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- Sep 13, 2023
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Is it dumb to ctb because someone doesn't want to be your friend? It's increased my suicidal ideation and made me both sad and mad
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It's not dumbIs it dumb to ctb because someone doesn't want to be your friend? It's increased my suicidal ideation and made me both sad and mad
Why you care? Open the door and tell them goodbye! This type of friend is not worth to die for even if you're hurt " get yourself together" you deserve better!Is it dumb to ctb because someone doesn't want to be your friend? It's increased my suicidal ideation and made me both sad and mad
He's a guy from this website and I wanted to be his friend but he didn't want to be mine anyways he deleted his account though, I thinkA friend is very different than a partner. You don't share things the same way. Anyways the answer is no - if you are introverted you don't really need friends as it's just stress everytime you go out or people please so much that it drains you.
Best friend? Dog. With none of the draw backs of gash humans.
Usually I don't care about people, but I liked this guy and I'm sad about him not wanting to be my friend. I don't like being rejected; I feel it on a personal levelIt hurts your feelings equally as anything else does, it's not any different. I personally could take the pain and just move on but there's people who will be hurt more than me, so it's different for everyone. And no, it's not dumb, it can't be. No one can judge you because it's a subjective opinion of each person.
I wouldn't get too fixated on anyone (even here because the end goal isn't being here so they won't be your friend when they are gone). If you have a partner - that's your friend (as long as they are in for the long run and don't leave you due to financial or medical) if they do leave you because of that it just burns your insides and you don't trust anyone anymore - yes that's me.He's a guy from this website and I wanted to be his friend but he didn't want to be mine anyways he deleted his account though, I think
As an introvert and Virgo - don't. Even when I dated - I checked profiles and text and went out on 4 dates before my previous partner. I wasn't checking their finances, past, etc - I was trying to not let them into mine becuase I don't know them.Rejection hurts like Hell . Hopefully you can find some fellow introverts you can vibe with
I don't want a partner. I've never had one and I have no need for one. For some reason, I liked this guy though and I'm sad about how he didn't want to talk to me anymoreI wouldn't get too fixated on anyone (even here because the end goal isn't being here so they won't be your friend when they are gone). If you have a partner - that's your friend (as long as they are in for the long run and don't leave you due to financial or medical) if they do leave you because of that it just burns your insides and you don't trust anyone anymore - yes that's me.
As long as people are open to chat and generally honest then take that as being a "friend" to an extent. The reason people here don't have friends in the real world is because they can't relate to us. Even dogs can smell your hormones and mood changes and adjust how they act lmao. My dog picks up on things that my parents don't - yeah that's how shite people are.
i don't believe so. i want to ctb after my "best friend" got with the girl i was dating and in love with. everyone has a right to live or not. i wish you the best with whatever your intentions are.Is it dumb to ctb because someone doesn't want to be your friend? It's increased my suicidal ideation and made me both sad and mad
That's what I mean. It's a catch 22. You'll only get someone to truly trust you and be your friend as a partner. You won't get that with a "friend" they'll drop you or ghost you when you aren't useful anymore. You do it enough - it blackens you into a void.I don't want a partner
Haha a friend just asked me if I wanted his neighbors parrot but he said the thing is mean and demonicAs an introvert and Virgo - don't. Even when I dated - I checked profiles and text and went out on 4 dates before my previous partner. I wasn't checking their finances, past, etc - I was trying to not let them into mine becuase I don't know them.
Friends - don't even bother. It's not the same as a partner.
Get a dog or a parrot (if you have the money and time) and you'll be more content.
I already have a dog, but for some reason, I just wanted to be friends with this SS user. I don't know why I liked him. He left the site thoughAs an introvert and Virgo - don't. Even when I dated - I checked profiles and text and went out on 4 dates before my previous partner. I wasn't checking their finances, past, etc - I was trying to not let them into mine becuase I don't know them.
Friends - don't even bother. It's not the same as a partner.
Get a dog or a parrot (if you have the money and time) and you'll be more content.
That really saddens me. I bet it was an impulsive buy. Parrots don't just get "mean and demonic" - it's either from phyxological abuse or just shitty people. The amount of stupid people who cuddle and pet around the chest, wings, tail, just makes them hormonal and begin an egg cycle. Which has a high chance of killing them.Haha a friend just asked me if I wanted his neighbors parrot but he said the thing is mean and demonic
It's probably cope, trauma, attachment or something else. If you messaged them directly all they had to say was "I'm better now thanks for the chat - cya around" or something. If it was just public forum stuff then that's harder but that's the reality.I already have a dog, but for some reason, I just wanted to be friends with this SS user. I don't know why I liked him. He left the site though
I'm sorry about that. Those things can really make you sad as they're in your memory like a lingering weight on your mind. Anyways, I hope you'll feel better soon, wishing you good luck.Usually I don't care much about people, but I liked this guy and I'm sad about him not wanting to be my friend. I don't like being rejected; I feel it on a personal level
Wdym?It's probably cope, trauma, attachment or something else.
He told me that he was gonna delete his account and asked if I had any last words. I honestly don't even know why I liked this guy lolIf you messaged them directly all they had to say was "I'm better now thanks for the chat - cya around" or something. If it was just public forum stuff then that's harder but that's the reality.
You know how bad people are. I think seeking them out doesn't really help. There is an exception here but it's online and most of us are countries away.
I feel like this is a trigger though because I've been suicidal for a while now (for other reasons), but I hate this rejectionUh, yeah.
No one likes rejection. But, I found out through living (I've been alive a lot longer than you) that you can't control what other people do, only your reaction to it, and I'll be damned if I ever give anyone that kind of power (life or death) over me. Life and the circumstances that come along with it (systemic) may have that kind of power over me, but no person is ever going to (again). I'd never kill myself over what anyone did to me.I feel like this is a trigger though because I've been suicidal for a while now (for other reasons), but I hate this rejection
Sounds like obsession! This is deep issue you're dealing with.He's a guy from this website and I wanted to be his friend but he didn't want to be mine anyways he deleted his account though, I think