Venting My Favorite person lied to me..why am I so dramatic?

[jeevasO-o]

Please my day was already going so horrible. Why do I need to find out now that she's lying to me??
She just told me she lied about her age. It's not a big deal at all, I know. It's just a small difference. I thought she was 21, because that's what she told me, but she's actually 19.

Why do I feel so horrible right now? I wanna cry. It's like she lied to me my whole life.. it's not even a big deal. I'm 20. It's not a big difference at all but it feels so horrible. I don't know why. I trusted her with everything and I still do I think. It's like just weird.

Can anyone explain it?? I'm so confused why am I so hurt

[2]: and she told me she tried to CTB.. also like she's genuinely the ONLY reason I don't kill myself yet. I won't kill myself if she doesn't leaves me before or dies or something.

 

[tonicer]

Can anyone explain it?? I'm so confused why am I so hurt

Someone who lies about small things sometimes also lies about bigger things. That might be the reason.

Trust is hard to get but very easy to loose. I recommend talking with her about how you feel maybe she understands that your trust in her is lowered or damaged and tries to rebuild it.

Good luck. :)

 

[violetforever]

well i would be upset too because its already risky to trust people online. when u found out that person online lied u see why. are they telling u their actual age now or is this another lie? it leaves u questioning everything else too.

 

[Trueno]

Please my day was already going so horrible. Why do I need to find out now that she's lying to me??
She just told me she lied about her age. It's not a big deal at all, I know. It's just a small difference. I thought she was 21, because that's what she told me, but she's actually 19.

Why do I feel so horrible right now? I wanna cry. It's like she lied to me my whole life.. it's not even a big deal. I'm 20. It's not a big difference at all but it feels so horrible. I don't know why. I trusted her with everything and I still do I think. It's like just weird.

Can anyone explain it?? I'm so confused why am I so hurt

[2]: and she told me she tried to CTB.. also like she's genuinely the ONLY reason I don't kill myself yet. I won't kill myself if she doesn't leaves me before or dies or something.
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Trust takes a lot (or very little) depending on the person, if its the former for you it's wasted and broken effort which is why it could feel so bad. But another question, how close are you to them anyways?