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rainwillneverstop

rainwillneverstop

Global Mod | Serious Health Hazard
Jul 12, 2022
992
This is meant as a support thread, for those users who are 30+.
Rules of the general forum applies.
 
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derpyderpins

derpyderpins

:( precisely as ugly as Sidney Sweeney :(
Sep 19, 2023
2,227
Cool, I'm old enough for the adults-only resort. Dream come true.
 
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Tesha

Tesha

Life too shall pass
May 31, 2020
920
At long last, somewhere to discuss how my menopause is contributing to my suicidal ideation šŸ˜‰
 
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kyhoti

kyhoti

Looking for fair winds and following seas
May 27, 2024
294
Wheee. Being over 50, there are different reasons. At least thats how I see it based on the many threads I've read.
 
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Ash

Ash

What dreams may come?
Oct 4, 2021
1,736
I brought my own Werther's
 
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WhiteRabbit

WhiteRabbit

I'm late, i'm late. For a very important date.
Feb 12, 2019
1,796
Fill your pockets with hard candies and strap on your orthopedic shoes everyone.
 
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Ash

Ash

What dreams may come?
Oct 4, 2021
1,736
At long last, somewhere to discuss how my menopause is contributing to my suicidal ideation šŸ˜‰
Don't. The crisis team wanted me to have a blood test to see if I was menopausal. I told them it was none of their bloody business (pun intended) and that a) the blood tests are notoriously unreliable so they need to update their menopause info sheets; b) I might have been willing to discuss hormones if they'd talked about it with me first instead of making a decision in a committee meeting and then come to my house telling me what to do (not even asking) when I'd not once mentioned the M word or any related symptoms; c) if they dared to touch a drop of my blood without my permission or raised the subject again, they'd be on the receiving end of a massive complaint.
 
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Cute_&_Loving

I like trinkets:)
May 10, 2023
423
:heart::heart::heart:
 
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let.me.let.go87

let.me.let.go87

Meh
Jul 12, 2024
300
I fit this perfectly. I'm 37. But I've been suicidal since the age of 12…
 
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sisyphean-nightmare

sisyphean-nightmare

Wizard
Dec 14, 2023
615
Me and my aching hip wants to join the game.
 
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Ash

Ash

What dreams may come?
Oct 4, 2021
1,736
Me and my aching hip wants to join the game.
Not ticked that one off yet. Shall we see if we can get the full skeleton before starting on the innards?

I can add ankle, knees, shoulder and wrist. Also chopped off the end of my thumb when I was a kid, if that counts.
 
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catnowmeowmeow

Member
Jul 16, 2024
56
Hi 38 here!!
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,408
Is this where I go to pick up my social security checks?
 
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Thanatos.br

F*cked around, found out
Dec 7, 2023
116
34yo, been suicidal since 15 i guess
 
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rozeske

Maybe I am the problem
Dec 2, 2023
4,223
I feel like an imposter

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ForgottenAgain

ForgottenAgain

On the rollercoaster of sadness
Oct 17, 2023
1,139
Nice, I'll join you at the end of September
 
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sisyphean-nightmare

sisyphean-nightmare

Wizard
Dec 14, 2023
615
Not ticked that one off yet. Shall we see if we can get the full skeleton before starting on the innards?

I can add ankle, knees, shoulder and wrist. Also chopped off the end of my thumb when I was a kid, if that counts.
What a coincidence, so did I!
 
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Hotsackage

Enlightened
Mar 11, 2019
1,184
Somehow the age of 37
 
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catnowmeowmeow

Member
Jul 16, 2024
56
Even though I'm getting old I feel like my body is fine but my mind is not
 
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Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
13,326
Even though I'm getting old I feel like my body is fine but my mind is not
The mind - mentally we can die much earlier than we actually die physically.
 
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Ash

Ash

What dreams may come?
Oct 4, 2021
1,736
You say that but then suddenly you find yourself making the "upupup" noise when you get off the sofa 🤣
 
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Cress

Cress

Arcanist
Oct 15, 2023
436
I just turned 36. Isn't 35 the last year where males are drastically suicidal? Did I make it?
 
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humblebragging

humblebragging

goodbye
Mar 2, 2024
18
Hello my fellow 30+ year olds
 
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LifeQuitter

Experienced
Jul 11, 2024
263
What happens if someone under 30 posts here?
 
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TDF

TDF

Meh might as well die
Jun 24, 2023
475
Let's not let this thread die, unlike our hopes and dreams
What happens if someone under 30 posts here?
The 30+ police comes with very loud siren and throws u a handful of werthers original and demand you to take one everyday until you turn 30.
 
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Ash

Ash

What dreams may come?
Oct 4, 2021
1,736
What happens if someone under 30 posts here?
They get a long, long lecture about how things (music, comedy, books, films had plots etc etc etc) were better in our day. And they don't get offered any Werther's/Walter's.
 
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sisyphean-nightmare

Wizard
Dec 14, 2023
615
What happens if someone under 30 posts here?
Free Tylenol because we're likely to assume that your body aches too!

So, my peeps. Where does it hurt today? My jaw is slightly stiff and my GERD is giving me a nausea. My left arm seems to be acting up too.
 
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TDF

TDF

Meh might as well die
Jun 24, 2023
475
Free Tylenol because we're likely to assume that your body aches too!

So, my peeps. Where does it hurt today? My jaw is slightly stiff and my GERD is giving me a nausea. My left arm seems to be acting up too.
Honestly, my shoulders started hurting randomly in the last month, I thought it was bc I was wearing a backpack but I've stopped and it still hurts sometimes even though I've not done any exertion lol. I must be getting old 😳
 
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Ash

Ash

What dreams may come?
Oct 4, 2021
1,736
Honestly, my shoulders started hurting randomly in the last month, I thought it was bc I was wearing a backpack but I've stopped and it still hurts sometimes even though I've not done any exertion lol. I must be getting old 😳
Mods, we need a high five reaction
 
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