Do you wish you were better looking?

[Parnate]

I am 33 years old man, and while many people have appreciated my appearance in my prime. I still feel and wish I was better looking. I have lost my looks due to hair loss and weight gain but still even while i was in my prime I felt not so good. During teenage Many of my friends made fun of my large head , and yes childhood abuse never let me feel good enough. I wish I was stunning, someone that people would not take their eyes off. I am so insecure and uncomfortable with the way I look, I doubt if I can ever accept my appearance.

 

[nayomi]

you can be bold and handsome so i dont see an issue.
i guess weight gain some people like, you can get rid of it pretty easily

 

[LRkin]

Who doesn't wish to be better looking, though?

 

[suncide10]

I used to think I am ugly. I don't think I'm pretty, just average. And I know what I should do to look much better. My main complex is my voice and enunciation. I sturggle to speak fast and clearly, I can't even pronounce some letters which makes people annoyed sometimes.

 

[Endstati0n]

Being ugly makes me want to ctb more and that's a good thing

 

[Forveleth]

No. I used to get teased for my looks and was very depressed over what I looked like. Then I realized my life would be much better if I stopped caring what everyone else thought about me, so I did. I accepted there were some things I could not change about myself and worked on the things I could. Also, I am going to fall apart as I age and that is just life.

 

[Aflame5926]

somehow i think it would be bad for me. im scared to become a narcisst to be honest if i would be smoking hot.
if its just a little it wouldnt change a thing for me through.

 

[dirkw83]

Yeah kinda I transitioned then detransitioned and my face has some lasting effects from the hormones I look kind of unfortunate now but no big deal I'm old anyways.

 

[hughmun9]

my looks are fine, it's my personality that I wish was 'better'

 

[suimaxxer]

yeah, i think everyone wishes they were better looking to an extent, but i definitely care more than others about it

 

[kleinerbäcker7814]

probably yeah, its maybe the reason the love of my life cheated on me

 

[Canto XIII]

It wouldn't change my life because I would still be the same person at a fundamental level, but I'd be lying if I said I don't think about this a lot.