From the news of my life - a clear case of my interactions with my mom.
I call her telling that I don't have enough space on the phone, so I need 1 EUR for Google Drive to transfer the files to. And that my cable doesn't work to do it otherwise. Her reaction? Fear. I try to explain that there is nothing to fear, but that's her whole response.
I say that this case highlights how incompatible our personalities are, and that in a better world we would have to avoid any and all interactions. She asks whether that means not talking, but her serving me silently. I say "no, absolutely no interactions". And continue that I did mention a way forward to accomplish this a long time ago. She at least picks up on my hint that it's suicide (finally she remembers something), but calls it blackmail. To which I scream and shout that it's a vile misrepresentation and libel, hanging the line as she grows hysterical.
P.S. She has called me again, telling how she has given me the money, and when she's going to prepare me food, and how she has sent me the words for me to translate into English for our granny. So see, it's not all bad, but it's still rather cringe, and we can't actually have a dialogue. No points of connection.
On another note, my "future gf" (who reminds me terribly of my mom, and that's not my fetish) has been surprisingly useful in one curious way - by mentioning the "Slowly" app (what a dumb name) which attempts to give an illusion of long-range correspondence. It's like r/MakeNewFriendsHere but with long wait times for responses to the "letters" - thus prompting to put in the effort into the messages instead of vomiting the drivel of one-liners. Also, no real-life pictures! A decent idea, honestly, I can appreciate. I have already written my pseudo-suicide note there lmao. It feels nice to write even without expecting a response.
My first response was to some gay dude in America - because I thought I could respond something about media - how media is trash about everything it touches, regardless of the subject.
Another response was to a girl who said both about not using AI AND not seeking a relationship - those are kind of high-IQ points.
The third was to an Israeli dude who wrote in Russian and to whom I responded in English - probably a mistake, shouldn't be a monolingual beta, but I'm just not sure in my native language skills.
The fourth one, it was a Russian girl who liked anime and Tolkien, so I finally defeated my shyness and wrote in the language of Lenin... Apparently, having made a disgusting slew of typos because my phone skills are dogshit, ew. But e for effort! And I could quote a song about the elves by Epidemia, and even mention the old Russian Tolkienist forum Arda na Kulichkah, so I'm proud of it.
The fifth one has been a Ukrainian boy writing a short letter about his interest in philosophy... With a disgusting list of punctuation errors (not typos). Well, I did try to write to him in my native Ukrainian, but the phone keyboard is hopelessly overflown with the multitude of buttons for all the characters, clearly not made with any use in mind - so I switched to English half-way through. I can only talk about Nietzsche anyway. And the worst thing is that... he's replied! Why, just why.
On the last point, I think the Gboard Google keyboard is better, whereas the baseline keyboard is worse, but still, the Ukrainian layout is incredibly trash, and impossible to use. Worse than Russian which isn't easy either. And I can barely use English because I have no phone skills.
Also, I'm nominally at 580 kanji now! Should finish this 200 character set, bringing it up to 640, and then revise-revise-revise! And maybe even learn some sounds with my mouth.
Also, yesterday, my future gf was inactive because she was apparently reading Harari and watching movies, so that's nice. And she says she's not angry with me. Maybe she's going to abandon me? I'm not sure, whatever.
Yesterday, too, I finally picked up a book! Patrick Geary about memory in the Middle Ages. But I didn't read him, I read some 10 page essay on the transition of pagan culture into Christian one in late antiquity - it was insanely dense, and I barely remembered anything. QED. But it wasn't anything ground-breaking anyway - yeah, the pagan culture did not disappear overnight, and either way the best pagan literary styles of the 5th century were being picked up and preserved for Christian use, something like that. Although it is my impression that starting in the 7th century, the Christians without the pagans started literally forgetting everything, changing even Constantine into a legendary founder of Constantinople and a finder of the True Cross (or his mom).
I kind of feel that using AI on such dense essays would yield better results. Or electrodes in the brains!
Apologies if this is too much. Yesterday I also talked to my Confucian scholar at length, some of points of interest - he apparently uses a DeepL translator for my messages which blew my mind. For long I knew something had been afoot because he was clearly copypasting his responses, but the quality of the translation is just mind-blowing! Of course, I'm a technophile, so I don't mind it. Also, the dead JP girl might have used one, too. Which makes me feel better about my own level of English.
P.P.S. Did I tell you that a week ago I discovered 5 lines of my DMs to some girl I barely knew from a school contest from 2012? Written in English! And the most amusing thing is that while I cringe at most things I write, especially this ancient, but in this case, I didn't even cringe... because what I wrote was not even comprehensible? I was literally calling Facebook my "long-range tool" and Skype "short-range". WTF was I even trying to say?
It was April 2012, sunny childhood days. I would only start immersing myself in Anglo YouTube around summer 2012 - and in 2014, would get a B level on some international test, if my impression is correct (the listening part was of a disgustingly trash sound quality). But I was supposed to have attended my English tutor for 3.5 years at that point? Was it that useless, in fact? Or without him, I wouldn't have started listening to Anglo YouTube? Questions, questions...