gardenofaphrodite

gardenofaphrodite

Can’t catch a break no matter what I do.
Apr 12, 2023
142
Does anyone else get incredibly anxious/nervous of someone somehow finding you on this site? Or they find your personal info through this site? My worst fear right now is anyone I know personally finding out I'm on here. When I'm dead, I don't care, but whilst I'm alive it's a huge fear.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
38,856
Maybe it's best not to post personal information on the site then, this is meant to be an anonymous place to discuss suicide. But it's understandable having fears of other people finding out you want to ctb as after all we exist in a society where suicide isn't a valid option and where other people finding out can make existence much worse.
 
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Slemquamy

New Member
May 17, 2023
1
That's something I'm kind of scared of too, but then again, if they find it, that means they are on here too.
 
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Kerrtu

Kerrtu

Komeetta ♊︎
May 8, 2023
474
I don't feel worried having an account here, though I can understand why others may feel differently.
 
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TimetoGo!

TimetoGo!

Wizard
Aug 30, 2022
626
Does anyone else get incredibly anxious/nervous of someone somehow finding you on this site? Or they find your personal info through this site? My worst fear right now is anyone I know personally finding out I'm on here. When I'm dead, I don't care, but whilst I'm alive it's a huge fear.
I feel its very important to keep it private. Dont log on if someone may walk in on you, as it will start a whole world of questions. Clear your history if its a communal computer.

I have attempted my life twice, but I feel I would be a lot less educated without some of the information I have been lucky enough to find here. Before I joined this I thought overdose was my best option to CTB, when its actually probably the worst.

just keep it private and you should be fine
 
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ayaneechan

ayaneechan

Angelic Demon
May 7, 2023
54
People that knows me IRL are probably not surprised to find me here, so no I'm not worried at all
 
Kasumi

Kasumi

tired
Mar 3, 2023
495
I was never worried about this, there's no personal information on here even if let's say LE somehow got their hands on all the account data from here,.. what's here even?
A username that I don't use anywhere else, and an email-address that no one knows either.

Just don't reveal personal information in your posts, age, city, things others might know about you.
Like don't go telling the same things here you told your irl friends, things that could identify your work place, etc.
 
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never mind me

Student
Nov 7, 2022
141
That's why I don't give information that makes it easy to recognize me. In theory my boy-friend could find out (he has keys for my apartment + the login for my computer), but I trust him to respect my privacy. And if he doesn't it's his problem and not mine, if he reads stuff he would prefer not to know about.
 
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nessun_nome

Student
May 7, 2023
146
I've told a few people I'm on here. I'm not ashamed of it. If I could get the like-mindedness elsewhere maybe I wouldn't be.
 
jazzcat

jazzcat

dark eyed and miserable
May 19, 2023
138
it's best if you don't share any personal information here if it makes you anxious, also if you ever log in from a computer that other people might use remember to log out and delete the internet history, but other than that I think it's unlikely that people will find you

I don't personally care if someone finds my account, everyone in my life knows I'm suicidal
 
leftdreaming

leftdreaming

I should’ve been a house cat
Apr 28, 2023
170
Whether they know or not, they will exhaust their options trying to save me just as I have. It doesn't matter to me anymore.
 
cemetorium

cemetorium

Member
Oct 26, 2020
86
Yes. Although I think a lot of people who know me wouldn't be surprised to find out I have an account here.
 
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UKscotty

Doesn't read PMs
May 20, 2021
2,450
Not at all. People could find my real profile on things like Facebook or Twitter from a few of my posts no problem.

Even if they did, who cares?
 
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SVEN

Enlightened
Apr 3, 2023
1,770
No, not really. This is an international site with a constantly changing range of members coming and going. As long as you avoid disclosing personal details & circumstances I very much doubt that a visitor would identify anyone. So many of us share the same general problems, feelings and life conditions there will always be duplications of our circumstances which assist in preserving anonimity.
Just be very cautious about what you disclose if you ever message privately with any members … not everyone here is liable to be entirely genuine.
 
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NoLoveNoHope

NoLoveNoHope

Mage
Mar 25, 2023
566
Nobody cares about me so I'm sure I'll be fine.
 
Embalmer

Embalmer

Member
Apr 29, 2023
63
Not really, if anyone I knew personally was on this site they could probably recognize me from my pfp alone. I doubt any of them would be here but if they find me here oh well, it's none of their business. I'd only be concerned if they told any of my family members about my posts.
 
unnormal9

unnormal9

SOLDIER T.
Apr 12, 2023
1,139
No.
First there's no one in my life
and even so, so? what would it be? 'ooo the mental ill slug is on a suicide website, so shocking!'
it happened already in 2020 anyways, hence i got called the Schizo-Slug.
 
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charlotte_

charlotte_

Arcanist
Mar 12, 2023
435
I only ever browse this site on my personal devices, so I think I'll be fine. But I get why you're feeling that way. If someone find me here, I'd be fucked up beyond repair.
 
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Bigpink

Warlock
Oct 12, 2020
705
Personally I don't give a shit
 
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Valky

Valky

Petulant Child
Apr 4, 2023
1,322
Yes, I feel you. Really sad tbh. This shouldn't be the case
 
dreamist

dreamist

sigh
May 27, 2023
17
Yes, I feel like this too. I'm currently really anxious just being in this sight.. :(
 
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