Venting People are already suffering enough

[FuneralCry]

People are already suffering enough in this existence and many of us just come here as we want a place to vent about our wish to die. "Venting" doesn't mean we are looking to be lectured by pro-lifers and to be asked "why are you still here", I literally don't get people who ask that as if we could all just have the option to die painlessly in a straightforward way there wouldn't be much need for this site in the first place. It's sad to me how those who hate life just get hated for it but anyway I'm not even surprised, I guess it's just the way things are, humans are such a toxic and insensitive species.

But anyway, the word venting just means that someone is writing down their feelings, it doesn't mean they are looking for others to tell them the way they are feeling is wrong, and to be so judgemental, this place isn't bored people's entertainment. If people are so pro-life and love their life they should just go and enjoy it, people come here to escape from pro-lifers in the first place. Suicidal people deserve a safe space where without being labelled as "ill" by insensitive and deluded people where there is only ever support towards the wish to die but of course such a place would never exist as everything is so pro-life. But anyway the point is, that people shouldn't be so insensitive towards suicidal people, many of us feel tired enough and feel trapped in this existence

 

[Suicidebydeath]

I'm sorry for your suffering.

 

[WhiteRabbit]

To tell them the way they are feeling is wrong, and to be so judgemental

Aren't you the one always saying how people who want to live are totally delusional and wrong? You're one of the most judgmental people here.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I don't think that people are suffering enough; I think that people are suffering more than enough. Way, way more than enough. Especially when this existence has no bounds for how much a human being can suffer for. It's terrible just how much a human being can suffer for against their will

Either way, yes, people here really need to understand the venting tag as you place it for every single one of your posts and yet people act like it's a discussion. Time and time again people do this to your posts and for that you have my condolences. You are suffering more than enough and it's unfair at how your venting posts end up with arguments and people asking you stupid questions like "if you hate life so much, why are you still alive" and other stupid variations of this question. These people think that they're proving you wrong yet they inevitably prove you right

Unfortunately, even after you made this post addressing the issue, I just know that people won't change and things will just be the same ad infinitum. I'm really sorry you have to deal with this. I'm even more sorry that you have to deal with existence in the first place as none of your posts would even exist had there been a peaceful method available to us. But of course most humans like suffering and want to keep others for as long as possible and insult those who wish to escape; it's sickening

Either way, despite people being insensitive, I hope that you find peace soon and that you don't have to vent on this site ever again as you are in peace caused by the absence of experience and existence. It will happen inevitably so you will be free from this hell one day. I just wish you can be free as quickly as possible from this hellish existence

 

[doormat25]

People are already suffering enough in this existence and many of us just come here as we want a place to vent about our wish to die. "Venting" doesn't mean we are looking to be lectured by pro-lifers and to be asked "why are you still here", I literally don't get people who ask that as if we could all just have the option to die painlessly in a straightforward way there wouldn't be much need for this site in the first place. It's sad to me how those who hate life just get hated for it but anyway I'm not even surprised, I guess it's just the way things are, humans are such a toxic and insensitive species.

But anyway, the word venting just means that someone is writing down their feelings, it doesn't mean they are looking for others to tell them the way they are feeling is wrong, and to be so judgemental, this place isn't bored people's entertainment. If people are so pro-life and love their life they should just go and enjoy it, people come here to escape from pro-lifers in the first place. Suicidal people deserve a safe space where without being labelled as "ill" by insensitive and deluded people where there is only ever support towards the wish to die but of course such a place would never exist as everything is so pro-life. But anyway the point is, that people shouldn't be so insensitive towards suicidal people, many of us feel tired enough and feel trapped in this existence

I wish all bullies to suffer for eternity.

 

[LifeIsCrazyNemb]

Aren't you the one always saying how people who want to live are totally delusional and wrong? You're one of the most judgmental people here.

Agree. This user is ridiculous.
I already put her in the "ignore" mode but her repetitive and anoying messages keep appearing lol
What do we need to do to ban this user? Shes anoying to everyone here.

 

[walkingdead2023]

People are already suffering enough in this existence and many of us just come here as we want a place to vent about our wish to die. "Venting" doesn't mean we are looking to be lectured by pro-lifers and to be asked "why are you still here", I literally don't get people who ask that as if we could all just have the option to die painlessly in a straightforward way there wouldn't be much need for this site in the first place. It's sad to me how those who hate life just get hated for it but anyway I'm not even surprised, I guess it's just the way things are, humans are such a toxic and insensitive species.

But anyway, the word venting just means that someone is writing down their feelings, it doesn't mean they are looking for others to tell them the way they are feeling is wrong, and to be so judgemental, this place isn't bored people's entertainment. If people are so pro-life and love their life they should just go and enjoy it, people come here to escape from pro-lifers in the first place. Suicidal people deserve a safe space where without being labelled as "ill" by insensitive and deluded people where there is only ever support towards the wish to die but of course such a place would never exist as everything is so pro-life. But anyway the point is, that people shouldn't be so insensitive towards suicidal people, many of us feel tired enough and feel trapped in this existence

I did say " why you still here?" In a couple of posts but not to be rude or judgmental, just to know why as simple as this and I'm not a pro life or death I'm just a girl with a lots of pain inside me. I feel like "it's ok to ask questions too as long as it's within the policy they have here" I being suicidal since the age of 13 which it was my first attempt and my dad made a huge anger scenario about it to scare me off and never do it again…I agree with you we should be sensitive I know some of us including me getup in the morning with a bad mood and might throw a rude comment or worlds here and there it's just I do hate my life so I'm miserable

 

[divinemistress36]

Op has Autism. Repetitive behavior and words is a part of their condition

 

[Suicidebydeath]

Damn, imagine hating on someone for being autistic, and for suffering and having to explain what venting is and why people should be allowed to vent about suffering without facing a slew of criticism.

It sure would be nice if people could just vent about suffering without being judged. I won't say that it's everybody except FC, because I've seen judgmental posts in other vents, but complaining about a vent about suffering is a new one to me, on here.

Aren't we all suffering?

 

[Dot]

Agree. This user is ridiculous.
I already put her in the "ignore" mode but her repetitive and anoying messages keep appearing lol
What do we need to do to ban this user? Shes anoying to everyone here.

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If thy r viol8tng rles thn rport thm

 

[walkingdead2023]

Agree. This user is ridiculous.
I already put her in the "ignore" mode but her repetitive and anoying messages keep appearing lol
What do we need to do to ban this user? Shes anoying to everyone here.

How do you know she's annoying everyone in here? I'm not annoyed I read all her posts and they all make sense! With all my respect, I don't think you should generalize how you feel. This user is well respected.

 

[4everDone]

Agree. This user is ridiculous.
I already put her in the "ignore" mode but her repetitive and anoying messages keep appearing lol
What do we need to do to ban this user? Shes anoying to everyone here.

Never been annoyed by @FuneralCry ever since they appeared here
If you can't understand how someone views an argument from different sides then it's your problem.
Please don't project your rude opinion onto others.

 

[Myforevercharlie]

Agree. This user is ridiculous.
I already put her in the "ignore" mode but her repetitive and anoying messages keep appearing lol
What do we need to do to ban this user? Shes anoying to everyone here.

We don't ban people because they are annoying.

 

[Whale_bones]

I think it's telling that users who have been here for years have a more nuanced view of this. Everyone's opinion has a place here, even if it's at one end of a spectrum and isn't likely to change. I disagree strongly with some of FC's views, I agree strongly and relate to some others. But from what I've seen, she doesn't come on to other people's posts to argue with them.

Sure, I feel somewhat frustrated that by her view I'd likely be considered a pro-lifer when in reality I am strongly pro-choice. But I don't see her going to other threads and specifically calling people pro-lifers. There are plenty of occasions where users are purposely inflammatory by commenting on someone else's post to accuse them of a moral failing. FC just doesn't do that, and she should be allowed the same respect as anyone else to state her views.

With that said, I do think that since this is a forum, it's reasonable to expect responses when you write a new post. I don't think it's wrong to respond to a FC post as we would any other, if it brings up a topic of discussion for you, but just like we would for anyone else, we should keep it civil, respectful and discussing the opinion rather than criticizing the person.

 

[Imprisoned]

Please ignore the hate.. Some of us find your posts comforting and relatable, and even if they are a bit "repetitive", I still enjoy reading them because my suffering is also repetitive. My days and life are repetitive. Your posts are super relatable and help me feel less alone in this world of suffering.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

Shes anoying to everyone here.

She doesn't annoy me. Actually, she's my favourite user here and, if I was forced to ctb with somebody watching me, I would choose her as she isn't selfish to where she would stop me. She'd respect my choice. I can't say that I think you would do the same.

I like her posts a lot. She's the reason why I stopped hating myself as, in the past, I used to thought that I'm the reason for all of my issues but reading her posts made me realise that I'm just a victim and that I should hate existence instead. Because of her vents, I no longer wished to grab a knife and cut myself as I'm innocent and I don't deserve all of this suffering... screw those who say otherwise. After all, if I wasn't ever born, I wouldn't have to suffer in the first place. Because of her, I rightfully dislike existence instead of myself.

Her posts gives me comfort too. All this time, when I was hating myself, I felt like something was missing, that I'm only hating myself because society taught everybody that those who want to die are people who consider themselves as burdens and self loathe. However, FC didn't fit society's definition of those who wished to die. She didn't want to die because of a mental issue but rather because of existence itself and this was unheard of to me as I haven't seen a suicidal person like that before. I didn't understand her at first but I understand her now and, because of that understanding... she provides me a lot of solace and comfort in this cruel, cruel world

 

[Deleted member 8119]

Aren't you the one always saying how people who want to live are totally delusional and wrong? You're one of the most judgmental people here.

I think the problem lies here. I normally like her posts, but I really don't like being called "insane" for not wanting to die. I don't have a lot of pain or reason to want to die, suicide is extremely taxing mentally and she also said dying it's not easy. I think if OP was a bit understanding with us she wouldn't get hate. Not wanting to die is totally different than thinking life is good, you know?

I don't think the heat she gets is justified, though.

 

[curiousbeing]

She doesn't annoy me. Actually, she's my favourite user here and, if I was forced to ctb with somebody watching me, I would choose her as she isn't selfish to where she would stop me. She'd respect my choice. I can't say that I think you would do the same.

I like her posts a lot. She's the reason why I stopped hating myself as, in the past, I used to thought that I'm the reason for all of my issues but reading her posts made me realise that I'm just a victim and that I should hate existence instead. Because of her vents, I no longer wished to grab a knife and cut myself as I'm innocent and I don't deserve all of this suffering... screw those who say otherwise. After all, if I wasn't ever born, I wouldn't have to suffer in the first place. Because of her, I rightfully dislike existence instead of myself.

Her posts gives me comfort too. All this time, when I was hating myself, I felt like something was missing, that I'm only hating myself because society taught everybody that those who want to die are people who consider themselves as burdens and self loathe. However, FC didn't fit society's definition of those who wished to die. She didn't want to die because of a mental issue but rather because of existence itself and this was unheard of to me as I haven't seen a suicidal person like that before. I didn't understand her at first but I understand her now and, because of that understanding... she provides me a lot of solace and comfort in this cruel, cruel world

your post was wonderful. I am glad that this community exists. This is one of few places where i feel like i belong to & i matter