Lonliness is the worst thing ever

[Tartuffe]

I hate it, my plan was for tomorrow.but I'll probably delay for a week or two. I just live in my own bubble. I may go tomorrow still

 

[Unattainable666]

I hate it, my plan was for tomorrow.but I'll probably delay for a week or two. I just live in my own bubble. I may go tomorrow still

I agree it is a horrible feeling. I understand completely.

 

[kakapepe]

Wanna talk? :)

You are not alone in feeling burnt out. You are not alone in feeling discouraged. You are not alone. — TWLOHA

 

[downndone2]

I hate it, my plan was for tomorrow.but I'll probably delay for a week or two. I just live in my own bubble. I may go tomorrow still

I completely understand, loneliness is the worst. Feel free tobreach out if you need to talk

 

[silentdude122]

feel you man

 

[theboy]

You are not alone
Im with u :)

 

[WorthlessCoward]

I would argue (strongly) that being surrounded by shitty people all the time everywhere is a worst feeling

Although that too could be said it's a form of loneliness

 

[UKscotty]

Not sure I agree. I think I am better off without people.

Other people are just out for themselves, looking for ways to screw us over.

Better alone.

 

[Blackrose23]

I hate it, my plan was for tomorrow.but I'll probably delay for a week or two. I just live in my own bubble. I may go tomorrow still

I feel you. The person I loved and trusted the most left my life and I feel lonely as hell. This hurts.

 

[dimstar]

This is what's been pushing me over the edge too. I dont know how people can easily make and keep people close. Hurts when it's what you really want but cant seem to achieve. Sorry for your struggle.

 

[warmsand]

Loneliness is what pushed me here. I can't understand human interaction no matter how hard I try. Why does it come so easy to so many people? Why couldn't that have been me?

No point in dwelling on it. I am who I am. The best we can do is try to get used to it, though at times the pain is unbearable. I am sorry to hear you are suffering from this. It really is the worst.

 

[absolomonisgone]

Loneliness is what pushed me here. I can't understand human interaction no matter how hard I try. Why does it come so easy to so many people? Why couldn't that have been me?

No point in dwelling on it. I am who I am. The best we can do is try to get used to it, though at times the pain is unbearable. I am sorry to hear you are suffering from this. It really is the worst.

The issue may not be loneliness it may be temperament. We don't want to be with people. We fear people or we hate people.

 

[FuneralCry]

I do understand that loneliness can be painful for many people but I see it as being for the best to be alone personally. You cannot trust and rely on people, and other people just create more problems.

 

[SilentSadness]

I think it's a shame we have to be alone to avoid betrayal and cruelty but it's just one of the unfortunate torments of life. There is no winning in a game that wants us to suffer from the very beginning. I hope you find friendship sometime anyway.

 

[Madanascar]

Loneliness and self imposed isolation/atomization is the worst

 

[H.O.Xan]

y do u think this loneliness epidemic hpnd? Well other than covid. And oh yh, if loneliness was a crime, i'd b sitting on death row by now

 

[tiredone]

I am lonely while in relationship.

 

[Dead Ghost]

I do understand that loneliness can be painful for many people but I see it as being for the best to be alone personally. You cannot trust and rely on people, and other people just create more problems.

You confuse solitude with loneliness. I explained it in another thread, I have only suffered loneliness past the age of 38, despite having enjoyed solitude all my life. Loneliness is devastating for anyone.

You can't understand what loneliness is until you suffer it yourself, no matter how much they tell you... it's horrible. Fortunately today I don't feel it in the same intensity and I can enjoy my loneliness, because with respect to people it happens to me like you, I distrust them and I don't feel at ease at all.

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Confons solitud amb soletat. Ho vaig explicar en una altre fil. Jo només he patit la soletat passats els 38 anys, tot i haver gaudit de la solitud tota la meva vida. La soletat es devastadora per a qualsevol.

No es pot entendre que és la soletat fins que la pateixes tu mateix, per molt que t'ho expliquin... és horrible. Afortunadament avuí día no la sento en la mateixa intensitat i puc gaudir de la meva solitud, ja que respecte les persones em passa com a tu, desconfío d'elles i no m'hi trobo pas gens a gust.

 

[Madanascar]

I explained it in another thread

Mind sharing a link?

 

[leavingsoon99]

I don't mind being alone. People are just mean and selfish. But, loneliness does suck.

 

[Dead Ghost]

Mind sharing a link?

Everyone can find love?

Many normies claim everyone can find their mate and being lonely is purely your fault. And lonileness should never a reason to feel depressed or even suicidal. Just get a haircut, shower. Maybe hit the gym (physically disabled can't really do that) and you will attract many mates. Also just...

sanctioned-suicide.net

He was just explaining the difference between loneliness and solitude. They are words of a very different nature.
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Només explicava la diferència entre solitud i soletat. Són paraules de naturalesa molt diferent.

 

[Gotstobegoodstuff]

Unless you have some weed, mary always keeps me good company. Feel you tho when I'm sober

 

[Madanascar]

Everyone can find love?

Many normies claim everyone can find their mate and being lonely is purely your fault. And lonileness should never a reason to feel depressed or even suicidal. Just get a haircut, shower. Maybe hit the gym (physically disabled can't really do that) and you will attract many mates. Also just...

sanctioned-suicide.net

He was just explaining the difference between loneliness and solitude. They are words of a very different nature.
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Només explicava la diferència entre solitud i soletat. Són paraules de naturalesa molt diferent.

Thanks

 

[WonderfulWeatherDIE]

I hate it, my plan was for tomorrow.but I'll probably delay for a week or two. I just live in my own bubble. I may go tomorrow still

Mmhmm it is the worst thing ever. Its about as deadly as smoking 20 packs of cigs every day. Loneliness is no joke. Sadly we as humans have been hardwired by nature to be social creatures, so when those needs arent met we kinda just... Die.

 

[sparkle]

it's a terrible thing but I don't think about it much any more, even though I can feel it consuming me. I haven't hung out with my only "friend" in over a year, even then it was only to abuse drugs, what a great relationship we have.

 

[downndone2]

I'm so lonely but the only person I want is not in my life and relationship is not repairable. My dogs keep me company. Sleeping sometimes helps too

 

[outrider567]

Mmhmm it is the worst thing ever. Its about as deadly as smoking 20 packs of cigs every day. Loneliness is no joke. Sadly we as humans have been hardwired by nature to be social creatures, so when those needs arent met we kinda just... Die.

With Patti gone to heaven, my loneliness is especially acute, which is why I don't really consider myself among the living these days, more like among the barely living

 

[Duochrome-Seahorse]

I've been feeling that way too as of late. At first I thought I was ok being alone, but the more I see people with friends and loved ones I can't help and look at myself and think, "is there something genuinely wrong with me that no one wants to be with me?"

 

[orca87]

I've been feeling that way too as of late. At first I thought I was ok being alone, but the more I see people with friends and loved ones I can't help and look at myself and think, "is there something genuinely wrong with me that no one wants to be with me?"

I get that feeling. And to me: yes, there is something genuinely wrong with me. I wouldn't want to be with myself either. So there is no one I could blame. In fact, people were mostly nice to me… that's why I'm on this site…

 

[Tartuffe]

I wrote the OP

It looks like I'm not the only person feeling this way. I had a good life mainly and always isolated my self and I dont mind my own company. But after losing my family I am properly on my own. I always had them there and responsibilities. I dont feel I can or even want to reach out to people I was friends with before I settled down. Knowing I will CTB soon I dont want to build a friendship with anyone for obvious reasons