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Parnate

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Dec 16, 2021
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So there is this person A who I considered to be a good friend. There is another person S . So we had an office event. A went and bought alcohol for everyone. Including me and S .
Everyone else paid the money to A .
A asked me to pay for S as well and take money from him. S is known for not paying his dues and A knew that, yet he pulled me into this. This happened months ago and I realised yesterday. I am feeling overwhelmed by this .
 
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psp3000

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Does this mean you paid for S drink and then asked S for the money for their drink to give to A ?

If you paid the money S owed for their drink I think you should get the money from S and A should not since you paid for both S drink and your own drink

maybe I am confused

heres what I interpreted it as

A : bought all the drinks

Parnate : gave A what is owed for own drink + what is owed for S drink

A : tells Parnate to get money from S and bring it to them (A) because of history of not paying things back (although Parnate would be the person who is owed the money for S drink)
 
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Parnate

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Dec 16, 2021
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Does this mean you paid for S drink and then asked S for the money for their drink to give to A ?

If you paid the money S owed for their drink I think you should get the money from S and A should not since you paid for both S drink and your own drink

maybe I am confused

heres what I interpreted it as

A : bought all the drinks

Parnate : gave A what is owed for own drink + what is owed for S drink

A : tells Parnate to get money from S and bring it to them (A) because of history of not paying things back (although Parnate would be the person who is owed the money for S drink)
Yes. I am disappointed with A cause we were close . He said so many times that I am very naive , gullible and innocent and yet he did this to me.
 
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bankai

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Mar 16, 2025
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So it seemed like A didn't want the hassle of dealing with S and pushed that burden onto you.

Definitely a dick head move.
 
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