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Parnate

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Dec 16, 2021
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So there is this person A who I considered to be a good friend. There is another person S . So we had an office event. A went and bought alcohol for everyone. Including me and S .
Everyone else paid the money to A .
A asked me to pay for S as well and take money from him. S is known for not paying his dues and A knew that, yet he pulled me into this. This happened months ago and I realised yesterday. I am feeling overwhelmed by this .
 
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psp3000

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May 20, 2023
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Does this mean you paid for S drink and then asked S for the money for their drink to give to A ?

If you paid the money S owed for their drink I think you should get the money from S and A should not since you paid for both S drink and your own drink

maybe I am confused

heres what I interpreted it as

A : bought all the drinks

Parnate : gave A what is owed for own drink + what is owed for S drink

A : tells Parnate to get money from S and bring it to them (A) because of history of not paying things back (although Parnate would be the person who is owed the money for S drink)
 
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Parnate

Specialist
Dec 16, 2021
301
Does this mean you paid for S drink and then asked S for the money for their drink to give to A ?

If you paid the money S owed for their drink I think you should get the money from S and A should not since you paid for both S drink and your own drink

maybe I am confused

heres what I interpreted it as

A : bought all the drinks

Parnate : gave A what is owed for own drink + what is owed for S drink

A : tells Parnate to get money from S and bring it to them (A) because of history of not paying things back (although Parnate would be the person who is owed the money for S drink)
Yes. I am disappointed with A cause we were close . He said so many times that I am very naive , gullible and innocent and yet he did this to me.
 
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bankai

bankai

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Mar 16, 2025
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So it seemed like A didn't want the hassle of dealing with S and pushed that burden onto you.

Definitely a dick head move.
 
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cemeteryismyhome

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Mar 15, 2025
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Leave the past behind and don't do it again, right? "A" has lost points with you. If "A" tries it again, don't go along with it. You'll know for sure by the reaction if there's really a friendship or not. Or, maybe, "A" was thinking you would do this as a favor and has no idea how it affected you.
 

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