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kanna

kanna

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May 5, 2023
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i finally got accepted for a job but i have cuts on my arms and im scared. it took them months so i wasnt expecting to get hired and i got super bad recently. ive been feeling the worst i have been in a while because ive been trying to keep myself alive instead of just planning to die. tbh i feel like im gonna hurt myself rlly bad soon but if it kills me idc. anyway idk if anyone else has experience with this. this is my first job and if i didnt get hired my parents would be so pissed:(
 
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silentcicada

silentcicada

Silhouettes on the ceiling
Aug 2, 2023
138
Are you allowed to cover up with a jacket or undershirt? I've had this problem wearing uniform shirts with sleeves that are too short. I haven't had anyone from my previous jobs say anything about my scars but I can't speak for fresh cuts.

How spread out and deep are the cuts? I'd suggest a large knee bandaid if they are close enough together.
 
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AmericanMary

AmericanMary

Mage
Apr 30, 2024
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I would suggest just not acknowledging them. If you can, cover. If not, just don't point them out. In a professional work setting, nobody should ask you about them.
 
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$crim

skincarver
Feb 12, 2023
96
best thing you can do is hide them, unfortunately
when i got a part time position at FYE i had to wear a cardigan or long sleeve under my uniform
but like someone else suggested, if placements are super close maybe a large bandaid could suffice!
 
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kanna

kanna

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May 5, 2023
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Are you allowed to cover up with a jacket or undershirt? I've had this problem wearing uniform shirts with sleeves that are too short. I haven't had anyone from my previous jobs say anything about my scars but I can't speak for fresh cuts.

How spread out and deep are the cuts? I'd suggest a large knee bandaid if they are close enough together.
im gonna try to find a cardigan to wear if not theyre pretty close together so ill try that. theyre not rlly deep but they def look fresh ty:)
 
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Neon Grave

Neon Grave

AuDHD, trying my best.
Apr 6, 2023
42
For the time being, undershirts are generally acceptable to wear as other people have mentioned. In the future, you might consider a different area than your arms. When I did SH it was usually on the upper thighs, very easily hidden.
 
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Not Today Satan

Not Today Satan

I’ll survive even if it kills me
May 9, 2024
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If it's not a looks-based job, then refusing to hire a qualified candidate because they have scars would be considered discrimination. However, it can be difficult to prove.
 
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