Well, I still wish my mom told me the truth about AMH about the fact she got me raped by a police officer and that I tried to kill myself in the past and also tried killing the police officer in question I'm not allowed to disclose any information about it because I don't have the evidence of what they did. Fuck'em all. I hate this life but I won't try to kill myself just going to quit therapy and continue to take the meds because supposedly they help.
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Bitcoin (BTC):Ethereum (ETH):Monero (XMR):Traumatic experiences can leave scars. Physical trauma such as a car accident can cripple for life or can be improved upon somewhat with physical therapy. Emotional trauma is often somewhat more recoverable. Betrayal by someone trusted (like a parent) can cripple especially if in one's youth.
Many people bring with them into adulthood scars of poor childhoods. However, it can be impressive how some can make recovery from the most traumatic experiences. One thing that helps is seeing the person who caused the trauma not and an evil agent as this can foster resentment, bitterness, and anger (which can be self-destructive). Seeing the person responsible as a sad character who is ignorant of even how to control themselves. Seeing them as dangerous but ultimately pitiable can create a disconnect that can allow healing whereas hatred (which can be useful in the short term) can poison a life.
In trying to repair the damage one has experienced the first step is to gain distance from the perpetrator. If a child, this can take years until one is able to get away. Sometimes others like family members, neighbors, or even officials can help. The next step is to identify what negative things have been picked up so that they can be rejected. The third thing is to identify what positive things have been neglected so that they can be developed and incorporated as one tries to navigate life.
Abuse can be very destructive, but it is recoverable. We may end up "walking with a limp", but we do not have to be incapacitated.
