Discussion Do you hate yourself for being gay/bi

[nevergoodenough91]

I really do

 

[mortuarymary]

No. I hate people perceptions of it though.

 

[BlackMoon]

No, I just hate feeling I have to justify myself to others.

 

[binks23]

Not at all! But I HATE homophobes and having to hide myself around them

 

[DinoDaAltaTCPCacaRt]

Yes if I were straight I wouldnt be here suffering that much, thats just part of my problems. I understand you

 

[HereTomorrow]

Yes.
I can't say all my suffering would go away if I was straight, but I would be in a much better position than where I am now.

 

[DinoDaAltaTCPCacaRt]

Yes.
I can't say all my suffering would go away if I was straight, but I would be in a much better position than where I am now.

I feel literally the same

 

[blacksorrow]

No it's okay.

 

[Dliena]

I mean you are who you are OP and I am who I am. There are ofc numerous things that I def do not like about myself but it's not my sexuality that is the issue.
Nor SHOULD it be an issue for any LGBTIQA+ but this world is bully savage and cruel so I get why you'd or anyone else similar feel otherwise.

And yes I get that I guess not everybody have asked to be this way perhaps I might be getting wayyy too ahead of myself here.

 

[Proteus]

Not at all, if something it's more exciting this way because I'm attracted to the forbidden :P And I really enjoy pissing off homophobes, I do it whenever I can. No matter their ideas, I'll be with whoever I want. They can't do shit.

 

[Kimlett]

It always breaks my heart to see a fellow lgbt person struggling. As others said already, the fact of being gay/bi is perfect and valid. Society and homophobe people are who inflict the pain. Fuck them a million times.

 

[Widdershins]

Actually, it's one of the few things I don't hate myself for surprisingly enough.

 

[Tired_of_myself]

Being gay makes us have dilemmas very early on, which messes with our heads.
I wish everyone is well.

 

[restless.dreams]

There were times when I felt guilty about liking women, but not anymore. It's okay to be who you are, and I'm sorry if all the hate in this world has made you feel any different <3

 

[aubrey!]

i think there are associations that make me feel kind of bad.
like some lgbt people are very vocal. if i say anything at all about it i feel uncomfortable because i feel like i'm being too vocal.

 

[Miku _fanboy101]

I hate gay and I will never say that. It's disgusting and so gross, it's filthy to even think like that. I hope it dies because it shouldn't exist. I won't ever be a "homo".

 

[dragonofenvy]

I don't dislike the fact that I'm bi, I dislike the fact that I feel as though my failures in trying relationships "made" me bi. I don't think not being bisexual would've changed my life in any way. There's going to be homophobes and they can say whatever they want and I won't associate with them. It's that simple. I don't think blaming my sexuality for everything wrong with my life is even remotely correct. It might or might not play a factor, but it's not THE factor.

 

[cranberrys]

I really do

No, I just get extremely tired of people's dumbassery and having to nonstop justify my existence

 

[PairOfAirJordan1’s]

I hate myself for being bi and yet still being unable to find anyone. Literally batting for both teams and still losing

 

[slightoverlooked]

idk my sexuality but even questioning it makes me hate myself. if i am truly bi then i will never be able to live it bc of my circumstances. so im just in denial and tell myself im straight.

 

[ObscureSunshine]

No.
It's one of the things I love about myself.

 

[RedIris]

Yeah i also do. Sometimes being bi makes me so digusted with myself. Dont plan on ever telling my family or friends not bc i care so much about their reaction but i simply dont want them to know another gross part of me. I was a weird kid all my life and now i have to deal with being weird on yet another thing. Yet another proof of me being a failure. I just want to be normal.

I dont hate other gay/bi people just to note, if someone is nice to me i am nice back no matter whoever they are. But when it comes to myself i really do hate it.

 

[Heartaches]

No, I like being bisexual, I just hate how rampant biphobia is in wider society and some parts of the LGBTQ+ community. I don't understand why people have such a hard time understanding the concept and attach very negative ideas to it; the leaps some people will take to not recognize, invalidate or negatively protray bisexuality bugs my mind. Just let us be​

 

[Kasumi]

Why would I?
I'm the way I am because that's me.
If I wasn't gay / asexual would I still be me?

The only thing I'm sad about, or rather that's just a problem in my eyes is that it's really hard for me to understand straight cis people and vice versa.

 

[RosebyAnyName]

Yes, I'm a lesbian. I hate the prospects of sex though, so being straight wouldn't "fix" me. I wish I could be asexual, and I wish I could completely avoid being in the crosshairs of anyone else's sexuality.

 

[Living_Hurts_so_Much]

I do yes. Made choices. Regret many. And here I am still hating myself inside.

 

[Minsu]

Absolutely not. Being bi isn't the reason why I'm suicidal at all