Venting Had to be an adult to soon

[helpmegetout]

Do you know how it feels when you had to take big responsibility in your life to soon? Like I had to be parent for my parents since I'm 10 years old and that shit fucked me up. I just wanted to be a kid. I still wanna be but now ofc everyone wants me to act like an adult. I wanna cry when I see Dad's and mom's with their little daughter..taking care of her and being lovely.

What did I do to deserve this?

 

[Enlighten]

Do you know how it feels when you had to take big responsibility in your life to soon? Like I had to be parent for my parents since I'm 10 years old and that shit fucked me up. I just wanted to be a kid. I still wanna be but now ofc everyone wants me to act like an adult. I wanna cry when I see Dad's and mom's with their little daughter..taking care of her and being lovely.

What did I do to deserve this?

I'm sorry your parents are like this. Everyone deserves loving parents.
You don't have to be strong with me. Sometimes it's good to break your mental wall and cry out.
I think you're courageous for telling us this.
If you want to talk, feel free to send me a DM or add me on discord "gigag33rt"

 

[LonelyKitten]

I despise it.
I'm sorry you had to go through this yourself.

Biological father left, mother broken, brother preferred I didn't exist.
Was taught nothing, had to figure out everything by myself, my only ally being the internet.

How can society expect us to be adults when we didn't even get to be children yet?
There's not enough time... or support, to "catch up somehow".

 

[helpmegetout]

I despise it.
I'm sorry you had to go through this yourself.

Biological father left, mother broken, brother preferred I didn't exist.
Was taught nothing, had to figure out everything by myself, my only ally being the internet.

How can society expect us to be adults when we didn't even get to be children yet?
There's not enough time... or support, to "catch up somehow".

I'm so sorry.

My mum and sisters are narcissistic as hell but I just realized this a month ago. My dad is sick since I was in third grade and I always had to take of him. Like when he didn't manage to get up in his wheelchair or couldn't eat by himself.
I was always the one to take of everyone. I was invisible. I didn't matter.