greyblue_bian
2x Failed CTB Member
- Jun 10, 2022
- 184
It's been a bit since I've posted here or interacted with anything, but I've got a boyfriend now. I met him online and we're long-distance, but I've managed to socialize outside of my family. Also mentioning socializing, my old friends have been talking to me more and I even decided to go out with one of them recently. It went really well. I'm doing good with driving and need to polish up my skills before I take my driver's test soon (finally). My family situation has toned down more than it has "gotten better" as we don't talk anymore and they are actually moving overseas for 2+ years in a week from now. My mom and I have been turbulent, but everything's toned down there too. I'm looking for a work-from-home job, and I'm mostly leaning towards becoming a commission writer since I seem to be good at that (at least good enough to get paid by others for it).
All of this is to say that CTB is still something I keep going back to. None of these things have made me happy for the long term. I still dwell on all the stupidest shit. I still get scared that I'll always be dependent on my mom and alone for the rest of my life. My friends will leave me. I haven't put enough effort into my friendships to say they will last, honestly. My boyfriend lives a completely different life from me. He is completely different from me. He has a job, his own place, his own car, and he doesn't seem to dwell on the past as much as I do. He just kind of moves on quickly. It will only be a matter of time until he realizes that I don't have anything to provide for him other than some sex and company. Not that I have any sex skills since I'm still a virgin and I have no social skills because I don't talk to people in person very much. I thought if I tried getting better and made another attempt at trying to improve myself and my life I would be happy. I'm not saying my boyfriend doesn't make me happy, it's the fact that I am nothing. I have nothing.
I'm scared. I'm scared I'll never know what to do. I know no one ever knows what they're doing, or whatever people say, but I mean to live or not to live. I just think it would be easier for me to burn in hell. At least I know where I'm going. I'm scared that I'm too scared to ever actually do anything (ctb) and I'm scared I'll never do anything to keep on living if I do stick with my decision to just keep trying. I think I would rather live in this fear (if surviving is what's "important") than not be scared of anything and face everything without a second thought. I think I would still be scared even if I was happy. I'm terrified of everything around me. It's so pathetic, but I think it's also very beneficial. It keeps me safe. It makes me feel like my mind is still intact.
All of these good things going on for me in my life just make it more clear to me that nothing will save me from myself. And I'm going to miss this place if it ever dies.
All of this is to say that CTB is still something I keep going back to. None of these things have made me happy for the long term. I still dwell on all the stupidest shit. I still get scared that I'll always be dependent on my mom and alone for the rest of my life. My friends will leave me. I haven't put enough effort into my friendships to say they will last, honestly. My boyfriend lives a completely different life from me. He is completely different from me. He has a job, his own place, his own car, and he doesn't seem to dwell on the past as much as I do. He just kind of moves on quickly. It will only be a matter of time until he realizes that I don't have anything to provide for him other than some sex and company. Not that I have any sex skills since I'm still a virgin and I have no social skills because I don't talk to people in person very much. I thought if I tried getting better and made another attempt at trying to improve myself and my life I would be happy. I'm not saying my boyfriend doesn't make me happy, it's the fact that I am nothing. I have nothing.
I'm scared. I'm scared I'll never know what to do. I know no one ever knows what they're doing, or whatever people say, but I mean to live or not to live. I just think it would be easier for me to burn in hell. At least I know where I'm going. I'm scared that I'm too scared to ever actually do anything (ctb) and I'm scared I'll never do anything to keep on living if I do stick with my decision to just keep trying. I think I would rather live in this fear (if surviving is what's "important") than not be scared of anything and face everything without a second thought. I think I would still be scared even if I was happy. I'm terrified of everything around me. It's so pathetic, but I think it's also very beneficial. It keeps me safe. It makes me feel like my mind is still intact.
All of these good things going on for me in my life just make it more clear to me that nothing will save me from myself. And I'm going to miss this place if it ever dies.