Venting I hate being a girl.

[KillerIsMe]

Of course she's going to choose female privilege, she's lived as a woman for her entire life. Men have their entire lives to learn the roles she is exploring and just jumping into that is going to make it appear daunting, scary and lonely. Not to mention the stress and isolation of pretending to be something you're not for a year. She lost it because it was misguided and unethical, not because women "have it easy".
What a hack.

One lesbian went "undercover" to experience the "male privilege" that comes from being a member of The Patriarchy to write a book about it.

The experience broke her. After 18 months she had to check herself in to a psych ward. She wrote a book about that too.

But she never fully recovered from the experience and went to Switzerland for an assisted suicide….

 

[MiMif]

Of course she's going to choose female privilege, she's lived as a woman for her entire life. Men have their entire lives to learn the roles she is exploring and just jumping into that is going to make it appear daunting, scary and lonely. Not to mention the stress and isolation of pretending to be something you're not for a year. She lost it because it was misguided and unethical, not because women "have it easy".
What a hack.

I don't think you watched the video. The video she never said man had it harder. She legit talked about how man talked bad about woman in private and commented about their bodies.
Tho yeah I agree with what you said.

 

[stscss]

In a few ways I feel the same. I'm so sorry it's like this :(

 

[fkyou]

Same.

 

[Yakamoz]

Like I really hate it so much. I feel weak and pathetic. When I was younger I was so confident and felt awesome with my body and physical capabilities.

Now I feel pathetic whenever I see a guy. I've also gained social anxiety whenever I see a guy. Like whenever one tries to talk to me or one walks past me on like an empty street I borderline start hyperventilating. I hate being a girl...everyone expects me to be cheery and all that but I can't. I hate the expectations and I hate how my body is and I hate how weak I feel. Honestly that's probably one of the top 5 reasons I want to ctb.

In every story the guys always the main charecters while the girls stay on the side to support them. Girls are also expected to be caring. I feel awful when my pet died I was relieved I didn't have to take care of it anymore. I'm the opposite of what people think a girl should be.
I feel like I don't matter at all. I hate being a girl. I feel like my existence is absolutely meaningless. I'm kinda a Christian and that's what makes it even harder.

God created Adam and created eve because Adam got lonely....then cursed eve with always submitting to man and having a man rule over her due to eating the apple. I always felt like I didn't even matter to God....just exist to support man and watch on the sidelines while they achieve things.

I hate being a girl and I hate being alive. I know I would still want to ctb if I was a guy because I hate myself and my personality sucks....but I still hate being a girl so much.

Why tho? You can date whoever you want most of the time

 

[MiMif]

Why tho? You can date whoever you want most of the time

What does that have to do with anything? dating isn't everything I'm also aroromantic so I doubt I'll ever actually want to be in a relationship. Dating doesn't ensure happiness as a matter of fact it can make you even more miserable

 

[Morte]

you don't have to be a man to be strong. Do you think a dick between your legs will magically make you strong? Power comes from effort, genetics and upbring, but has little to do with your biological sex.

 

[Yakamoz]

What does that have to do with anything? dating isn't everything I'm also aroromantic so I doubt I'll ever actually want to be in a relationship. Dating doesn't ensure happiness as a matter of fact it can make you even more miserable

aroromantic? never heard of it

 

[MiMif]

aroromantic? never heard of it

Basically not feeling any romantic attraction to anyone

 

[Yakamoz]

Basically not feeling any romantic attraction to anyone

sad stuff...

 

[steppenwolf]

Like I really hate it so much. I feel weak and pathetic. When I was younger I was so confident and felt awesome with my body and physical capabilities.

Now I feel pathetic whenever I see a guy. I've also gained social anxiety whenever I see a guy. Like whenever one tries to talk to me or one walks past me on like an empty street I borderline start hyperventilating. I hate being a girl...everyone expects me to be cheery and all that but I can't. I hate the expectations and I hate how my body is and I hate how weak I feel. Honestly that's probably one of the top 5 reasons I want to ctb.

In every story the guys always the main charecters while the girls stay on the side to support them. Girls are also expected to be caring. I feel awful when my pet died I was relieved I didn't have to take care of it anymore. I'm the opposite of what people think a girl should be.
I feel like I don't matter at all. I hate being a girl. I feel like my existence is absolutely meaningless. I'm kinda a Christian and that's what makes it even harder.

God created Adam and created eve because Adam got lonely....then cursed eve with always submitting to man and having a man rule over her due to eating the apple. I always felt like I didn't even matter to God....just exist to support man and watch on the sidelines while they achieve things.

I hate being a girl and I hate being alive. I know I would still want to ctb if I was a guy because I hate myself and my personality sucks....but I still hate being a girl so much.

So don't be a girl. Be the opposite of what people think a girl should be. Get tattoos, muscles and a moustache if it will make you feel better.

But I don't think your problem is with being a girl, it's with the patriarchal religious despotism's oppression and objectification of women. Just be assured that boys are also oppressed by its expectations - that they should ruthlessly compete with each other to dominate women whom they know in their hearts are at least their equals - and that most people don't really believe a single word of any of it, not even Orthodox Jews and Muslims.

So it's okay not to conform to the patriarchy's expectations of a girl i.e. cheerfully submissive and caring and secondary, and not knowing what on Earth life is for without a boyfriend, and completely unable to achieve orgasm. Girls have been refusing to conform to patriarchal expectations for thousands upon thousands of years. These days no one will throw stones at you for it. More likely they'll make a raised fist salute at you.

 

[flowers in the mist]

Please don't be too hard on yourself. I'm sure you are lovely in your own way.

I understand where you're coming from though. And frankly, expectations or norms of society limit people and make them feel bad. I feel like I can't freely express myself either without people looking down on me. It's not a competition on who has it worse, but it's just sad in general that it's like this.

I love a person who freely expresses themself, being in their own way. I'm sure there are many people out there that feel the same. And I hope a lot of these expectations of how someone should be are things from the past and that it will change, even if slowly. Although I'm not too optimistic about it changing.

Anyhow, anyone deserves to be the way they want to. And to me that is extremely attractive.

 

[MiMif]

Please don't be too hard on yourself. I'm sure you are lovely in your own way.

I understand where you're coming from though. And frankly, expectations or norms of society limit people and make them feel bad. I feel like I can't freely express myself either without people looking down on me. It's not a competition on who has it worse, but it's just sad in general that it's like this.

I love a person who freely expresses themself, being in their own way. I'm sure there are many people out there that feel the same. And I hope a lot of these expectations of how someone should be are things from the past and that it will change, even if slowly. Although I'm not too optimistic about it changing.

Anyhow, anyone deserves to be the way they want to. And to me that is extremely attractive.

Unrelated but omg your pfp. I love call of the night so much I legit just bought a nazuna figure she is my girl I love her she's so perfect . Anyways love your pfp

 

[flowers in the mist]

Unrelated but omg your pfp. I love call of the night so much I legit just bought a nazuna figure she is my girl I love her she's so perfect . Anyways love your pfp

That's awesome! I love her too!!! She's so perfect and a nazuna figure sounds so cool! I don't have one I swear call of the night is so underrated and nazuna is such a unique character

 

[MiMif]

That's awesome! I love her too!!! She's so perfect and a nazuna figure sounds so cool! I don't have one I swear call of the night is so underrated and nazuna is such a unique character

I'm a broke college kid but I got mine one ali express for like 10 bucks. She's in a nurse outfit. The one from when she gave the mc a massage or something

 

[flowers in the mist]

I'm a broke college kid but I got mine one ali express for like 10 bucks. She's in a nurse outfit. The one from when she gave the mc a massage or something

Ohhh yeah, that sounds awesome! I just rewatched it last week so I remember that well :>

That's really cheap too!

 

[Desp]

I wish I was a girl.

 

[MiMif]

I wish I was a girl.

Why?

 

[MiMif]

Where did you get the idea girls have to be weak and submissive? I've never felt that way in my life and I'm every bit a girl. I took karate and I'm aggressive. I'm frankly shocked to think anyone can think of girls as weak. Men yes, girls never.

My father and mother. Apparently according to them a woman must always please a man and a man can't take a woman who doesn't treat him like a king no matter what. That and honestly just society as a whole

 

[Desp]

Why?

I think it would be easier to get married and have a family.

 

[MiMif]

I think it would be easier to get married and have a family.

Do you know the life of most mothers?

 

[cryone]

I agree with you to a degree. I hate the feeling of being seen as inferior. It disgusts me the way people view me sometimes. I hate being catcalled and sexualized for no fucking reason. It just feels awful. Not saying it doesn't happen to men, but it's just so much more likely for a woman to experience it. I don't want to be a man, I just want basic respect.

 

[MiMif]

I agree with you to a degree. I hate the feeling of being seen as inferior. It disgusts me the way people view me sometimes. I hate being catcalled and sexualized for no fucking reason. It just feels awful. Not saying it doesn't happen to men, but it's just so much more likely for a woman to experience it. I don't want to be a man, I just want basic respect.

I don't want to be a man either...but then sometimes I do cause as a woman whos parents raised her in a Christian household I often feel like im not even the main charecter of my own life. And when I try to be man constantly push me down. I also can't stand being sexualozed when I'm legit just wearing completely appropriate clothing and catcalled.

Though another part of me loves being a woman and greatly admires woman who fight against stereotypes and all that I think woman are way better than man as honestly I'm not trying to be sexist and not saying all man are like this but alot of man I've seen have no heart and are pieces of trash to woman and even to each other.

I love woman and I know I would still be suicidal if I was a man as that's not my main issue but still I wish I didn't have to struggle just because of how I was born

 

[Meditation guide]

I don't want to be a man either...but then sometimes I do cause as a woman whos parents raised her in a Christian household I often feel like im not even the main charecter of my own life. And when I try to be man constantly push me down. I also can't stand being sexualozed when I'm legit just wearing completely appropriate clothing and catcalled.

Though another part of me loves being a woman and greatly admires woman who fight against stereotypes and all that I think woman are way better than man as honestly I'm not trying to be sexist and not saying all man are like this but alot of man I've seen have no heart and are pieces of trash to woman and even to each other.

I love woman and I know I would still be suicidal if I was a man as that's not my main issue but still I wish I didn't have to struggle just because of how I was born

If you possibly can, a good education and career is a good way to not feel the way you describe.

 

[Desp]

Do you know the life of most mothers?

Not really, but my older sister and my brother's wife, they are mothers, and they seem to be living a nice life.

 

[R_N]

it sucks to be either lol

Correct answer.

Also some of the men hating people here disgust me. Not naming but it is funny how some of them scream that women hating threads get locked while doing the exact same thing.

 

[MiMif]

Not really, but my older sister and my brother's wife, they are mothers, and they seem to be living a nice life.

Good for them however that isn't at all how my mothers life is. She takes care of everyone and everything. She takes care of all of my younger siblings the cleaning and since my father retired she is also the only one paying the income. She holds everything on her back and my father has never once apologized to her in the whole time I've lived with them even when he is obviously in the wrong. As a matter of fact he won't even let her speak at all and state her opinion without disrupting her and mansplaining then my mother just sits quietly and shuts up as my father talks. Honestly seeing my parents dynamic which is the reality fo4 many other mothers is the main reason why I am single on purpose and don't want children.

Once you become a mother your life isn't your own anymore you have to put your children above yourself. This is sometimes the case for fathers too but most of the times it goes on the mothers back. Tons of fathers don't know shit about their kids. I love my mother I really do but I don't want to be anything like her. Its almost as if she lives to serve others. The amount of times I've been told as a child she regretted having me says it all. She apologizes later but the truth is clear. I'm suicidal anyway I don't need to be Taking on more burdens and pretending to love people

Correct answer.

Also some of the men hating people here disgust me. Not naming but it is funny how some of them scream that women hating threads get locked while doing the exact same thing.

Nah fr they are acting as if I said that man's life's are easy while woman's are hard...I never said that I legit just acknowledged my struggles being a woman I never dismissed anyone else's suffering

 

[R_N]

Good for them however that isn't at all how my mothers life is. She takes care of everyone and everything. She takes care of all of my younger siblings the cleaning and since my father retired she is also the only one paying the income. She holds everything on her back and my father has never once apologized to her in the whole time I've lived with them even when he is obviously in the wrong. As a matter of fact he won't even let her speak at all and state her opinion without disrupting her and mansplaining then my mother just sits quietly and shuts up as my father talks. Honestly seeing my parents dynamic which is the reality fo4 many other mothers is the main reason why I am single on purpose and don't want children.

Once you become a mother your life isn't your own anymore you have to put your children above yourself. This is sometimes the case for fathers too but most of the times it goes on the mothers back. Tons of fathers don't know shit about their kids. I love my mother I really do but I don't want to be anything like her. Its almost as if she lives to serve others. The amount of times I've been told as a child she regretted having me says it all. She apologizes later but the truth is clear. I'm suicidal anyway I don't need to be Taking on more burdens and pretending to love people

Nah fr they are acting as if I said that man's life's are easy while woman's are hard...I never said that I legit just acknowledged my struggles being a woman I never dismissed anyone else's suffering

No worries I didn't meant you. I understand both genders suffer in their own way.