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tiredxillenial
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- Jul 19, 2020
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On a whim I searched 'sucide (name of where I work) employee.' I thought there would be a number of hits, but pretty much everything that came up was related to one suicide a few years ago that was in the media pretty heavy with a missing person report and then report of the body being found several weeks later. What I saw tonight is that there was a huge (hundreds of pages) document about the death investigation that was released to the media. I don't know if such long reports are done for 'regular' suicides or deaths, but I certainly don't think they are released to the media if so! Anyhow, it's upsetting because I would want to just disappear and I don't want anything about me being published or anything. Does anyone know anything about how to keep yourself private after you go missing or act? I'm in the States. Would giving a damed note stop authorities from potentially releasing a long ass report with your private information to the media? I'm not as high level as the employee who commited suicde a few years ago, but with c*v*d a suicide probably would be in the media because of the field I'm in/where I work.
The employee who committed suicide a few years ago I think probably had childhood trauma/abusive parents based on what was in the article I read. I feel for him and relate because that's my situation too. He was dashing-- probably not someone I would have suspected was suicidal if I interacted with him at work. I don't know if people would say the same about me. I don't think work knows how depressed I am. I have been doing my darndest to mask the depression and suicidality, but with c*v*d I think I maybe have been giving off subtle indications.
The team lead wanted to check in with me a few weeks ago because I had my camera off on the first zoom of the year. My supervisor had/has c*v*d and I thought the team lead was calling with bad news about my supervisor. We talked a bit and after a few minutes I couldn't really contain my anxiety and kinda freaked out a bit and asked if my supervisor was OK. I thought the team lead was just touching base with me first before she was going to say my supervisor was in the hospital or had died. She told me she wasn't calling with bad news; she mentioned being a mom a few times and commented about my camera being off. Maybe some supervisors are expecting stress from c*v*d and are "on alert" for indications of depression or suicidality in employees. I don't know if it reveals anything about me that I automatically assumed she was calling with bad news about my supervisor and c*v*d.
I don't have immediate plans to act right now and am trying to access more intensive treatment. Been trying to for several months. Different parts of me have different orientations to hopefullness, living, etc. I want to know how to keep a danged 600 page document on me from being released to the media though if I act! I would love for there to just not be an investigation. It's scary how much can be known about you from store records, surveillence video, and asking the public for tips.
The employee who committed suicide a few years ago I think probably had childhood trauma/abusive parents based on what was in the article I read. I feel for him and relate because that's my situation too. He was dashing-- probably not someone I would have suspected was suicidal if I interacted with him at work. I don't know if people would say the same about me. I don't think work knows how depressed I am. I have been doing my darndest to mask the depression and suicidality, but with c*v*d I think I maybe have been giving off subtle indications.
The team lead wanted to check in with me a few weeks ago because I had my camera off on the first zoom of the year. My supervisor had/has c*v*d and I thought the team lead was calling with bad news about my supervisor. We talked a bit and after a few minutes I couldn't really contain my anxiety and kinda freaked out a bit and asked if my supervisor was OK. I thought the team lead was just touching base with me first before she was going to say my supervisor was in the hospital or had died. She told me she wasn't calling with bad news; she mentioned being a mom a few times and commented about my camera being off. Maybe some supervisors are expecting stress from c*v*d and are "on alert" for indications of depression or suicidality in employees. I don't know if it reveals anything about me that I automatically assumed she was calling with bad news about my supervisor and c*v*d.
I don't have immediate plans to act right now and am trying to access more intensive treatment. Been trying to for several months. Different parts of me have different orientations to hopefullness, living, etc. I want to know how to keep a danged 600 page document on me from being released to the media though if I act! I would love for there to just not be an investigation. It's scary how much can be known about you from store records, surveillence video, and asking the public for tips.