Cosmic dust
Among the stars
- Feb 28, 2022
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I was just thinking of this right now and in the last few days, I have 29 and I have been jumping from one sick romantic obessession to another since I was 14 or something, I just feel sick on the head and I don't think anything good can ever come out of these feelings.Think all of my early crushes on people have been weird ridiculous obsessions. Recently seen there is an actual term for it- limerance. Really wish I'd known it at the time because they felt so real and painful. Still, I probably wouldn't have admitted it to myself while I was in them.
Always been single and I'm 42 now. Sometimes wonder if I might have had the potential to be in a happy, loving relationship at one time- like you- when you experience those feelings/wishes through Art.
Still, kind of know that in reality it wouldn't work out. Get in such dark moods that I'm not sure another person could bring me out of. I'd either have to pretend I felt better or hide it in the first place- which I think I would end up resenting- or they would.
Plus, I'm not attractive, don't want to make the effort to be more attractive and I'm not domestic either! Hate housework.
Think I'm actually happier when I don't fancy people and tell myself that I'm partly single by choice. Still, I know what you mean about wondering about it- like life in general I guess- whether we all had the potential to be able to be in a better spot at one point.
I didn't know the term limerance, thanks for posting this.