Chronic loneliness

[Utter_emptiness]

I haven't interacted with any human in a week and right now the pain i'm feeling is huge. I can't stop crying.
I spent my birthday alone and saying that outloud is beyond pathetic. I Wish loneliness could kill you swiftly, i would be dead by now.

 

[vak]

I'm sorry you feel lonely

I know it's a poor excuse for friendship, but if you need someone who would listen or chat, you can always PM me

 

[Macc_Lad_71]

I haven't interacted with any human in a week and right now the pain i'm feeling is huge. I can't stop crying.
I spent my birthday alone and saying that outloud is beyond pathetic. I Wish loneliness could kill you swiftly, i would be dead by now.

bless you.........always here for a chat

 

[Linda]

Are you able to get out of the house? (Or you do have a physical condition that makes it impossible?) If you can get out, then do. The fix for loneliness is meeting people, and you can't meet people (in person) if you stay at home.

And "Happy Birthday" by the way.

 

[whereabout]

I haven't interacted with any human in a week and right now the pain i'm feeling is huge. I can't stop crying.
I spent my birthday alone and saying that outloud is beyond pathetic. I Wish loneliness could kill you swiftly, i would be dead by now.

im really sorry. it sucks being alone. i hate it too. i spent my birthday which also happened to be about a week ago in my room and walking by myself around my uni campus. i hate knowing that nobody else really would go out of their way to appreciate my existence despite my efforts to try make myself likeable.

 

[mediocre]

I know how you feel I've been alone many years.. never had friends or had anyone to reach out to. Used to spend all day sleeping because it was the only way I could cope. Been trying to go to groups.. but I still feel very alone.
I hope you can meet people and become less lonely but I understand its very hard:(

 

[Kapsyl]

I know the feeling, my only real human interaction the past 5 weeks have been with my parents and counselors.

I'm willing to be your friend and listen to you

 

[whereabout]

guessing OP is a female judging by the lack of responses to friendship offers, omgomg so lonely1!!!!1!

? they are not obligated to accept nor respond to the offers - and even so an online chat can only do so much to fill the void of loneliness. Pls don't be sexist

 

[dnrd]

? they are not obligated to accept nor respond to the offers - and even so an online chat can only do so much to fill the void of loneliness. Pls don't be sexist

then they obviously arent lonely? thanks for agreeing with me

 

[heisenberg]

guessing OP is a female judging by the lack of responses to friendship offers, omgomg so lonely1!!!!1!

so being female invalidates op's feelings? glad you're posting your sexism outright

 

[vak]

what is this faggot site lmfao, suicide forum full of attention seekers JFL

Almost like we are people with feelings and empathy or something. Sorry you got misled.

 

[heysunshine]

yea maybe put ur empathy towards people who are genuinely struggling, not people who are attention seeking chief

I'm sorry you're in such a low place that you feel it's appropriate to invalidate the people in this forum. I hope that one day you recognize that your behavior is a symptom of your own loneliness and negative emotional state. I hope that you soon see that most people in this forum are here to provide support and love for one another as we struggle through some of the darkest moments in our lives. Peace and love to you, you really need it. <3

 

[heisenberg]

op, im sorry your post got flooded with so much negativity and sexism from another user. your feelings and thoughts are valid. loneliness is hard to deal with and i'm sorry it's making you feel this way. for what it's worth, i'm here if you need someone to pm <3

 

[Kalista]

Try to ignore the highly ignorant responses.

I feel for you. If you need to chat with someone, feel free to message me. I'll be around.

Happy birthday.

 

[space-jester]

then they obviously arent lonely? thanks for agreeing with me

i think this would be a better thread for you ^w^ good luck!

 

[Utter_emptiness]

im really sorry. it sucks being alone. i hate it too. i spent my birthday which also happened to be about a week ago in my room and walking by myself around my uni campus. i hate knowing that nobody else really would go out of their way to appreciate my existence despite my efforts to try make myself likeable.

Related to every word you wrote here Happy belated birthday ik it might seem meaningless coming from a stranger on the internet but i wish you the best and for us to find people we can connect to irl that relieve this awful loneliness

Are you able to get out of the house? (Or you do have a physical condition that makes it impossible?) If you can get out, then do. The fix for loneliness is meeting people, and you can't meet people (in person) if you stay at home.

And "Happy Birthday" by the way.

Yeah i can get out of the house. It's just that people don't like me, they hate my guts, never figured out why though.
And thanks for the birthday wishes

 

[jar-baby]

I'm sorry that you have to deal with this. I know the loneliness must hurt. Fwiw, I'm sure you know this already, but your society's/friends' ostracism of you is a reflection of who they are, not who you are.

Of course, you can always PM if you need to talk— or if you're just feeling lonely and want a friend.

Also, happy belated birthday