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Which is harder and more frightening to attempt?”


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cookji

Member
Mar 24, 2026
49
Which is more frightening, jumping from a building or drowning?

"The building is about 20 stories high.

Is anyone else thinking about these two options?"

The initial step of going into the water seems easier, but I've heard the suffering afterward can be intense. As for jumping from a building, the attempt itself is difficult—it's hard to take that first step."
 
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fightclub17

fightclub17

Hopefully ctb on the 9th of April
Mar 3, 2026
250
I think jumping 20 stories would be scary AF! I survived 8 stories and am broken and traumatised.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
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I have considered jumping from a bridge into water. My worry is jumping and then drowning.

I'm tempted to say I fear drowning more but then- I've experienced that feeling of running out of air underwater more than falling from height. I imagine both are terrifying though.
 
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Emerita

Emerita

the look of death
Jan 16, 2025
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I believe drowning would be worse, as the sensation of being trapped would be agonizing. But easier to attempt as initially less scary.

Jumping might bring more nerves, but the few seconds falling, there's no turning back seems somewhat freeing, and the adrenaline rush would be intense. Probably harder to attempt, initially more scary but less agony.

I would rather attempt jumping because I'd prefer scary over agony. And I just think like an adrenaline junky and that helps get over part of the scariness of jumping.
 
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mustard tiger

mustard tiger

Member
Mar 27, 2026
36
I think the jumping is less scary because you have a good chance of instant death
 
Moodz

Moodz

Member
Aug 7, 2025
12
Jumping seems less frightening to me, but I'd rather choose a bridge than a building. I think it makes it easier, psychologically. I also would not like to die on a god damn sidewalk and potentially endanger other people.
 
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OnMyLast Legs

OnMyLast Legs

Too many regrets
Oct 29, 2024
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Jumping has the worse start

Drowning has the worse finish
 
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Echo

Hell is empty and all the devils are here
Dec 1, 2022
550
Both seem scary to me.
cant say I'd enjoy the feeling of air hunger from drowning and lungs filling up with water. And to actually step off to jump, you gotta be seriously determined because I imagine si to be strong.
 

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