If you died today, how many people would truly mourn your death?

[Haku]

1

 

[Umbra]

Four

 

[okaoki]

no one , not even stray cats/dogs .

 

[Saroshi]

Maybe my immediate family.

 

[Mort]

No one my folks just be piss at having to spend money to get rid of my rotting corpse. Mind you bin looking into ways of getting rid of this unless piece of meat. I found out if you get the write paper work i can be dumped in the local tip well it an old query. But good news it dont cost to much to not got the full price yet as i need a big big very big box to put me in. But should solve any problems that my folks might have of getting rid of me.

 

[EdifyMeIn92078]

Maybe 4 close friends. Husband for sure because he needs the guy who sponsored his fucking greencard to be alive. He'll ask his boyfriend though and the BF will be dumb enough to do it.

There'll be several versions of the delayed email that go out. One will include all the HR people at my shitshow erstwhile employer. It's unreal how my most recent job has gone just like my marriage did. "We love you, and you'll get to ______________________ just as soon as you've changed some things about yourself." Employer, husband, fuckin same story.

 

[morningdew]

3

 

[Jake88]

Probably most people that know me. The ones that aren't total sociopaths anyway. I'm the one always cracking jokes and telling people about the good I see in them, even if I don't know them very well.

You guys would actually be surprised at how many people would mourn you. Nice people are mourned, it doesn't matter how fucked up you feel on the inside. If you treat others with respect? They will mourn you.

To the few on here that don't have anyone that would mourn them, but want someone to? I have no idea why you would, but feel free to send me a message so I can get to know you. I won't ignore anyone. I fall off of the face of the earth though, so if I don't reply, I assure you that I didn't get it and will reply as soon as I do.

 

[JTG1972]

Mostly just my wife. Her family would be sad but more for her than for me. I don't think they ever thought I was good enough for her, which is true. That's it.

 

[blahblah]

My child would be devastated, initially. Thats what's kept me here for so long. However, my functioning is so shit now that I think it would be better in the long term if I go. I wish I could just disappear, I feel very guilty. Anyone else can basically go fuck themselves, but I suppose my parents/siblings might care in some way, or pretend to. I can't decide whether or not to write them a note. I'd rather my last 'words' to be full of love and forgiveness but it seems so fake.

 

[cant cry]

I'm not sure anymore. It used to be my mother and a child I looked after, the only things keeping me alive. Now my Mom's going senile and the child has moved on. The rest of my family will be sad but I don't know if anyone will seriously grieve or not.

 

[Bagger]

My mom, and maybe 2-3 online friends. Everyone else remember or care about me only when i have money or drugs.

 

[DoNotLet2]

mom, grandma that's all maybe father a little bit the rest wouldn't care or they would be happy

 

[vonvonwantpeace]

Girlfriend. Parents although I couldn't really give a shit. Maybe a couple of people from here but I doubt it. Btw nice pic. I remember when that came out. Good times in comparison. Can't believe it's been so fucking long.

"What're ya buyin? Not enough cash, stranger!"

 

[Rachel74]

Family, partner and dogs and a few friends.

 

[Astral316]

One guy might be bummed for a few days...

 

[Reyki6667]

0

 

[lofistos345]

Mom. But, my other family members would celebrate the news of my death, since it would be one less to share the inheritance.

No one cares that you die. That's the truth. Unless you are famous or very important no one cares.

 

[puppy9]

Probably the members here. I hope.

 

[Morphinekiss]

Parents, my grandmas, maybe one friend I've had for 20+years. My sister would be practical about it and everyone else I know would be sad for show, maybe sad for a week or so, but that's it.

 

[epic]

LOTS ! That is what makes it so difficult :(

 

[RedPanda]

Hmmm, probably just my dad. Thats about it. People forget about you very quickly as well, nobody really cares.

 

[Miserable]

My mother, that's it

 

[Neverod]

Maybe one friend, that's all.

 

[lonelykiwi]

Maybe 6 if im "lucky"

 

[KiraLittleOwl]

Only my father
But he has other children and hopefully get over this

 

[mpnf]

I think my sisters and a couple of aunts would be sad and maybe like 2 friends of mine.

Does it really matter?

Nobody. It would be like I never existed. I won't even have someone to pick up my body.

You are in New York city. Don't the lights and the skyscrapers views give you a bit of hope?

 

[Panopticon021]

I've recently had a failed attempt, so I have figured it out.

Immediate family. No real friends. Wife. Nobody in the wider community.

My two small sons are the ones keeping me here, and the ones who would miss me most. They are 4 and 6, gorgeous children. Pity that Dad is a basketcase.

I draw scenarios in my head about their happy ending. My wife mourns, then meets another guy. He's awesome. Nice house, car, boat. Coaches the sports team. Soon enough they call him dad. When people ask my sons about their real dad, they will be like "oh, my real dad died when I was 4, its OK, (new dad) is my dad, he's all I've ever known"

Kinda fucked up right? I've got DEEEEP depression and anxiety issues, and I've normalised these thoughts and others. I'm ready to go

 

[Azzy69]

none

 

[Numbtopain97]

just my mother