How do you guys deal with feeling lonely ?

[lilibunnyy]

I have people around me but they are all mean and treat me bad. Even the ones i admire most treat me like im irrelevant. I feel so hurt.its not like I want a friend, I think is more about the rejection.
How do you guys deal with it ?

 

[owo]

but they are all mean and treat me bad. Even the ones i admire most treat me like im irrelevant. I feel so hurt.

is there a reason?

How do you guys deal with it

some activities i guess. 50/50

 

[Kamaainakupua]

I have people around me but they are all mean and treat me bad. Even the ones i admire most treat me like im irrelevant. I feel so hurt.its not like I want a friend, I think is more about the rejection.
How do you guys deal with it ?

Sorry to take so long to reply to this post, but I was feeling lonely so I reread the latest posts in the Introduce yourself thread, the Make a Friend Megathread, and the Recovery Partners Megathread to see if anyone else felt the same way and was willing to talk. I started a few new conversations, then headed to the What's New page to see if that might help with the loneliness. After reading and replying to some threads and posts I felt better, then found this thread.

 

[fishperson]

I have people around me but they are all mean and treat me bad. Even the ones i admire most treat me like im irrelevant. I feel so hurt.its not like I want a friend, I think is more about the rejection.
How do you guys deal with it ?

I think i had to develop a coping mechanism as a teenager when i experienced this.
I simply realised that if someone doesnt find me interesting then they are not interesting.
And the lack of attention stopped bothering me. After all , if u dont wanna talk to me why should i wanna talk to u. I guess it kinda stick with me as I got older.

 

[Asya]

I don't deal with it. There is no way to. It's one of my biggest points of anguish.

 

[Pluto]

 

[Anthropos]

I find people boring and bad.

 

[lilibunnyy]

This made me smile :)

Sorry to take so long to reply to this post, but I was feeling lonely so I reread the latest posts in the Introduce yourself thread, the Make a Friend Megathread, and the Recovery Partners Megathread to see if anyone else felt the same way and was willing to talk. I started a few new conversations, then headed to the What's New page to see if that might help with the loneliness. After reading and replying to some threads and posts I felt better, then found this thread.

Thank you my friend
I will try those

 

[Even Flow]

If you grew up in the loneliness you get used to it

 

[BrokenByTheSystem]

I got used to it, but it still hurts and will always hurt, the thing is: accept it and deal with it, don't try to run away, learn how to face loneliness.

Loneliness to me is like swallowing broken grass and just get used to it. So that's how hard it is. It'll always hurt.

 

[February_In_April]

I don't think I've ever gotten used to it. It just hurts a lot especially when you are not accepted for who you are and get rejected or bullied. It's been one of the biggest challenges I face in my life everyday. I try my best to be social but it's been a challenge for me since I was little. I usually try to deal with it by either just trying to sleep or scroll on my phone But it's just one of those things that really lingers over me and it's hard to get over day by day. It wears me down so much. Much of the coping skills I have usually don't work so I'm usually just sad and try to keep the pain and sadness on the inside most of the time.

 

[Wishingfordeath]

Somehow Im no longer affected much by it, maybe it's because my misanthropic worldview reached to a point where I prefer to stay away from people. But at times of course it does end up bothering me so I'll cope by talking to people online. I also enjoy the company of my dogs, so that also helps me.