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- Nov 18, 2023
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I don't have a girlfriend anymore. I haven't had sex for months because of this. And in theory I'd really like to have sex before I end things.
Prostitution is legal in my country. So I've considered just hiring a prostitute for like the day before or whatever. To be able to have sex one last time. But, idk, I'm conflicted about it.
Part of it is that I've always been someone who's tied love and sex together. I've never really had casual sex or wanted casual sex. I've always wanted sex to be in a loving relationship and for me it has always been that way. But I can hardly find another person to be in a loving relationship with before I end things and even if I could, that would seem kind of unfair to that person considering that I know what I'm going to do.
So the choice at this point really is to either hire a prostitute or die without having the chance to have sex one last time.
There's also the side problem that if I end up not being able to go through with it, that I'll have violated my own principles about casual sex for bad reasons and I'll have to live with that. That idea sucks too.
So, yeah, I just don't know.
On the one hand, the idea of not being able to enjoy sex one last time before I end things really bothers me a lot.
On the other hand, it's not like I'm going to remember it afterwards. And the thought of having sex with a prostitute does make me kind of uncomfortable. And they're rather expensive. And if I end up not being able to go through with it afterwards I'll have to live with it.
There's also something I do find beautiful about my last time having been with my previous girlfriend, the woman I loved more than I've ever loved anyone before.
So... idk, I'm conflicted.
Prostitution is legal in my country. So I've considered just hiring a prostitute for like the day before or whatever. To be able to have sex one last time. But, idk, I'm conflicted about it.
Part of it is that I've always been someone who's tied love and sex together. I've never really had casual sex or wanted casual sex. I've always wanted sex to be in a loving relationship and for me it has always been that way. But I can hardly find another person to be in a loving relationship with before I end things and even if I could, that would seem kind of unfair to that person considering that I know what I'm going to do.
So the choice at this point really is to either hire a prostitute or die without having the chance to have sex one last time.
There's also the side problem that if I end up not being able to go through with it, that I'll have violated my own principles about casual sex for bad reasons and I'll have to live with that. That idea sucks too.
So, yeah, I just don't know.
On the one hand, the idea of not being able to enjoy sex one last time before I end things really bothers me a lot.
On the other hand, it's not like I'm going to remember it afterwards. And the thought of having sex with a prostitute does make me kind of uncomfortable. And they're rather expensive. And if I end up not being able to go through with it afterwards I'll have to live with it.
There's also something I do find beautiful about my last time having been with my previous girlfriend, the woman I loved more than I've ever loved anyone before.
So... idk, I'm conflicted.