Help Female-Only Forum?

[FERAL_FRENZY]

I'm curious. Are there any female centered forums that are similar to SaSu? This site's cool and all but I've got a plethora of personal things I want to rant about and would rather not deal with self-centered men bitching and moaning in my comments. I feel like this is a huge ask given the kinds of people on these forums to begin with but I'd prefer one that isn't overrun with radfems/ terfs.

 

[LaVieEnRose]

I don't think there is any other site like this currently in active existence period, let alone one that caters to any particular subdemographic. I understand why you would want that. I wish this place were safer for women though I do believe the mods do their absolute best.

 

[Lookingtoflyfree]

I would love this. I do love female centric spaces especially since much of my trauma is from men hurting me

 

[zombiegirl]

i second this

 

[Z-A]

You can start the topic of a thread with "[Women-only]" if you don't want to hear anything from men. If there are going to be hateful comments, report them.

 

[UnluckyBastard]

Crystal Cafe I guess, but other than subreddits and 4chan knockoffs I don't really know one

 

[AmericanMary]

Would not recommend CC.

Also curious if anyone knows a place <3

Also OP, feel free to DM me if you need someone to talk to :) open to talking abt pretty much everything but CTB stuff.

 

[lita-lassi]

if it was moderated closely id absolutely love a women only thread to commiserate in

 

[AmericanMary]

Would it be open to transitioned trannys? Untransitioned trannys? People who self identify as female? Freud famously asked what do women want, nowadays we don't even agree on what is a woman. Is this progress?

A uterus doesn't make a women <3

 

[enduringwinter]

There used to be Pretty Ugly Little Liars but it was just fast track brain damage.

 

[astr4]

yes, but our trans sisters and non binary friends should be welcome imo

 

[JustA_LittlePerson]

Would it be open to transitioned trannys? Untransitioned trannys? People who self identify as female? Freud famously asked what do women want, nowadays we don't even agree on what is a woman. Is this progress?

People don't like to think about it but I find it terrifying. Are we not losing sight of what's real?

 

[LaVieEnRose]

Would it be open to transitioned trannys? Untransitioned trannys? People who self identify as female? Freud famously asked what do women want, nowadays we don't even agree on what is a woman. Is this progress?

That's a slur and consisting the main administrator who fights so hard for this site is transgender, it would be in your interest at the very least to avoid using such words.

 

[Kavka]

Would it be open to transitioned trannys? Untransitioned trannys? People who self identify as female? Freud famously asked what do women want, nowadays we don't even agree on what is a woman. Is this progress?

This was unnecessarily rude, and also silly. Referring to Freud as if he were an authority on gender and sex. If Freud was alive today, he'd just say it's all caused by penis envy and then go back to obsessing about having sex with his mother.

 

[mellie5]

so binary

 

[sugarb]

Crystal Cafe I guess, but other than subreddits and 4chan knockoffs I don't really know one

CC is kinda psycho, I doubt any productive conversations could be held there

 

[Tesha]

I'm not sure it'll meet your needs if you're looking for a specific place to talk about suicide, but Mumsnet is mainly just women and they get into some quite diverse subjects. You don't need to be a Mum to get the best out of the site.

Two things I don't like about the place is there's a relatively strong voice speaking out against trans and what defines a woman, and they are generally prolife (although seem to accept terminally ill euthanasia). So steer clear if those are subjects you're sensitive about. But for general 'woman's issues', it's supportive.

 

[Ash]

I'd be up for an inclusive peer-support thread on here for women. (And I don't just mean inclusive of trans women and non-binary folks. I'm so tired of women exclusively meaning straight white women.)

 

[FERAL_FRENZY]

You can start the topic of a thread with "[Women-only]" if you don't want to hear anything from men. If there are going to be hateful comments, report them.

I came across a post of a woman specifically asking men not to interact and they did it anyway. It's such a hassle istg

 

[Ash]

I came across a post of a woman specifically asking men not to interact and they did it anyway. It's such a hassle istg

Might be different if it's created by the mods like the recent one started for the over 30s

 

[FERAL_FRENZY]

People don't like to think about it but I find it terrifying. Are we not losing sight of what's real?

What the fuck are you on about? Either give me an alternative site or keep your unsolicited opinions to yourself. This is exactly the kind of thing I'm trying to get away from. Fucking useless.

 

[SNastablesalt]

I would love this. I do love female centric spaces especially since much of my trauma is from men hurting me

agreed, hope ur okay hun

 

[Proteus]

No need to go that far, just report people, and make people know their rhetoric isn't welcome. You did it here, and seems it worked.

Unfortunately, incel ideologies happened. I think it's the worst thing this forum ever had to deal with, the original founders damaged this site probably beyond repair. Some users have requested to ban said discourse, as it brings nothing good to the atmosphere here, I hope one day it gets applied.

 

[FERAL_FRENZY]

There used to be Pretty Ugly Little Liars but it was just fast track brain damage.

I live under a rock so do you mind explaining what this is? Or was…

Would not recommend CC.

Also curious if anyone knows a place <3

Also OP, feel free to DM me if you need someone to talk to :) open to talking abt pretty much everything but CTB stuff.

I'd love to take you up on that offer! Just a heads up, though: I can come across as intense sometimes, especially on a subject I'm passionate about. Also, how do I send dms? Trying to figure out this site makes me feel old

 

[AmericanMary]

I live under a rock so do you mind explaining what this is? Or was…

I'd love to take you up on that offer! Just a heads up, though: I can come across as intense sometimes, especially on a subject I'm passionate about. Also, how do I send dms? Trying to figure out this site makes me feel old

No, because same. I get very passionate about certain topics too hahsh. I'm here for it!!

I just sent you a DM! It should notify you at the top left<3

 

[Minsu]

I'd love it tbh

 

[Lookingtoflyfree]

I think we may need to create it - although seeing transphobic content in this thread proves the point.

I'm on a discord where it's only for women and we vet people by video call. Even in threads or Reddits devoted to women men will interject and start arguing and threatening the women. We need our own safe spaces and continually having to be exposed to toxicity and report comments is too much. I want to feel safe.

 

[JustA_LittlePerson]

What the fuck are you on about? Either give me an alternative site or keep your unsolicited opinions to yourself. This is exactly the kind of thing I'm trying to get away from. Fucking useless.

I didn't quote you, so you don't really have to answer if you don't want to

What the fuck are you on about? Either give me an alternative site or keep your unsolicited opinions to yourself. This is exactly the kind of thing I'm trying to get away from. Fucking useless.

And hey, even if I found what you said complete nonsense I wouldn't call you fucking useless.

 

[lacrimosa]

That's a slur and consisting the main administrator who fights so hard for this site is transgender, it would be in your interest at the very least to avoid using such words.

Agreed, that's bigoted of them to say. I'm male but I think there should be a safe space for females and those whom identify as female or non-binary, or homosexual, etc. to discuss their personal issues without being bombarded with hateful or misogynistic comments and opinions.

 

[circus22]

I was thinking about this too, I'd really like a female only forum