My boyfriend is leaving me

[leap_from_life]

I really love him but I can feel him being more and more distant, colder and colder everyday, we barely talk lately and didn't see each other for 3 weeks now, I tried to talk with him about it but he said that he's too busy. It hurts so bad he's my only close person I don't have anyone except him, I can't blame my bf he also have hard time but I feel like I'm dying without his company... fuck my abandonment issues and this horrible life

 

[CTB Fella]

Fuck him.

You're better than this.

 

[mrwizard11]

I know how you feel. Nothing takes the pain away. My wife left me after 10 years and she was my best friend, world, and everything. I wish there had been some huge argument or infidelity or something that made it easier to get over her, but it was nothing like that. She just fell out of love and one day decided she didn't want to be married anymore. My world was ripped in half and I feel like I will never get over this. I have nothing to live for anymore.

 

[FuneralCry]

I guess that after all you cannot trust and rely on other people in this world, other people can just very easily make things worse and create more suffering, it's the reality. To me it's certainly for the best to just be alone but it must be so awful what you have to go through.

 

[hellispink]

Don't let anyone make you feel like you are being too much. You ain't asking for much. At all. You are not even asking for anyting. He is not giving you not even 15% of the 100% he should be giving. It is not about your abandonment issues, its him the problem dont you see it? He just doesn't care about your feelings or needs. He makes you feel like you are the one in the wrong like your the one bothering. But he is the one that does not care he is just waiting for you to end it. I suggest you get rid of anyone that gives you so little you deserve way more

 

[infinitedaydream]

You're not the problem and you deserve to be treated with respect. To not even be given the time of day to talk? You're not asking for the moon to be put in the palm of your hand, you deserve better 100%. The man I loved was very cold towards the end too, emotionally dead to me. But it's okay, knowing I tried my best. And you did too! <3

 

[ThatStateOfMind]

As hard as this may sound, he's likely going to leave you soon, as you titled it but it doesn't appear like he's said as much yet. My ex did this to me, we didn't see each other for two weeks (we used to see each other daily) and she broke up over the phone. As hard as it may be, you've got this, just try to keep your head up. You're amazing, and I'm sure you've got this! :)

 

[Depression]

I really love him but I can feel him being more and more distant, colder and colder everyday, we barely talk lately and didn't see each other for 3 weeks now, I tried to talk with him about it but he said that he's too busy. It hurts so bad he's my only close person I don't have anyone except him, I can't blame my bf he also have hard time but I feel like I'm dying without his company... fuck my abandonment issues and this horrible life

I understand how you feel. When my ex left I was devastated. The loneliness killed. I had no one to talk to. If you need to reach out to talk feel free to PM. I know I just wanted someone I could vent to. Even if they didn't know what to say, it felt nice to have someone to voice everything to