Are you single?

[MiMif]

Omg I'm so sorry I kinda assumed she/her or are you gender non conforming?

I'm she/her

But gender doesn't mean much to me I'm also aromantic

 

[letsgetittogo]

I was talking to @letsgetittogo lmao

 

[lex]

I mean it would be nice to have a reason to get up in the morning. But I don't know. I think I'm just too far gone for a relationship. I don't want to drag someone else down

 

[letsgetittogo]

I was talking to @letsgetittogo lmao

trophy wife?

 

[sserafim]

trophy wife?

Yeah. And also for our Peru trip when you're ready to go

 

[letsgetittogo]

Yeah. And also for our Peru trip when you're ready to go

Okay let's get married at machu pichu if it's real

 

[sserafim]

Okay let's get married at machu pichu if it's real

Check chat

 

[Morte]

It is exactly what i think about relationships.
Tragically i had a really strange youth, a part of my family betrayed my father for futile and opportunistic reasons in a moment he was weak and it is really difficult for me to trust someone.
The problem is that the more i go on with these things in my mind, the more they grow in my brain, the more they become the only acceptable truth.
Solitude is not bad either, but having someone that just smiles at me and to have sex with, would not be bad at all. I just want to avoid excessive sharing: like money, properties or the other person telling my actions/thoughts to all the other ppl(like we are in the big brother).
It is not that I'm special or my 'trust' is the greatest thing to obtain in life, it is just important for me and that's all.

It's natural for people to leave you when you're weak and vulnerable. Weak people will also want to relate to others weaklings, as they will see each other as the last option - but they will also dump you if they get ahead on life.
Some divergences are nothing more than outliers for me. Not trusting anyone is just self-care.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

Yes. I'm way too shy to even start a conversation. I can't say it's the reason I want to die but it feels awful and certainly makes me want to do it more.

I relate so much. I don't understand how people socialise with each other. The concept of it feels alien to me.

Haha thanks. Sorry to hear that. Well I guess God did a good thing by making me a woman don't you want to help me with my plan?

If I was a billionaire, sure, though I wouldn't be in a relationship with you to do that. I'd probably just give money to almost everybody here until I acknowledge how much of a bad idea that is. Sadly, I'm poor lol. I can't even take care of myself so nevermind taking care of other people

I wouldn't say it's impossible for you to do so if you're male, it may be more difficult but speaking for myself idm being the provider and caring for my partner regardless of gender and I'm sure they're other women that would do so as well

But you must want something in return, right? I believe that every human being does something to primarily benefit themselves first so there must be a tradeoff here... a stipulation of some sort.

It's natural for people to leave you when you're weak and vulnerable. Weak people will also want to relate to others weaklings, as they will see each other as the last option - but they will also dump you if they get ahead on life.
Some divergences are nothing more than outliers for me. Not trusting anyone is just self-care.

Touché. This is truly profound

 

[fiora]

But you must want something in return, right? I believe that every human being does something to primarily benefit themselves first so there must be a tradeoff here... a stipulation of some sort.

yes, you're right I would expect things in return for me being a provider. just like how traditionally when a man provides and the woman stays at home, there's still things excepted of her.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

yes, you're right I would expect things in return for me being a provider. just like how traditionally when a man provides and the woman stays at home, there's still things excepted of her.

Sorry, I was meant to ask what things you were looking for but my brain shut down whilst writing my previous response so... what exactly is it are you looking for?

 

[terra.nuvo]

Never being in a relationship has definitely warped my perception of myself and my worth. So I'd say it has affected my suicidalness too. That isn't to say that I would no longer be suicidal if I was in a relationship but I think i'd feel better about myself if I had ever been in a fulfilling relationship.