Thoughts on what other people might think of you

[raccoonjk]

I want to know how you think other people might view you as. This can be both about looks and personality, im just curious.

I don't think anyone finds me attractive. People either think im ugly or im average in terms of looks i believe. As for personality, people don't really see who I am. In public I will act all friendly to people, make friends and act like nothings wrong. I don't think anyone knows about how horrible I feel inside and all that the public really sees is just me kinda faking this shield of kindness.

 

[Forever Sleep]

I think people probably see me as a bit weird and akward- which is probably right. They likely see me as a tom boy- also right. Hopefully most think I'm fairly nice- I try to be kind to people. I think probably most can tell all is not all together well. They likely don't realise just how much though. I reckon if I do ever CTB- it would be an initial shock followed by- I guess there was always something a bit sad about them. Ironically, I think some of the people I would say who misjudge me the most are in my own family!

 

[LunarPyotr]

People who don't know me that well like all of my previous and current co-workers, probably think that I'm some shy guy who's rly awkward, doesn't rly go with the fashion and is a workoholic.
People who know me very well, like my current (real) friends, they know me as a person who loves to work on his car, when he's down, the real life king fury Hackerman who can help you with most tech issues, drives like a pro race driver even with a shitty 720cc car and is lucky enough to never get any speeding ticket in his whole time he owned his drivers license, always thinks about all decision like it's a real time strategy game.
People who see me in the public think that I'm some rich influencer who drives around in expensive cars (that I sometimes rent to just have some distraction from my problems) and always blasts some old tracks without any care
(yeah "Cher - Believe" is not that bad XD )

But people who know me rly close, like my gf, know exactly what's going on with me.

4 Real, in the end I don't rly care what people think of me. I'm just going with my flow and try to survive or at least have the best time before leaving this shitty and cruel world

 

[cgrtt.brns]

looks wise ive always felt everyone thinks im incredibly ugly and gross. especially as ive gotten older and more disheveled, im just not pleasant to look at. despite this ive had two friends tell me they thought i was attractive, which i didnt and still dont believe, i just feel like theyre lying to me.
personality wise ive always felt everyone thinks im the most annoying, whiney, idiotic person to ever exist and that im annoying to interact with. even on here i feel like everyone who reads my posts thinks im annoying and gets angry anytime i post something. i dont have evidence of this, its just how i feel, and no matter how many ppl tell me otherwise i will always feel that way, im not sure why but i just feel like its the truth. i feel bad posting anywhere bc i feel like even just seeing my presence online just makes others angry, and i feel bad going out anywhere bc anyone that looks at me must be annoyed.
ig thats more of an insecure self loathing view. a more literal and logical description would be that others think im awkward and hard to talk to, very quiet but also panicky and nervous when i actually do talk. maybe sometimes funny, i do try to make others laugh bc it just the only way ive learned to socialise. my parents probably see me as very shut in and low most of the time, but when im not low maybe funny, very interested in bugs and animals as i tell them facts about and can identify different bugs or wildlife that they find in the garden. they also likely find me annoying as i can go on about boring stuff and i can be quite argumentative if they say something i think is morally wrong, like racist or ableist or smthn. the length of this post just shows how long i can blab on about stupid shit, ive always wished i could just describe things easier without having to write a fucking essay lol

 

[Rocinante]

Looks wise good, maybe a bit too masculine looking in my opinion. But people seem to think I look good.

Personality wise people find me insufferable and toxic, not much to say there. I don't get along with anyone nor do I care to.

I don't think anyone finds me attractive. People either think im ugly or im average in terms of looks i believe. As for personality, people don't really see who I am. In public I will act all friendly to people, make friends and act like nothings wrong. I don't think anyone knows about how horrible I feel inside and all that the public really sees is just me kinda faking this shield of kindness.

I used to put value in peoples expectations and views of me, but it only came back to haunt me. This is a world full of people who don't have your best interest at heart. Better to keep yourself at a distance.

 

[MeltingBrain]

> Looks wise people find me well above average but I am getting ugly due to my condition.
> I have a humorous personality irl but can also talk about deep topics . Getting myself in a group is usually not a problem. This is all likely to change as my condition gets worse
> I do care about what other's think , it's a chink in my armor .

In public I will act all friendly to people, make friends and act like nothings wrong. I don't think anyone knows about how horrible I feel inside and all that the public really sees is just me kinda faking this shield of kindness.

I can completely sympathize with you because this is exactly how I am too. I feel like it's unfair to other people , to tell about my deep problems . Although I know this is an unhealthy way of thinking. What are friends for If you can't speak to them about what you are going through ? Knowing this , still it's a hard feeling to shake off even though I have very understanding friends .

 

[acerace]

People usually think I'm younger than I am and always treat me like a innocent little kid, even those I'm closer to which is so weird and annoying. I feel super awkward around people but everyone thinks I'm just quiet and distant, people who think they know me better find me relatable and funny although I'm not sure why cuz I don't think I'm funny. And they're always protective of me.
In looks, I'm average ig with a cute baby face and a nice body apparently.

 

[Unattainable666]

I'll be perfectly honest. I don't give a rat's ass what other people think of me or feel about me. Unless they're paying my rent (which no one else is) - then I might care, but I look at it this way - unless you walk in my shoes, lived the life I've lived - no one has any clue why I say or do the things I do. It's actually quite relieving to feel this way.

 

[Anonymoususer1234]

To be honest, I think most people don't think of me at all. I exist in the background of people's lives. I'm essentially living as a ghost.

I'm not important enough to be thought about. This has been my reality since I was young.

Pathetic as that may be, it's where a lot of my issues come from.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

A "man-child", and they would be correct.

 

[l0stc4use]

off putting, ugly, weird, awkward

 

[sick.faery]

i dont know what people think about my looks. i have bdd so

personality wise people tend to think i'm charming, really nice, tough on the outside but weak on the inside, confident but insecure, endearing, superficial. for some of these i really dont know how they got that impression, like for charming for ex. how tf am i charming loll

 

[outatime_85]

Regarding looks:

1) I accept that I am not appealing and that my physical appearance will always be unsettling.

Regarding what people think of me:

1) My own family does not think much about me and won't notice or care if I go missing.

2) I think it is safe to say that no stranger thinks of me when my own family doesn't.

Regarding real-world interactions:

1) Anyone who does interact with me in real life (pretends to like me) because they want something or to find out something they can use to hurt me.

So I live like a monk with limited human contact, and I accept that I am judged, and there is nothing I can do about it.

 

[MeltingBrain]

I'm average ig

What is ig ?

 

[WorthlessTrash]

What is ig ?

ig = I guess

(social media wise, it would be instagram)

 

[winamp]

larping as an intellectual, the vaguely asexual sitcom character, weird, childish or childlike, awkward, lives under a rock, quiet, shy, etc.

 

[day]

Think I'm used by a lot as a sex object.

I'm sure things people think of me are some of the following: Lost, Weird, Childish, Narcistic, Short, Hypersexual, Anxious and Unhealthy.

 

[cgrtt.brns]

People usually think I'm younger than I am and always treat me like a innocent little kid, even those I'm closer to which is so weird and annoying.

And they're always protective of me.

this. all of the people i know that are either the same age or older than me treat me like a little kid, like something they need to protect, a naive, inexperienced and stupid child. i hate when people infantilise me. on the other hand, people i know who are younger than me call me an out of touch old man funnily enough.

 

[winamp]

this. all of the people i know that are either the same age or older than me treat me like a little kid, like something they need to protect, a naive, inexperienced and stupid child. i hate when people infantilise me. on the other hand, people i know who are younger than me call me an out of touch old man funnily enough.

I relate to this so much

it's really annoying and is one of the reasons why I wish I was just a little bit taller

or more in touch with the things people my age are concerned with or talking about

but I don't think either of those would change anything

 

[cgrtt.brns]

I relate to this so much

it's really annoying and is one of the reasons why I wish I was just a little bit taller

or more in touch with the things people my age are concerned with or talking about

but I don't think either of those would change anything

i would give anything to be at least like half a foot taller, being 5"3 definitely doesnt help me not look like a kid lol

 

[winamp]

i would give anything to be at least like half a foot taller, being 5"3 definitely doesnt help me not look like a kid lol

same except I'm 5'0

I mostly just want longer legs to add height but I think I will still look like a child idk

also being a bit taller would make it easier for me to find pants that aren't too long which would be great

 

[(¥)]

digusting, idiot, weak. they all want to expose who i am. they think i lie. I HATE IT. they are liars.