How do adult single men handle the loneliness?

[MichaelNomad123]

I must admit my life outlook is peculiar, choosing to be a hermit long ago, but this idea that being alone at night is a bad thing is just so foreign to me. Are you sure if someone else was there all the time, or even say for a couple hours twice a week, that would be better?

If you want to be a monk with no attachments, the first place to start is the attachment to other people. Let go of that one and the issue dissolves. You remain alone but realise that's the ideal state anyway. Then you can work on the rest. As far as finding meaning or mastering something, the goal of no attachments is a great one for someone who is alone already.

You're right of course, but it's difficult to let go as you know. Realistically this will be my path, but for now I torture myself with the prospect of others

 

[Kramer]

Do you try to red pill her about the JQ is that why?

So how do you plan to kill your self in Minecraft? I love how they always throw that last bit in on that Mongolian basket weaving forum.

 

[hoping to lose hope]

So how do you plan to kill your self in Minecraft? I love how they always throw that last bit in on that Mongolian basket weaving forum.

This is pure edge and the type that even true edgelords would meme as to make fun of the immature edgelords.

 

[Kramer]

This is pure edge and the type that even true edgelords would meme as to make fun of the immature edgelords.

Yes I'm being facetious. I never post on that site, but I do own a fedora with a pinstripe suit.

But you talk just like them. Hmm...

 

[hoping to lose hope]

Yes I'm being facetious. I never post on that site, but I do own a fedora with a pinstripe suit.

But you talk just like them. Hmm...

I transcend merely memes and are a shitpost manifested in physical space.
I am online I am the wired.
When you post your ebic frog memes you found on rebbit it travels through the neural network within my mind and causes as visceral reaction of disgust.

 

[Kramer]

I transcend merely memes and are a shitpost manifested in physical space.
I am online I am the wired.
When you post your ebic frog memes you found on rebbit it travels through the neural network within my mind and causes as visceral reaction of disgust.

Are you doomer wojack?

 

[hoping to lose hope]

Are you doomer wojack?

 

[hoping to lose hope]

Do you go on /lit? Pretentious chaps sitting around with cigars discussing Dostoevsky.

umm..ok I am now totally lost could you tell me why you would think this at all ???? seriously...

 

[Kramer]

umm..ok I am now totally lost could you tell me why you would think this at all ???? seriously...

I didn't make an assumption. I asked you a question since you're clearly familiar with the site. Those on lit are the ones discussing heavy books and trying to top each other daily.

 

[hoping to lose hope]

I didn't make an assumption. I asked you a question since you're clearly familiar with the site. Those on lit are the ones discussing heavy books and trying to top each other daily.

But why would you think I would be part of that crowd is like what has my mind mush all sticky

 

[flyaway2]

I think men have no loneliness problems. They'll drink beer, watch porn and jerk off. That's why porn and jerking is looked down by societies. If men could indulge without guilt, women would be in trouble.

 

[Kramer]

But why would you think I would be part of that crowd is like what has my mind mush all sticky

Because you're smart and they're smart.

I think men have no loneliness problems. They'll drink beer, watch porn and jerk off. That's why porn and jerking is looked down by societies. If men could indulge without guilt, women would be in trouble.

You think porn cures loneliness? Lol talk about naive

 

[hoping to lose hope]

Because you're smart and they're smart.

I am brainlet tier sowwy to give off that false impression anon

I think men have no loneliness problems. They'll drink beer, watch porn and jerk off. That's why porn and jerking is looked down by societies. If men could indulge without guilt, women would be in trouble.

Men with no loneliness problem have a schizoid personality disorder and also porn only exacerbates the desire for sex and a companion the same way wagging a bone in front of a dog does. Men are going prison gay they feel so lonely so in no way is porn helping this problem.

 

[Futile]

R9k is funny sometimes. Pol is great. No other site is as hilarious

Maybe 10 years ago, now it's all shit

 

[Kramer]

I am brainlet tier sowwy to give off that false impression anon

Men with no loneliness problem have a schizoid personality disorder and also porn only exacerbates the desire for sex and a companion the same way wagging a bone in front of a dog does. Men are going prison gay they feel so lonely so in no way is porn helping this problem.

Second post best post lol

Maybe 10 years ago, now it's all shit

Shit is funny. I wish I was there then. I heard about /b and the queen, but I never knew what that meant,

 

[Silenos]

How I handle the loneliness? By being an Ultra Chad of course. I fake my self-esteem till I believe my own bullshit, and I will literally fuck everyone.

 

[Kramer]

How I handle the loneliness? By being an Ultra Chad of course. I fake my self-esteem till I believe my own bullshit, and I will literally fuck everyone.

Are you being serious? If so, I'm wondering why you're here.

 

[hoping to lose hope]

Watching porn doomed me to overlooking many of the attractive women I had chances with. I always thought "Hmm, they're just not attractive enough." Sad

Yourself is who were around age 5. Were you a selfish little shit or did you share? That's who you really are before those-who-must-not-be-named programmed you.

Toddlers really are psychopaths and we are dame lucky they are smaller than us.
The will is ruthless and will pull any string it can to push us towards the mindless goal which our own suffering was a product of.
Regarding Voldemort I think it is narrow minded to genuinely think the cause is the dark lord and not the many other social-cultural and perhaps even biological traits selected over time of never belonging that contribute to black magic seeming to be practiced.
Humans are simple yet extremely complicated at the same time not to mention stupid.
Only humans could be so stupid in the information age.

 

[Kramer]

Toddlers really are psychopaths and we are dame lucky they are smaller than us.
The will is ruthless and will pull any string it can to push us towards the mindless goal which our own suffering was a product of.
Regarding Voldemort I think it is narrow minded to genuinely think the cause is the dark lord and not the many other social-cultural and perhaps even biological traits selected over time of never belonging that contribute to black magic seeming to be practiced.
Humans are simple yet extremely complicated at the same time not to mention stupid.
Only humans could be so stupid in the information age.

I was a nice child and so were my friends. I said "them-who-must-not-be-named" as a joke reference to when you mentioned redpilling and the JQ lol

I can walk out there now and by the end of today, I'd have a girlfriend. But experience has taught me, its not worth it. If you intend to be around for long on planet earth, get married early 20s, make babies, your worldview changes as kids grow. By the time you're 60, game over. Funny thing, it works. Seeking for love from strangers is risky. Never ends well. Marry the neighborhood girl. Perfect life

Ironically there was a girl who lived on my street growing up who liked me. She was so hot but I was insecure. She isn't currently married and she looks like she drinks a lot of wine. Such is the fate of many spinsters.

 

[hoping to lose hope]

I can walk out there now and by the end of today, I'd have a girlfriend. But experience has taught me, its not worth it.

I agree and disagree with your post let me try to explain why.
Firstly a partner wont solve anyones problems but an help or hurt accordingly.
Secondly we must beware the perceived reality being misaligned with actuality.
I am hypocritical as I am a pessimist to the core yet I know this is erroneous thinking.
The universe does not simply give a shit about us enough to intentionally dish out bad.
Either we have bad luck or there are factors influencing why we are experiencing repeated experiences.

 

[Kramer]

Most escorts/expensive whores are good people. They know their business. They belong. A whore asking for $500/1,000 is different from a $5 whore. They've class. Like a thief who uses an army to rob(president) and common street thief

Good people are a myth. People are shades of grey.

 

[Silenos]

I would imagine peak mental chad is utter indifference between male and females when you interact

Exactly what I meant when I said I will literally fuck everyone.

besides well developed social skills

Speaking from personal experience you don't even actually need those. Just be legit interested in what the person in front of you has to say and you can be as shy and awkward as you like.

Are you being serious? If so, I'm wondering why you're here.

Let me guess, you believe a single intimate interaction with another person will solve your problems to the point where you don't want to be suicidal anymore. I could have hundreds of them and it wouldn't matter one bit.

 

[flyaway2]

I agree and disagree with your post let me try to explain why.
Firstly a partner wont solve anyones problems but an help or hurt accordingly.
Secondly we must beware the perceived reality being misaligned with actuality.
I am hypocritical as I am a pessimist to the core yet I know this is erroneous thinking.
The universe does not simply give a shit about us enough to intentionally dish out bad.
Either we have bad luck or there are factors influencing why we are experiencing repeated experiences.

Expecting a person with different expiences, etc to fit in your world is expecting a lot. Why its best to marry Mary next door

 

[Kramer]

Exactly what I meant when I said I will literally fuck everyone.

Speaking from personal experience you don't even actually need those. Just be legit interested in what the person in front of you has to say and you can be as shy and awkward as you like.

Let me guess, you believe a single intimate interaction with another person will solve your problems to the point where you don't want to be suicidal anymore. I could have hundreds of them and it wouldn't matter one bit.

I think many such experiences would help me coast for awhile.

 

[hoping to lose hope]

Most escorts/expensive whores are good people.

And sadly legalizing and legitimizing prostitution has actually done little to curb HUMAN trafficking AKA white slavery in europe because there is no a market for girls in red light districts.

Speaking from personal experience you don't even actually need those. Just be legit interested in what the person in front of you has to say and you can be as shy and awkward as you like.

You are not a mental chad if you think this as experience should tell you that it will only work on a portion of people.
Imagine thinking one mental trick covers all the bases. seriously men sometimes.

Expecting a person with different expiences, etc to fit in your world is expecting a lot. Why its best to marry Mary next doo

Sowwy i must have fumbled and made some mistakes and not been clear as that is not what I meant at all.
Can you please maybe elaborate so i can see what you mean I think we are misunderstanding each other.

Can you tell me what was the reason for removing my recent post?

Added nothing to the discussion and honestly made me feel a little uncomfy to be honest but I do not care what others say..
It felt like an innocuous sentence was interpreted sexually....

 

[TooConscious]

"The likes of you"? What?

I'm sure some are nice and kind. It makes me wonder how they're able to be that way when they're routinely abused by many of their clients. If it was regulated, it would be safer.

Exactly if prostitution was legalized you'd have no inherintly evil underbelly of criminal gangs trafficking women through society but of course it will never happen in the west because the true elite, our owners keep just the right sprinkle of nastiness so they can continue drinking blood of babies.

 

[xLosthopex]

Do you ever go to strip clubs or pay for sex? I worked(before covid) as a stripper and sugar baby and many of my clients were lonely men, maybe some men don't think this is a 'genuine' way of interacting with women but I know I have made a really positive impact on the lives of many men in this way, and those connections have been meaningful to me also

 

[Silenos]

You are not a mental chad if you think this as experience should tell you that it will only work on a portion of people.

Sorry about that. I keep forgetting I'm a natural ultra chad, and our path is not for everyone.

 

[flyaway2]

And sadly legalizing and legitimizing prostitution has actually done little to curb HUMAN trafficking AKA white slavery in europe because there is no a market for girls in red light districts.

You are not a mental chad if you think this as experience should tell you that it will only work on a portion of people.
Imagine thinking one mental trick covers all the bases. seriously men sometimes.

Sowwy i must have fumbled and made some mistakes and not been clear as that is not what I meant at all.
Can you please maybe elaborate so i can see what you mean I think we are misunderstanding each other.

Added nothing to the discussion and honestly made me feel a little uncomfy to be honest but I do not care what others say..
It felt like an innocuous sentence was interpreted sexually....

Was in support of your previous comment

QUOTE="hoping to lose hope, post: 1001230, member: 23760"]
And sadly legalizing and legitimizing prostitution has actually done little to curb HUMAN trafficking AKA white slavery in europe because there is no a market for girls in red light districts.

You are not a mental chad if you think this as experience should tell you that it will only work on a portion of people.
Imagine thinking one mental trick covers all the bases. seriously men sometimes.

Sowwy i must have fumbled and made some mistakes and not been clear as that is not what I meant at all.
Can you please maybe elaborate so i can see what you mean I think we are misunderstanding each other.

Added nothing to the discussion and honestly made me feel a little uncomfy to be honest but I do not care what others say..
It felt like an innocuous sentence was interpreted sexually....
[/QUOTE]

 

[hoping to lose hope]

Do you ever go to strip clubs or pay for sex? I worked(before covid) as a stripper and sugar baby and many of my clients were lonely men, maybe some men don't think this is a 'genuine' way of interacting with women but I know I have made a really positive impact on the lives of many men in this way, and those connections have been meaningful to me also

Not disparaging you providing a service one bit you go girl!! however with the men folk is it really solving any problems for them besides some sexual tension?

Sorry about that. I keep forgetting I'm a natural ultra chad, and our path is not for everyone.

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