How do adult single men handle the loneliness?

[flyaway2]

Do you ever go to strip clubs or pay for sex? I worked(before covid) as a stripper and sugar baby and many of my clients were lonely men, maybe some men don't think this is a 'genuine' way of interacting with women but I know I have made a really positive impact on the lives of many men in this way, and those connections have been meaningful to me also

True. My best confidant was a whore. She made me feel so comfortable. She was so accommodating, understanding, etc. The best human being I ever met..., or will ever meet. She openness to human reality wss refreshing. Never met such a nice human being. Anyway, she suddenly dissapeared.

 

[hoping to lose hope]

Exactly if prostitution was legalized you'd have no inherintly evil underbelly of criminal gangs trafficking women through society but of course it will never happen in the west because the true elite, our owners keep just the right sprinkle of nastiness so they can continue drinking blood of babies.

Are you sure about this? you know that a lot of woman are forced into selling themselves due to men or their circumstances?
This is naive... Woman are not to be compared with drug use.
If you want a escort just use a onahole.
Have you actually researched any of this at all because this myth of prostitution being legal and fine is sold to us yet only favours the MEN who use woman as they would any other product.

 

[xLosthopex]

Not disparaging you providing a service one bit you go girl!! however with the men folk is it really solving any problems for them besides some sexual tension?

Yes, aside from the sexual aspect, I've really gotten to connect with many of my regular clients on a personal level. I'm human too so it's natural if I'm seeing a client in the club or as a sugar baby we're going to talk about stuff and get to know each other. It can be an important outlet for them to be able to talk about things they wouldn't usually be able to in their day to day life

 

[TooConscious]

And sadly legalizing and legitimizing prostitution has actually done little to curb HUMAN trafficking AKA white slavery in europe because there is no a market for girls in red light districts.

You are not a mental chad if you think this as experience should tell you that it will only work on a portion of people.
Imagine thinking one mental trick covers all the bases. seriously men sometimes.

Sowwy i must have fumbled and made some mistakes and not been clear as that is not what I meant at all.
Can you please maybe elaborate so i can see what you mean I think we are misunderstanding each other.

Added nothing to the discussion and honestly made me feel a little uncomfy to be honest but I do not care what others say..
It felt like an innocuous sentence was interpreted sexually....

Oh right, sorry about that just trying to have a joke I understand that. I'd forgot I'd even posted to you with just being a passive attempt at a joke and it was actually my reply to needforrelief, that either got deleted or took 15 minutes to appear. But it's now up not had that happen before. Anyway cheers.

 

[hoping to lose hope]

Yes, aside from the sexual aspect, I've really gotten to connect with many of my regular clients on a personal level. I'm human too so it's natural if I'm seeing a client in the club or as a sugar baby we're going to talk about stuff and get to know each other. It can be an important outlet for them to be able to talk about things they wouldn't usually be able to in their day to day life

Yes human connection and verbalizing yourself is very healthy.
Hope you stay safe but seeing as you are more upscale you would be at lower risk than most the girls with their johns.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

I'm probably too young to have great input here because loneliness doesn't become as apparent until you're really away from education. With that said here's my input:

I'm introverted so being alone doesn't tend to bother me that much, but I do get lonely. If we're talking about socialising in general I rarely see my friends, but I cope by talking to them and other people online a bit. For me this is enough to keep me from feeling too lonely.

If we're talking about relationships, I don't really have high hopes of finding one. Sometimes I'll pay for onlyfans or similar stuff to get the loose experience of being liked by someone but I don't have the money or social energy to be doing that a lot. It's something I usually just accept going without.

 

[hoping to lose hope]

Oh right, sorry about that just trying to have a joke I understand that

I personally do not care what anyone says but I would prefer to have proper discussions when I am not in shitpost mode lolz
The mods may delete things if it is a bad look and makes others feel "unsafe"whatever that means lel no worries oki doki

If we're talking about relationships, I don't really have high hopes of finding one. Sometimes I'll pay for onlyfans or similar stuff to get the loose experience of being liked by someone but I don't have the money or social energy to be doing that a lot. It's something I usually just accept going without.

awww eggu cute and I wants to gib big cuddle saying no you will find someone who can love who you are ;(

 

[TooConscious]

Are you sure about this? you know that a lot of woman are forced into selling themselves due to men or their circumstances?
This is naive... Woman are not to be compared with drug use.
If you want a escort just use a onahole.
Have you actually researched any of this at all because this myth of prostitution being legal and fine is sold to us yet only favours the MEN who use woman as they would any other product.

There's nothing wrong with a woman who enjoys selling herself doing just that...
Its when third parties become involved that it gets complicated ie. The need for paid protection etc. But it gets he'll of alot less complicated legalize like in Holland for example.
But you still have corrupt police commissioners and politicians running the 'business'.
Rather than just independent women, and security for them. Which would fall into place if people had a moral compass.

 

[xLosthopex]

And seeing as there seems to be some talk going on here about the safety of sex work and what the laws should be, I want to say that as a sex worker, in terms of the law we want our jobs to be DECRIMINALIZED, this is the most effective way of ensuring our safety. This is not a debate for non-sex workers to be having, please stop speaking for us.

 

[hoping to lose hope]

Its when third parties become involved that it gets complicated ie. The need for paid protection etc. But it gets he'll of alot less complicated legalize like in Holland for example.

1.Woman need protection form the johns so a third party of some sort is best to be involved. Selling yourself is not the same as selling cookies you baked you are in a very vulnerable position.
2.Legalize like holland and increase sex trafficking and human slavery?

This is not a debate for non-sex workers to be having, please stop speaking for us.

This is not how you have an argument at all.
You cannot shut down discussion by claiming no one can discuss something relevant to you by claim of authority.
Sorry but discussions do not work that way.
Try to apply this reasoning elsewhere and quickly it becomes clear it is rubbish.

 

[TooConscious]

1.Woman need protection form the johns so a third party of some sort is best to be involved. Selling yourself is not the same as selling cookies you baked you are in a very vulnerable position.
2.Legalize like holland and increase sex trafficking and human slavery?

This is not how you have an argument at all.
You cannot shut down discussion by claiming no one can discuss something relevant to you by claim of authority.
Sorry but discussions do not work that way.
Try to apply this reasoning elsewhere and quickly it becomes clear it is rubbish.

I think we are counting to get to 6 with 1, 2 and 3 in a different order and somebody just saying 'debate' has made me realize how much time we've wasted here. It's not like we can change anything. It's what's best for women who wish to sell sex they shouldn't be told they can't. That's all I say with weight. Best wishes all.

 

[hoping to lose hope]

just saying 'debate' has made me realize how much time we've wasted here.

There is no such thing as wasted time as everything is a cope and equally worthless.
Everything is a mere distraction from existence itself and chasing yet another desire which will never be the last until ctb.

It's what's best for women who wish to sell sex

Have you done any research at all to investigate the validity of this position or have you been repeatedly told in in the media and succumb to group think?
I am not being snarky I am very curious if you have gone and read any papers on this topic or not.

 

[WornOutLife]

You just get used to it.
I've loved, been loved and now it seems it's time for me to be single for a long time. (maybe forever)

Also, alcohol on Saturdays is an excellent partner.

 

[lonerclown666]

You cant that is why i live in complete isolation for years now