she broke up with me and apparently she never loved me

[lovelulu]

I dont even want to talk about everything she said. I dont think everything's hit me yet, but it probably will soon. I would just appreciate if someone could help me on how to get over this.

 

[Canto XIII]

I've never been in a relationship so I can't give you specific advice (if my subpar mind is capable of giving any advice at all). Don't make abrupt decisions right after a traumatic event. I usually find that simple pleasures (eating, reading, watching movies) help me abate bad feelings when they're overwhelming, but it's just my personal experience, and I'm a very pleasure-driven person. Also there's therapy, I don't really believe in it for myself anymore, but if you've never tried it would be irrational not to make an attempt in that direction (just keep in mind it comes in many different flavours).

 

[Aqua_Velvet]

Sorry for you being told that, seems they were being unnecessarily harsh.

I found going outside often to public places with a lot of people helped. Sitting at home alone tended to make it easier to focus on the loss, so distractions help in the beginning.

It gets easier over time.

 

[millennium]

Been there recently, it's never easy but I hope you're hanging in there. Also I love your Ethel Cain thingy that's one of my favorite songs

 

[searchingforpeace]

I went through the same she was an alcoholic Try to lie about it the whole time All I can say is it takes time It's been 7 months for me so far