dating in your 30s sucks.

[poppysgarden]

I had just started to really like someone for the first time in what feels like forever, and he basically told me tonight that he's too busy, but if I wait for him, he'll come around.

I would give anything to go back to pre dating apps. Anything.

anyway, crying on the couch at 9.30 at night before work tomorrow is just super fun.

 

[tiger b]

Sorry to hear that.

Super professional, getting it out of your system before work!

Joking aside, was it much better before dating apps?

 

[R_N]

Dating sucked for me always.

When I gave up dating I had way less heartache and pain in my life. I would never try it again no matter what. I see it with disgust and bitterness, and find emotions and being vulnerable as a trap.

 

[Kattt]

I would rather die alone than take my chances with online dating. It's fucking terrifying.

 

[Celerity]

Fuck that. He is treating you like an option.

I think dating in your 20s sucks too, but there are plenty of jokes about how it's all the leftovers in your 30s, and it kinda hits close to home. If I manage to secure a partner, I likely won't be their first choice and vice versa.