Help how to deal with overbearing parents

[cvury]

my parents control everything in my life. i'm 20 years old but they treat me like a little kid. they keep track of all my finances and look at all my bank statements. anytime i make a weird purchase they interrogate me over it. i tried to buy retatruide and i had to deposit money into coinbase to buy it and they immediately interrogated me over it. so i would never be able to buy anything like SN online. they check my room all the time, sif through all my drawers and everything so i couldnt hide it anyways. they track my location on my phone, i thought about CTB with a gun, but they would know where i'm at if i went to buy a gun/go to a firearms safety course or something. a P.o. box wouldn't work because they know where i am at all times, they also never let me leave the house without a reason. so im wondering what my best course of action is right now. what's y'all's opinions? i'm feeling the most shit i have in a long time. today is my birthday and i got no birthday wishes since my parents try to dont let me talk to people outside our family. im just exhausted every second of every day and it's most brutal right now.

 

[tasmaka]

Happy birthday,
You dont deserve to spend today, or any day frustrated over such horrible people.

If possible , the only option id say is to slowly but surely become less financially dependent on them, easier said than done. Me and a few other people I know start to buy our own phones (2nds,older, but works for needs) and to take power from them, as thats where their feelings stem from.

I know this may not be possible, I truly wish you the best.