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if_i_make_it

if_i_make_it

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Apr 30, 2026
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I have some discord friends who are scattered all around, some in the US like me and others in other countries. ive not like, given out my address but ive not been super secretive about the small town I live in. i don't want to send anything while there is the possibility of them contacting the authorities. they have been my best friends for the last few years and mean a lot to me. but I don't know how to tell them what happened to me in a way that doesn't jeopardize my plans.

maybe i just say some nice stuff now (not out of the ordinary for us) and leave it at that. they know my situation and would understand.
 
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nihacc

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May 2, 2026
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If you have one pre-written, then you could just send it to them right before you ctb.
 
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if_i_make_it

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If you have one pre-written, then you could just send it to them right before you ctb.
i should have mentioned i'm using SN, and i fear they would be able to contact the authorities in time to resuscitate me
 
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echoINTHEMIRROR

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Apr 25, 2026
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I would probably thank them for being there. Tell them how much they meant to you. I don't know much else on what i'd do, but as im starting to get closer and closer to my breaking point thats what i'd do
 
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if_i_make_it

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i figured out what I will do. I'll put a link to a pastebin or something in my bio, right before i take the SN. unlikely anyone will see it and react in time. that way anyone who cares to know what happened to me will see it eventually.
 
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I'll put a link to a pastebin or something in my bio, right before i take the SN. unlikely anyone will see it and react in time. that way anyone who cares to know what happened to me will see it eventually.
good idea honestly. other users can probably do this too, since there's been lots of posts talking about what someone should to do tell their online friends they're dead/going to die. i'm still super anxious about one of my real life friends seeing it and calling the cops on me, so i'm going to send scheduled texts to their numbers.
 
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