Venting i cant stand ppl that look better than me

[frail]

i feel fking crazy everytime i see a picture of someone on social media thats prettier than me or whatever i actually feel like im going insane. i start feeling so jealous that i get sick to my stomach and i just want to hurt myself, i dont know how to deal with it. everytime i see myself in the mirror i see a hideous ogre and i want to ctb. its not like i can just hide from attractive people forever, theyre everywhere and i just feel like dying every single time i have to make eye contact with someone who looks better than me. it feels like theyre pitying me or looking down at me for being so atrocious, like they know theyre better and im worthless compared to them. i hate it so fucking much and it feels like theres no point in me living if i have to look like this

 

[Kanau_Nano]

I feel the exact same

 

[Katatonia]

i feel fking crazy everytime i see a picture of someone on social media thats prettier than me or whatever i actually feel like im going insane. i start feeling so jealous that i get sick to my stomach and i just want to hurt myself, i dont know how to deal with it. everytime i see myself in the mirror i see a hideous ogre and i want to ctb. its not like i can just hide from attractive people forever, theyre everywhere and i just feel like dying every single time i have to make eye contact with someone who looks better than me. it feels like theyre pitying me or looking down at me for being so atrocious, like they know theyre better and im worthless compared to them. i hate it so fucking much and it feels like theres no point in me living if i have to look like this

I get what youre going through. This world is terribly cruel to people who dont look perfect. All because of some 'genetic lottery' that has no influence on how a person actually is. Wishing you the best.

 

[randomuser2348]

i feel fking crazy everytime i see a picture of someone on social media thats prettier than me or whatever i actually feel like im going insane. i start feeling so jealous that i get sick to my stomach and i just want to hurt myself, i dont know how to deal with it. everytime i see myself in the mirror i see a hideous ogre and i want to ctb. its not like i can just hide from attractive people forever, theyre everywhere and i just feel like dying every single time i have to make eye contact with someone who looks better than me. it feels like theyre pitying me or looking down at me for being so atrocious, like they know theyre better and im worthless compared to them. i hate it so fucking much and it feels like theres no point in me living if i have to look like this

undoubtedly you've heard it a million times before, but modern beauty standards are inherently flawed.

our physical attraction is rooted no longer in daily life, interactions with our peers, the ability to read an individual's features and determine possibly traits, but rather what a bigwig in hollywood is looking for in a victim and forces into the media we consume.

take a second to breathe. understand that differing from the norm is okay. walk down the street and ask yourself everytime you catch a glimpse of a stranger's face; have they ever been self-conscious? no? they probably have, it's within our nature.

you are the result of millions of years of human evolution. for countless generations, your features have been sought after at one point or another. your ancestors could look another in the eye, to tangle themselves in a physical and emotional embrace.

 

[Crematoryy]

I feel sorry for you, and I want to say that I experience the same thing every day. I am taking steps to desperately try to change this, from the first to the last moment I am awake. I have decided to dedicate myself to self-improvement (even though it seems like there is little I can change) instead of giving up on myself, or making a direct physical attack against those who possess the beauty I could never have.

(BECAUSE THEY NEVER HAD TO EARN THEIR OWN BEAUTY, THEY WERE BORN WITH IT, AND THAT SOUNDS LIKE AN OUTRAGE IN THE FACE OF MY SUFFERING)

Because while I felt self-loathing, they feel satisfied being themselves, they feel self-appreciation, while being reaffirmed through compliments and pre-acceptance of their appearance. THERE HAS NEVER BEEN INSUFFICIENCY IN THEIR LIVES.

Whether we like to accept it or not, human life is determined by the economic wealth and genetic inheritance one receives at birth. We are not what we want to be, we are not what we thought we could be, we are what the world has granted us to be, like a dictator imposing its rules, like prey caught in a material web.

But know that even if no one loves you, that doesn't make you less than anyone else. You deserve love, acceptance, admiration. It is unfair, as it continues to be unfair, that you don't have that. @frail

 

[bl33ding_heart]

I'm so sorry you have to go through that, that sounds horrible . You likely don't wanna hear this, but there is so much more to people than their looks. And I don't know what you look like of course, but it's statistically proven people have a worse view of their appearance than is actually true. I hope you feel better soon. Much love.

 

[SoLowHollow48]

Fellow chopped girl!

I don't necessarily feel this way because at this point, I just don't give a fuck about how I look anymore. I get stares of disgust and offense but so what? Am I supposed to just not exist? Bruh. I have a life much bigger than your entire social media following and fanbase.

With that face? What the hell do you even know about life?

Then again, I'm not saying that pretty people have it easy either. Models get abused all the time. Actors and actresses are pumped with steroids and ozempic just to fit a role. But what I'm saying is that they don't recognize the challenges we face by looking like this. When they say that looks don't matter, it don't because MFs never been known looking regular degular like the rest of us.

Best thing to do is to just imagine, vividly, how someone or even a group of people, are tired of their shit even with that body.

They're no better than you.

 

[Forveleth]

Photoshop, filters and AI. Social media is fake. Do not compare yourself to people who do not actually exist as you see them.

 

[tomame]

i have body dysmorphia so i can definitely relate. but if it makes you feel any better .. i highly doubt attractive people have the time to think less of others that aren't as attractive as them. i think they are quite secure in their looks so may tend to not overthink it like us

 

[CatLvr]

Gosh ... Well, at least you have parameters. I just can't stand people. ANY people. My God, there are times when the person standing in line behind me's breathing drives me nuts. No shit. And God help me then I have to be polite to the cashier ... There is a reason I only leave my house when I absolutely have to. How people like me functioned before Wal-Mart+ is beyond me.

And no, I am not being a smart-ass (I wish). If I spent the rest of my life without seeing another human being on the planet (besides my son) I would be a lot happier person. People are HIGHLY overrated.

 

[sickofeverything]

It might make you feel better to think about the attractive people who also ended their lives, there was a young influencer who was found hanging in the last few months. Pretty women also get hurt in society, one was found with her head missing when they went to burry her. Not trying to take away from your pain but thinking of the bad that can happen might make you feel better