Help I have a date tomorrow and I don’t feel so good

[HowSoonIsNow]

I've meet this person one year ago and they likes me a lot and we decided to schedule a date for tomorrow, I'm very insecure and I'm already crying bc I've never been in a date before and when I almost had the chance, while I was getting ready the girl canceled it cuz her friend showed up...I'm afraid that they won't show up, or forgot about us..

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

Send her a funny meme some time ahead of the date to subtly remind her of you. I've never had a date planned but I have some ways of dealing with anticipatory anxiety of other kinds. Meditation, stoicism, deterministic thinking, hard exercise, writing down every thought in combination with critical thinking, flow charts, venting to someone.

 

[HowSoonIsNow]

Send her a funny meme some time ahead of the date to subtly remind her of you. I've never had a date planned but I have some ways of dealing with anticipatory anxiety of other kinds. Meditation, stoicism, deterministic thinking, hard exercise, writing down every thought in combination with critical thinking, flow charts, venting to someone.

I'm very nervous cuz they're a late replier :(

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

I'm very nervous cuz they're a late replier :(

Separate your nervousness from the girl and the situation at hand. First priority is to handle the nervousness.

 

[Nexey]

Edit: Read it wrong the first time. I'm also a late replier. I'm not sure why that makes you nervous but I can assure you it doesn't necessarily mean she isn't interested. Either she's busy or is trying to pace things in a way she thinks is healthy.

 

[HowSoonIsNow]

Edit: Read it wrong the first time. I'm also a late replier. I'm not sure why that makes you nervous but I can assure you it doesn't necessarily mean she isn't interested. Either she's busy or is trying to pace things in a way she thinks is healthy.

I am a bpd :/

 

[HowSoonIsNow]

Separate your nervousness from the girl and the situation at hand. First priority is to handle the nervousness.

I'm very afraid thatb they might also don't show up :(

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

I'm very afraid thatb they might also don't show up :(

Then you're back at square one, not square zero or -1. Square one is a safe place.

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

Update!

 

[Symbiote]

I hope he didn't have to pay for both his date and her girl friend that she brought too. That be fucked up and he just got used as a meal ticket.

 

[Makko]

I hope he didn't have to pay for both his date and her girl friend that she brought too. That be fucked up and he just got used as a meal ticket.

I knew a girl who had a male contact on her phone named "free food". Never met him or got to learn his actual name, but I've heard her talk to him a few times and the dynamic between them was quite plainly just "free food". Why not? There's no reason to reject charity.

 

[summers]

Update!

No reply. Maybe it was such a good date, he's still recovering :)

 

[Symbiote]

No reply. Maybe it was such a good date, he's still recovering :)

His streudel was canoodled.

 

[Mentalmick]

Maybe she kidnapped him and threw him in the basement. She's probably beating him as we speak.

 

[Symbiote]

Or death by snu snu

 

[Mentalmick]

Or death by snu snu

The ultimate death. Big powerful women are awesome.