Discussion Thoughts on sh scars

[Vivisection]

does anyone else really like the scars?
I feel like they're super cute actually
I know often they wind up being an insecurity but I dunno

Its also really fun to go over them again and have layers :p

 

[starvinglegend]

I LOVE mine. In reality I hide them, but when I am alone, I admire the beauty and pain it took me to achieve them.
I guess we are both fucked up lol but your def not alone, I find them attractive.

 

[Dainhla]

I don't know what my feelings are towards my scars. It's like some days I and like them, some I feel bad for having them and thinking about all the people that can without any problems show the their bare arms sometimes makes me feel envy ....

But I guess it depends on the day and on my mood. When I feel low I don't like them but I continue cutting myself, even though I don't like them because I feel insecure about them.

 

[mazzy]

I have a love hate relationship with my scars, sometimes I think they are so pretty, other times not so much. It mostly becomes an insecurity when I feel people are pitying me, just because I self harm doesn't mean I'm pathetic. I get up every day and do the same shit as everyone else. But I would say I think they are cute most of the time. I would rather think positively on them then sit there in regret for somethings that's already done lol

But I do layer mine as there's only one spot I can really hide on my body, and when I run my hands over the skin it soft and smooth until I get to the scars, it feels like…beef jerky?? AHHH not the best description but hopefully I got the point across

 

[Vivisection]

I don't know what my feelings are towards my scars. It's like some days I and like them, some I feel bad for having them and thinking about all the people that can without any problems show the their bare arms sometimes makes me feel envy ....

But I guess it depends on the day and on my mood. When I feel low I don't like them but I continue cutting myself, even though I don't like them because I feel insecure about them.

ooh I get the conflict, I used to feel the same, I dunno what happened? I think shtwt made me think scars are cute

I LOVE mine. In reality I hide them, but when I am alone, I admire the beauty and pain it took me to achieve them.
I guess we are both fucked up lol but your def not alone, I find them attractive.

I feel like we gotta be atleast a little to end up here :P
I wish more people liked them in general

I have a love hate relationship with my scars, sometimes I think they are so pretty, other times not so much. It mostly becomes an insecurity when I feel people are pitying me, just because I self harm doesn't mean I'm pathetic. I get up every day and do the same shit as everyone else. But I would say I think they are cute most of the time. I would rather think positively on them then sit there in regret for somethings that's already done lol

But I do layer mine as there's only one spot I can really hide on my body, and when I run my hands over the skin it soft and smooth until I get to the scars, it feels like…beef jerky?? AHHH not the best description but hopefully I got the point across

It does sorta feel like beef jerky I'll never be able to forget that now....

I hate that people view sh as pathetic or weak because literally what is so pathetic about it?? the pity feels sooo insulting too </3

 

[feder]

does anyone else really like the scars?
I feel like they're super cute actually
I know often they wind up being an insecurity but I dunno

Its also really fun to go over them again and have layers :p

For me, I was ashamed and still am to show them in public. But at the same time when I look at them It helps me remember that my pain is real. A part of me likes them, a part of me doesn't, it's complicated.

 

[LittleAngel]

Sh is so pretty to me as well! I just find them beautiful. I do get embarrassed in public but in private I love admiring them

 

[Vivisection]

Sh is so pretty to me as well! I just find them beautiful. I do get embarrassed in public but in private I love admiring them

!! yes I absolutely adore the scars :D
(nice Ame pfp hehe)

 

[MrDarkness]

I self harmed to stop being able to feel attraction to others, I look at the scars with pride, knowing I'm one step closer to achieving my goals. I haven't loved or felt attraction to anyone in forever, and I adore it

 

[kms2nite]

does anyone else really like the scars?
I feel like they're super cute actually
I know often they wind up being an insecurity but I dunno

Its also really fun to go over them again and have layers :p

Personally I love my scars so much, I love looking at them it makes me feel peaceful.

There is the odd time I dislike them but it doesn't happen very often and if it does it doesn't last very long.

 

[loyalskateboard]

I don't like them. Most of them are easily hidden but I have a few on one arm. They don't look like typical self harm scars though. Those ones annoy me the most because they're visible. I suppose in some ways it shows me how far I've come in life but ehhhh. I'd rather be scar free.

 

[90starve]

im very ashamed of my scares, although i don't dislike them.

i haven't shown my legs in public for many years now, for fear of judgement or insensitive comments.

the damage i have done to my skin is very extensive and may be repulsive to most people - so for this reason, i choose to keep them hidden.

 

[alonely]

I like my scars. They healed in a way that completely blends into my natural skin color, so others have never noticed unless I have pointed them out. In the right light, I can see them better. Somehow it gives me a sense of peace to look at them. The memory of what they looked like before they healed is also nice.