Make A Friend megathread

[LifeQuitter]

Hi, would like someone to talk about anything really. I can't PM.

Chat & PM is locked because your post count is too low.

 

[SylveonFan]

Hey, im a 18m honestly just looking for friends. I really like things that would be considered nerdy, like anime and video games. If you wanna be friends, feel free to pm me!

 

[walkingcorpse13]

Hi I'm wal 21M I'm from the SEA region
I guess looking for ppl to talk to?
My interest usually weeb stuff love vocaloid
I do plan to ctb soon though so just be wary of that and I understand if you don't wanna deal with that

 

[let.me.let.go87]

37F she/her I love anime (one piece, my hero, attack on titan, demon slayer, fairy tale, im actually relatively new to anime so always open to finding more anime to explore!!) and heavy metal I also love to read, I love crafts when I'm not depressed, I collect and hoarde stuffed animals lol I sometimes play video-games (PS5 only it's the only console I have courtesy of my husband buying it for me for Christmas) I am married so no I'm not looking for anything weird, ijs lol. I have discord and telegram and am open to using them if you pm me your handle. Sarcasm is my love language lol don't take anything I say to heart if I say something sarcastic. I also love to exchange silly memes and reels

 

[rafinhacomedor]

Hi, I'm new here. I'm 27 boy.
I live in Brazil, ny English is not to good, but I can understand and keep a conversation in english. I'm in a college, I study law, I work in a library. I love books, movies and tv shows, I like soccer too, music and debates.
I have depression and anxiety, and I've beem investigate about obsessive-compulsive disorder. I consider myself as ugly and unattractive.

 

[wounded_warrior]

37m from Australia, regional Victoria. PTSD, MDD, GAD.

Looking to chat with someone who gets it. I'm not looking to CTB but I have attempted. I now have a son so I can't try again. Happy to talk with anyone who understands poor mental health and wanting to CTB.

I'm into F1 racing, gaming, gardening and homesteading, test cricket, reading and creative writing (especially fantasy), I like all kinds of music. It's all good if you're not into any of these things and still want to chat. DM me for a yarn. Thanks .

Edit - DMs now unlocked and open.

 

[Kusogaki]

Hello, Im Kuso. Ive been on this rock for 19 long years. Never had a real friend but it's something that I've always wanted before I CTB. PMs open.

 

[acey]

37m from Australia, regional Victoria. PTSD, MDD, GAD.

Looking to chat with someone who gets it. I'm not looking to CTB but I have attempted. I now have a son so I can't try again. Happy to talk with anyone who understands poor mental health and wanting to CTB.

I'm into F1 racing, gaming, gardening and homesteading, test cricket, reading and creative writing (especially fantasy), I like all kinds of music. It's all good if you're not into any of these things and still want to chat. DM me for a yarn. Thanks .

don't think I can send DMs to you likely as you are a new member, but would love to chat.

 

[wounded_warrior]

Hello, Im Kuso. Ive been on this rock for 19 long years. Never had a real friend but it's something that I've always wanted before I CTB. PMs open.

don't think I can send DMs to you likely as you are a new member, but would love to chat.

Thanks it should be 24 hours about now but I'm not sure how many posts I need to do before they open. Looking forward to chatting.

 

[acey]

Thanks it should be 24 hours about now but I'm not sure how many posts I need to do before they open. Looking forward to chatting.

I believe it is 10 posts, but I may be wrong

 

[droppedmysyrup]

Make A Friend Megathread

NOTE: Read this thread fully before posting!

It can be hard to find someone who understands, and can relate to suicidal and depressive thoughts.
This thread is to facilitate the possibility of meeting a friend who can understand that, or just to find someone who is on your wavelength.
There is no mandatory format for your post, just give a bit of info of what you are looking for e.g interests etc.


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Understand that:
There are many risks involved in trusting a stranger, including but not limited to being lied to, being used for personal gain, being given random or harmful information, differences between you two, blackmail, pranks, and many more. Be sure you truly understand the risks, even for something as simple as getting help from someone or helping someone. We only provide a place to get in touch with others who think like you, you take full responsibility for what happens next.

Please feel free to contact mods with any concerns of problematic behaviour; any issues can be dealt with confidentially and discreetly.

hii I'm rocky (18m) , I'm a high school dropout that doesn't speak to many people
I make music and I love spend most my time on my pc just playing games or making songs. I also spend a lot of time just scrolling not doing much.
I'm super desperate for a some sort of friendship or mutual relationship just hmu and lmk. :6

 

[Vikgrim]

39F from the southern US. I'm autistic and have anxiety and MDD. I'm cool with chatting about whatever from video games to music or just listening to someone's thoughts.

I love animals. I have spoiled bunnies as pets. On my good days I love to play video games. Right now that's Baldurs Gate or Wuthering Waves. I've been getting back into Animal Crossing too. I like some anime. Just don't ask me what anime, because I will literally forget every single one that I've ever watched. I just finished watching House of the Dragon and Fallout. I enjoy listening to music. Kinda obsessed with Ghost and The Beatles. I'm quite awkward but I try.

Open to talking to anyone around my age.

 

[Edistrying]

I'm 29 yo, female

I'm looking someone just to talk and make some friends, sometimes my head want to CTB but I start the meds two weeks ago so I'm just waiting for take effect and hope for recovery . While that happen i try to survive and meet some people. (Girls, 25-35years, on recovery, even better if they speak spanish)

 

[numbed one]

Hi , i'm 26 ans i need Friends .. i mean Real Friends not some people who will Say i wont show m'y face etc , i'm moroccan and i'm schizophrénic btw but now i'm good also i wanna talk about something i'm not sure about please

 

[ra1nw3rldd]

Hi

if there are any like music nerds / rateyourmusic.com users out there we might have something to talk about,,,
(my profile is linked on my page)

im almost 23
from New Zealand

i used to be like an actually very advanced guitar player but never had the right people around me & life has been cruel

trapped living with my parents away from the city, not able to go out and do anything at night, cant drive, caught in a catch-22 where i cant move out without probably doing stuff that will be even worse and make me want to kms even more

tried to study something nornal and boring at uni, but it was miserable & i could barely even learn anyone's name let alone make friends
so other than 2 support group sessions, family (horrible), & medical professionals, the last in-person conversation i had was March and the last one before that October

i dont actually want to kms, and probably won't in the near future, but its hard to see a possible future for me or much on the horizon

i might consider paying for guitar lesssons again

also lol, i thought i might have like an identity disorder but might really be trans

a song thats on my mind: SALEM - 666

Salem - 666

vk.com/bcepabho www.last.fm/user/BCEPABHO

on.soundcloud.com

(oh and i guess i can play videogames or something if anyone wants to do that)


(and some more about me: i was around some Trotskyists last year and my worldview is a little informed by that, marxists and third-worldists, that kind of thing
i went through so much stress i guess (and probably undiagnosed ADHD) that this year at uni i became like basically unable to read.
(ive dropped out now)
im trying to get back into it and convince myself im not retarded by reading like fiction, Clarice Lispector seems really cool but really im just starting out so far..)

 

[murmur]

22F SoCal
Been reluctant to do so but im looking for something casual, see where it goes. As far as i can remember ive had a hard to time relating with others, though I do enjoy listening, gaining new perspective however small. Despite having been aloof most of my conscious life, ive been approached innumerable times for advice/as a voice of reason by acquaintances and peers, people have told me that they feel comfortable being vulnerable with me rather quickly, or that i seem like an "old soul" with older folk ive interacted with. I'd love to share some similar interests but its not expected. If anything strikes a chord, feel free to talk or nerd out in the PM. Music: Interpol, Eels, Pinback, Depeche Mode, Pj Harvey, Aphex Twin, NIN, Cocorosie, Mew, MSI, XTC, Xiu Xiu, etc. Movies: Paper Moon, One Hour Photo, Tekkonkinkreet, Southland Tales, etc. Miscellaneous interests: philosophy, psychoanalysis, paleontology, archeology, deep ecology, magical realism fiction, obscure finds on the web, traditional animation (generally older anime/cartoons), French comics, old tech, manga, i like to draw, etc. Currently interested in learning some about guns if that applies.

 

[Velvet Fortress]

28M, Canada

Into anime and games, mostly Honkai: Star Rail atm while looking for other things to play. Into all kinds of music, interested by politics (progressive), generally curious about anything artistic and cultural, I also love nature and animals even though I spent most of my time stuck home in my city.

I like to think of myself as kind and open-minded, though a little absent-minded. I always try to better myself and to be a more useful, more interesting person, even though I struggle to even keep my life's baseline together. Surviving has been very difficult lately.

I speak english and french.

 

[yellowjester]

Hey,

I'm hesitant to post here but I really need someone to chat with. Ideally someone in my age range (20-35) who's read some of my posts and feels like we might see eye to eye on things.

I find introductions very tedious and would prefer if we gradually got to know each other through our conversations.

 

[horrorvacui]

Hiya!

You can call me Horror! i'm a 25yo transgirl (any pronouns is fine tho, I just prefer feminine ones) who's into alternative music in the goth genre, basically: Post-Punk, industrial, Nu wave, deathrock, goth rock and I like other alternative music scenes. My favorite all time band has been Nine Inch Nails since I was a wee little lad long ago.

I used to be decently active with left wing political activism locally in my area. so I don't mind discussions about political theory, current events, contemporary philosophers of the 19th and 20th century and just history in general, etc etc

For my free time, i enjoy playing video games, just hanging out with friends, etc etc. i've recently been playing Baldurs Gate recently and a bit of roblox. Anime and watching shows on a streaming service is p fun too.

I'm kinda quiet when I first meet someone new, but when we get to talking I usually warm of pretty fast depending on how well we click. I'm a v open book and a good listener when it comes to problems as my friends have told me, so i dont mind being an open ear for anyone who needs it

I have discord if u wanna hmu :3

 

[Life_and_Death]

hey

looking for someone to talk to.
nothing specific, just bored and have been wanting to make friends (not in a situation/havent found a place to yet)
pass the time?
maybe talk again tomorrow?

i personally dont care about your age/gender ect but if youre curious and dont know im 25f.
although ive been thinking of myself less of a gender and more as just existing lately. idk, im going off on a tangent anyway

please message me with conversation (chat doesnt notify)
hope to hear from someone

 

[Darkhaze_]

Hey I'm Darkhaze,
27F, straight, London.

Open to being friends with preferably M or F who are 21+.
I could really do with some support and to be less alone, just to feel like someone actually cares. Really struggling. I will also be supportive.
Please be aware that I'm planning to CTB, don't know when but hopefully sooner than later if I find the courage.
I would probably find it difficult to relate to someone in recovery but that doesn't mean that would rule out being friends - so don't let that put you off if you are doing okay.

I like to believe I am kind, understanding and trustworthy.

If you are interested in having a chat (doesn't matter what it's about), message whenever.

 

[eashanm]

Hey, I'm Eashan. 29 years old. If anyone wants to chat.

 

[Meowmeownextweek]

Hey I'm Darkhaze,
27F, straight, London.

Open to being friends with preferably M or F who are 21+.
I could really do with some support and to be less alone, just to feel like someone actually cares. Really struggling. I will also be supportive.
Please be aware that I'm planning to CTB, don't know when but hopefully sooner than later if I find the courage.
I would probably find it difficult to relate to someone in recovery but that doesn't mean that would rule out being friends - so don't let that put you off if you are doing okay.

I like to believe I am kind, understanding and trustworthy.

If you are interested in having a chat (doesn't matter what it's about), message whenever.

I can't message u, I think ur post count is too low :(

 

[yunzzzk]

28M, Canada

Into anime and games, mostly Honkai: Star Rail atm while looking for other things to play. Into all kinds of music, interested by politics (progressive), generally curious about anything artistic and cultural, I also love nature and animals even though I spent most of my time stuck home in my city.

I like to think of myself as kind and open-minded, though a little absent-minded. I always try to better myself and to be a more useful, more interesting person, even though I struggle to even keep my life's baseline together. Surviving has been very difficult lately.

I speak english and french.

Would love to get to know you! I am 27F in Toronto, surviving my days and a new member :)

 

[Velvet Fortress]

Would love to get to know you! I am 27F in Toronto, surviving my days and a new member :)

I think I can't DM you because your account is too new, feel free to send me a message if you can

 

[AbsurdAbyss]

21M, no life, nothing to lose, determined to ctb. it'd be nice to talk to somebody before i go.

 

[kinderbueno]

Hi I'm kinderbueno and I'm 18F
I'm an ex muslim living in the UK. I'm always here if you ever wanna talk about anything regardless of your age. I just love listening to people talk about random stuff. I'm always free if you wanna vent about anything, I'm good at listening. If you're also an ex muslim then reach out! I'd love to hear your experience, but anyone is welcome to DM me about anything

 

[wellitisnotwhatitis]

21M. Happen to live in NYC
You love anime? Quentin Tarantino and similar vibe movies? Would be nice to spend time together :3

 

[Solomonking]

Hello friends my name is solomon, "I am 26 years old and looking for a true friend who
shares my interests and passions. I often feel like an
outlier and haven't made any friends yet. I enjoy going
to bed early and waking up early, reading history,
sitting in quiet places with candles lit, listening to
Baroque music, and thinking deeply. My family may
poke fun at my habits, butI am comfortable with my
lifestyle. I would be delighted to meet someone who
has a similar personality."

 

[Lullaby]

Hi,

Really spiraling and this is my attempt at trying to make something good happen.

I'm a 30F from NY, birthday recently just passed. I've been on and off SS since 2018.

Really into music and gaming for the most part, as well as reading when I can focus.

I'll listen to anything that sounds good, but I'm really into niche/alternative stuff (electroclash, punk, dark wave, etc). I've also been trying to learn French for the last year or two, so that's 80% of what I listen to or watch these days.

I'm also a big animal person; I was working within the field up until recently and I have my own cat.

I do kind of struggle with communication, because I'm so used to being alone and closing myself off from people. I just don't like dragging others into my depressive vortex, but I do miss having people to chat with - especially with so many on here knowing what the struggle is like with depression and suicide. It makes me feel less judged.

If we do chat and I'm inconsistent with replying, please don't take it personal! It's just me, but this is my way of trying to make better habits.