Sorry for pathetic post just looking for opinion based on my text descripti8n. Im 5ft6 and balding at 23 years old do you think i could ever get a girlfriend. I live in Croatia people are pretty tall here... Not trolling just seeing girls on tiktok saying they would only go for tall men is pretty demoralizing. Still its their choice, just i feel like there is nobody out there for a guy like me something like that? Incel forums pretty demoralizing i know what they would say to me but i wanna have an opinion of this forum which even though is suicidal in nature people seem less demoralized pls no ban.
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ihateittoo
Member
- Jun 9, 2026
- 49
you 100% could. whats most important in dating is taking good care of yourself and make an effort into the way you look. theres no formula to dating and everyone likes different things in guys. i personally would have no issue dating a man thats 5'6. it helps to be funny too.5'6" and balding? That's it? Not trying to make light of your situation but I wish I could send you a picture of a friend of mine. He's got to be 5'5", completely bald and a little chubby. Now, his wife is literally one of the most stunning creatures I have ever seen. Around 5'10", just gorgeous...even my wife says she is absolutely beautiful and one of the kindest people you will ever meet. Yet, no one who knows them ever says "What does she see in him?".
He is kind, funny, a hard worker and absolutely lives by the credo that he will do at least one thing a day to let his wife know that she is still the most important person in his life. I know they did not get together until they were in their mid-30's. The type of attributes he brings to the table are not what are popularized in social medial today; yet, those are the attributes that deliver "life partners" and not just a "relationship".
So, be sociable, be kind, get out there and stay off TikTok. Look for shared interests, etc. I still remember what a friend told me about relationships - look at the most beautiful girls and there are guys who are tired of being in a relationship with them. He used a much cruder term but you get the point. Looks and height can never support a long-term life together. Common interests, goals and values are the foundation of succesful relationships. So, try different things, get to know yourself first and then work on finding relationships. You're 23, indulge, travel, explore - I think you might just be surprised how many romantic interests arise when you are focussed on living.
far from glory
Member
- Dec 27, 2025
- 38
Hello, my dear friend. I am so sorry you are feeling this way, but let me tell you something: don't let yourself get down. Learn to be strong and find peace within yourself, far removed from all the immoral and base pleasures of the flesh. Focus on yourself—eat well, sleep well, exercise, read, and concentrate on what is good. One day, you will find a girl you love and cherish. I know loneliness is there, but you need to be strong. I also recommend you disconnect from social media; it's garbage for the mind. Anyway...
ImpairedLowlife
Empty and hollow
- Aug 3, 2020
- 421
Yes, you could. I'm gonna sound a little different from the rest of the forum; I do strongly believe you should really try to look your best. Incel forums are pretty radical and bad for your mental health tho. Same goes into watching lookism stuff on tiktok and whatnot.
Try to improve things that you can change. Balding can easily be stopped and even reversed to a degree with meds. Go to a gym, get lean, find a proper skincare routine and a style that fits you and work on your mental state. Basically, become the best version of yourself both physically and mentally and you'll 100% be able to eventually find love.I'm sorry you're having a rough time brother.
Social media pushes really mean content. Companies want people upset so that they engage with their platform more. They don't care if it requires/incentivizes mean content.
Incel forums aren't great. They operate just like the social media sites they criticize. Those forums are just going to make things worse regardless if you want to try to get a gf or ctb. I've gone there out of curiosity and I really don't think it's a good place for finding peace. This forum seems focused on helping others find peace from what I've seen.
If you don't like that you're balding try going to a nice salon. Sometimes styling your hair works. They might have products or med suggestions for regrowing your hair. And if not then they'll be able to shave your head and make it look nice. Short hair/bald looks way better than balding with longer hair imo. if you're still uncomfortable with it, there's nothing wrong with wearing cool hats. May as well pamper yourself a bit.
Maybe consider giving yourself a few years to stylize, get strong, and build social skills so you at least have the inner peace of knowing you tried your best.
