Darkover

Darkover

Angelic
Jul 29, 2021
4,732
I've always found it funny, that life seems to be struggling after a struggle, yet there is no reward, nothing you get, in the end, life is just the lead-up to death.
I don't really see the point in doing something this hard, for this long, without getting something out of it.
In the end, it all just seems pointless.

Just keep pushing and making enormous efforts, only to start at the bottom of the mountain again. Reward is sheer luck, there is no rule that all hard work should yield results

Life seems like an endless stream of tedious, Pay bills, work, clean the house... maybe if you are really lucky, you can afford a holiday once in a while.

What's it all for? What's the point of it?

you struggle for much of your life, juggle anxieties with depression, health issues, jobs, etc. and you're always just so exhausted. By the time death comes, you at least know the struggle and burden of life is over.

life is a struggle. Being born means struggle. That's for all living things.
 
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JKFleck

JKFleck

Betrayed by my only friend, nothing left to lose
Oct 1, 2023
211
Agreed, your parents F each other and boom you're dragged into this world
Guaranteed Risk, Zero reward
 
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tbroken

tbroken

Wizard
Feb 22, 2024
689
Completely True. I finally understood it and I will ctb in 2 or 3 months. I'm useless and I'm a liar like many of us, but most of all i have some deep scars,that will never go away.
 
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divinemistress36

divinemistress36

Illuminated
Jan 1, 2024
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I feel like we are in purgatory
 
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Meteora

Ignorance is bliss
Jun 27, 2023
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I agree.........
 
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sserafim

sserafim

brighter than the sun, that’s just me
Sep 13, 2023
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Life is a struggle/game where the reward isn't worth the risk
 
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R_N

R_N

-Memento Mori-
Dec 3, 2019
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Where did this "reward" idea originated from I wonder. Religions?

I think it just makes people have unrealistic expectations. Life is chaos, things happen and being owed something is a human concept.
 
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sserafim

sserafim

brighter than the sun, that’s just me
Sep 13, 2023
9,013
Where did this "reward" idea originated from I wonder. Religions?

I think it just makes people have unrealistic expectations. Life is chaos, things happen and being owed something is a human concept.
I guess my point is that the pain in life outweighs the pleasure. So much pain and so little pleasure…
 
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RollingGiant

RollingGiant

stay cool
Jan 25, 2024
29
Yeah, this is true. A lot of the time people deal with dissatisfaction with their life by focusing on some goal off in the future that they think will finally give them lasting happiness and make all the shit they've gone through in life worth it. Unfortunately, it's easy to see that other people who've already achieved that goal aren't going around in some blissful state; they still have problems just like everybody else. Whether it's a certain job, a great relationship, making art, having kids, travelling the world, or any other dream that people have, on the off chance they actually achieve it, the satisfaction that comes always lasts shorter than they expect.
 
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Hunter2005

Experienced
Apr 15, 2023
224
Agreed, your parents F each other and boom you're dragged into this world
Guaranteed Risk, Zero reward
Bad enough it's just two people who didn't even like each other in the first place
 
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R_N

R_N

-Memento Mori-
Dec 3, 2019
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I guess my point is that the pain in life outweighs the pleasure. So much pain and so little pleasure…
Dw I was just thinking about the concept op was talking about, it was not aimed at you or anyone in particular.
 
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aWeeBitTired

aWeeBitTired

I don't know anything.
Feb 25, 2024
48
I agree. Feels like happiness is only a fleeting moment in a dune of depressive existence.
 
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