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overthrone

overthrone

dead girl sympathizer
Nov 18, 2025
7
i wanna get max damage out of cutting (at least make myself bleed) but I get really scared of the pain and chicken out. Any suggestions on how to cut and get blood without a ton of pain?
 
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Leonard_Bangley39

Cant wait to ctb
Nov 6, 2025
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pinch yourself. pinch your arm hard and just focus on it. it hurts, but its not really all that big a deal. you pretty much just gotta get used to the pain. when i cut, its kind of like a small sting and burning feeling. it hurts but i got used to the feeling pretty quickly.
 
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BrainSplatter

BrainSplatter

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Oct 31, 2025
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It is painful slightly yeah when you do the cut but if you cut enough it actually gives you a feeling of numbness not pain. I think this is due to nerve damage or shock not from the cut itself idk
 
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thislifeisunfair

Member
Oct 21, 2025
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You become desensitized to what you are actually doing. When you do it for me, at least I don't feel the pain until a couple of hours after. But it isn't bad. Especially if you are frustrated and just want relief.
 
getoutgirl

getoutgirl

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Mar 17, 2025
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usually the pain is part of the relief factor... not always. I also get just wanting the scars, or the blood, or cutting the flesh itself, thought those are less so relief in a given moment of overwhelm and maybe more because of a need to self destruct? I don't know how you experience it.
why do you want to cause yourself maximum damage?
hitting the dermis or below it hurts. like others said you can get numb to it with repeated habit. unsure if that's worth it. if you reach that do take propper care of it though. big hugs <3
 
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shiftingtendons

shiftingtendons

( ͒ ́ඉ .̫ ඉ ̀ ͒) they/them
Nov 15, 2025
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i dont think people will help you hurt yourself even more it's agaisnt the rules im sorry the best thing i can do is give you aftercare help
 
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Blueberry Panic

Blueberry Panic

Midnight's Aftermath
Jan 5, 2025
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Alcohol, you can cut deeper and you don't feel it as much.
 
overthrone

overthrone

dead girl sympathizer
Nov 18, 2025
7
usually the pain is part of the relief factor... not always. I also get just wanting the scars, or the blood, or cutting the flesh itself, thought those are less so relief in a given moment of overwhelm and maybe more because of a need to self destruct? I don't know how you experience it.
why do you want to cause yourself maximum damage?
hitting the dermis or below it hurts. like others said you can get numb to it with repeated habit. unsure if that's worth it. if you reach that do take propper care of it though. big hugs <3
It's mainly because i don't necessarily wanna ctb i just need a way to kinda release tension and frustration. I use an x-acto knife, and use the tip to cut rather than the flat end. I wanna get the confidence to cut with the flat end but I'm nervous to experience the pain
 
overthrone

overthrone

dead girl sympathizer
Nov 18, 2025
7
It's mainly because i don't necessarily wanna ctb i just need a way to kinda release tension and frustration. I use an x-acto knife, and use the tip to cut rather than the flat end. I wanna get the confidence to cut with the flat end but I'm nervous to experience the pain
just tried cutting with the flat end, no blood. It didn't hurt like at all but I'm nervous to put more pressure. How much pressure would I need to put to get blood without seriously putting myself at risk?
 
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getoutgirl

getoutgirl

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Mar 17, 2025
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i'm sorry. yeah i get that urge for release. not the best to regulate emotional pain, shitty cope, but a cope still when you have little else.
as for your question... don't know if i want to answer it. i don't feel good about keeping you in that fright either... i just really don't want to push you down that path, or aid there. i'm sorry.
even if you still don't intend on stopping, which i get, i've relapsed every so often, the site has good resources for it, to just generally make it safer. please rinse with hot water the x-acto before and after use, you really don't want infections. I can say that's your biggest risk. Avoid visible veins, very top of the legs as there could be some nerve damage there... i guess i can tell you that. Again sorry that you are even brought to rely on this, i wish you don't have as much a need soon... big hugs <3
 
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Eriktf

Warlock
Jun 1, 2023
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just a warring but cuting can lead to fucked up hands, problem moving fingers etc

 
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Pale_Rider

Pale_Rider

Enlightened
Apr 21, 2025
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Agreed. A razor slice is less then a hard pinch. It's the potential damage that causes the fear. But fear serves a purpose also. Maybe you should seek other coping mechanisms. ?
 
overthrone

overthrone

dead girl sympathizer
Nov 18, 2025
7
Agreed. A razor slice is less then a hard pinch. It's the potential damage that causes the fear. But fear serves a purpose also. Maybe you should seek other coping mechanisms. ?
I have other coping mechanisms, but I fear it's an addiction atp, and nothing else gives me the kinda release i want
 

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