Discussion Does anyone here have suicidal thoughts because of their looks?

[TheFinalCountdown]

Partially. My looks have always undermined my confidence

 

[Papaya569]

Yea,it sucks to be ugly

 

[Tabbyql]

It is one of the reasons why i want to ctb. I am absolutely disgusting. It as held me back all my life, every time I catch my reflection I am shocked, saddened and feel sick. I only feel i can go out at night so less chance people can see me.i don't know how people hold their vomit in when they see me.

 

[k3v3r]

I've got an eating disorder (with really bad body image) which definitely makes my suicidal thoughts worse, but it isn't the cause for my suicide

 

[Anjellnight]

Simplemente por cualquier cosa que hagas o como eres te juzgan...este mundo es una total basura...

 

[Mbound]

Wanna know what's funny...I did for many years. So I got plastic surgery. A few kinds. I also learned to do my hair and makeup a lot better. People now tell me I'm beautiful all the time.

I still want to ctb, but I'd be a damn liar if I said it didn't help at all. We live in an incredibly shallow society and we make unattractive people feel subhuman. I know I won't be able to cope with aging and losing what I think is my only value which is I'm sometimes easy on the eyes.

 

[Bärchen]

Yes a part of. I think i'm ugly, combine it with fat, shy and introvert. Atleast on the fat part i'm working on.

 

[TAW122]

Yes, this is a reason for wanting to CTB, but after given up on the prospects of dating, marriage, and relationships, it has become a smaller reason for me. It is still a reason, but just not as major as it once was.

 

[Tally]

In a large part yes! I can say to myself that looks are only superficial, but we can't control what our mind thinks, and that creates the BDD that seems to reign so strongly. Sad for all of you!

 

[Macc Lad]

Not me.......handsome fucker!

 

[omoidarui]

Im baffled that there are people who still try to deny that being good looking fixes everything in life.

this just isn't true at all.

to those who say they would live if they were beautiful: without meaning to offend, what makes you think you'll be happier? in terms of finding love - isn't true love more about what the person's like inside? how could you be happy in a relationship with someone who wouldn't be with you if you weren't 'sightly'?