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hihi2027

hihi2027

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Jul 29, 2026
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I heard that when your body is discovered, the police contact whatever family member they can find. This family member then has to go and identify the body... I really don't want them to have to see my head blasted off. My death will be sad enough, so why should they have to see that?

Unless, is there a way I can identify myself when I am dead?

If not, then can I demand a specific person to identify me?

I would not care if, for example, my father had to see me because I don't care if it truamatizes him. I'm heartless for that but I don't care.

Well?
 
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poplover

poplover

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Aug 25, 2026
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might depend on your country, but couldnt you just have your id in your pocket?
 
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MonkeyButter

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Sep 3, 2026
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blasting your head off might increase the chances of police getting your family to ID you. If you want to avoid that then make sure you are very easily identifiable and lay out all you IDs in plain view.
 
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literallynoone

literallynoone

despite everything, i'm still here
Jul 21, 2026
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man id probably have fucking killed myself by now if i could just make my family/friends not now it was me. like fly to brazil or something, hang myself and just be goen. make them think i just disappeared
i know its not that related to waht OP said but fuck itd do that if i could
 
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sadbh—itstimetogo🤎

sadbh—itstimetogo🤎

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Apr 4, 2026
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Just have identifying stuff with you (ID, prescription meds, random official documents/records lol), but idk if @COP2CON knows more about body identification.
 
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DeathSweetDeath

DeathSweetDeath

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Nov 12, 2025
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You can't demand anything… you'll be dead. The best you can do is write who you want to identify you in your note, and hope that they honor that. If your parents live far away from each other, I'd CTB somewhere closer to where your dad lives, so you'll end up in a morgue that will take longer for your mother to get to. For myself, I have a small tattoo and a small, unique birthmark, so I'm hoping they can just make a positive identification with those, and that they'll be spared from seeing my face. I'll write that in my note, but they will not be obligated to do what I ask.
blasting your head off might increase the chances of police getting your family to ID you. If you want to avoid that then make sure you are very easily identifiable and lay out all you IDs in plain view.
Doesn't matter, the body would have to be identified anyway.
Just have identifying stuff with you (ID, prescription meds, random official documents/records lol), but idk if @COP2CON knows more about body identification.
It will still need to be identified.
might depend on your country, but couldnt you just have your id in your pocket?
In the United States, they'd still need to be identified.
 
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DeathSweetDeath

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Ok, I had read that being identified by someone who knew you was just standard procedure, but I wanted to be sure. According to this, it isn't. Someone reposted this informative thread a while ago. I thought it would hold the answer and it does, right on page two…

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Good news, @poplover @MonkeyButter @sadbh—itstimetogo🤎
 
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