Venting She just ghosts me ( rant sorry )

[LonelyPrince]

My friend is someone that needs a lot of "me time". Sometimes she doesn't answer for days. However, she hasn't been answering me for 4 days now while simultaneously being online in a videogame with her little girlfriend.

I just deleted allt the messages i sent because It just feels like i'm being mocked.

I already told her in the past that it makes me feel horrible and lonely but she keeps going with no shame.

It's the fact that she will come back and not even apologize and act as if nothing is wrong that pisses me off.
I'm not just an extra with whom you can talk to when your girlfriend won't answer or coddle you like a fucking baby.

I'm tired of being ignored.

It's not her responsibility to deal with me but at the same time we are friends, so why can't she just manage her time better with people and avoid leaving me out of her life?!
To think i also liked her romantically...it just stings more.

 

[YourLocalEdgelord]

Been there myself. One way friendships are the worst. All of my friendships have been like this so far.

 

[sacrilegeofsouls]

My friend is someone that needs a lot of "me time". Sometimes she doesn't answer for days. However, she hasn't been answering me for 4 days now while simultaneously being online in a videogame with her little girlfriend.

I just deleted allt the messages i sent because It just feels like i'm being mocked.

I already told her in the past that it makes me feel horrible and lonely but she keeps going with no shame.

It's the fact that she will come back and not even apologize and act as if nothing is wrong that pisses me off.
I'm not just an extra with whom you can talk to when your girlfriend won't answer or coddle you like a fucking baby.

I'm tired of being ignored.

It's not her responsibility to deal with me but at the same time we are friends, so why can't she just manage her time better with people and avoid leaving me out of her life?!
To think i also liked her romantically...it just stings more.

Should probably block her and never look back you seem like a person with self respect and you're not being unreasonable at all infact I think most people wouldn't put up with as much as you have already. you deserve to be respected and treated with importance and not be some third rate after thought that is only used for entertainment once they get bored. Don't waste precious moments of your life on someone that doesnt deserve it

 

[bl33ding_heart]

I've been ghosted by people I've been really attached to many times and each time it felt like a huge stab in the gut. Especially because of my bpd. I understand how you feel. You honestly deserve much better friends, ghosting is such a shitty thing to do.

 

[meowpuppy]

i really relate.. in all of my relationships, i've put more in than i've received, in terms of love, attention, mental resources.. i can't just, leave any one person, because it's always like this with everybody. for me, i'm trying to establish non-human connections, like books, games, shows, movies, even just fictional characters, and trying to plunder all the love and joy from them i can..

i think you should leave her, by the way.

 

[SASU-KE]

i'm trying to establish non-human connections, like books, games, shows, movies, even just fictional characters, and trying to plunder all the love and joy from them i can..

This is actually pretty smart. Well put.

 

[webb&flow]

you have a painful history with this person. I don't think staying friends with this person will go well. Besides, they're not reliable with text responses, anyway.

prince how did you meet your friend? if possible i think new friends could really help you move apart from this person and the hurt she's caused you.

there are better friends and people in this world <3. i wish you all the best in your future connections to come

 

[LonelyPrince]

you have a painful history with this person. I don't think staying friends with this person will go well. Besides, they're not reliable with text responses, anyway.

prince how did you meet your friend? if possible i think new friends could really help you move apart from this person and the hurt she's caused you.

there are better friends and people in this world <3. i wish you all the best in your future connections to come

Thank you webb. She isn't a bad person and I love her too much to let her go. We discussed it and I figured out that she struggles answering to people due to her anxiety, which is a lot worse than mine. At least it isn't because she doesn't care about me...

 

[alwayspissedoff]

I'm in a similar situation, it makes me feel so fucking lonely. and with me at the same time they're also a romantic interest for me. makes me feel worthless.

 

[webb&flow]

Thank you webb. She isn't a bad person and I love her too much to let her go. We discussed it and I figured out that she struggles answering to people due to her anxiety, which is a lot worse than mine. At least it isn't because she doesn't care about me...

im so happy for u prince!!! im rlly glad you're able to continue this friendship u rlly care about

im wishing her and most of all u the absolute best in all your company together to come!!!