigners in their country, like I said every country has that crowd, Japanese *need* foreigners to fill the job loss that they are experiencing due to their workforce being of an older generation. Among other problems. Learning Japanese can open many opportunities in life, especially if one were to move to the country itself. Learning a language also requires tons of dedication, practicing each day for multiple hours to become fluent. So I'd say that even if nothing comes of it, that person's determination to the learning process is a good thing for their character, or if they just need something to distract them.

"There will always be a view that sees people as "outsiders" or "foreigners" that aren't wanted." is exactly what I'm talking about. I'm not talking shit about the language. Yes, learning a new language can open business opportunities but is it really worth the pain of all that dedication, practicing hours and hours a day?

Don't bother replying this dude has no critical thinking skills

Yeah, I have no critical thinking skills lol keep coping