NSFW Would you agree to a sex date?

[PimpHand]

I just went to a sex date and I already regret my decision...

 

[noname223]

I just went to a sex date and I already regret my decision...

Why?

Because of this thread I thought a lot about the question whether I missed some opportunities. But honestly these people in question...if also could have fucked me up pretty pretty much. And it could have triggered trust issues.

 

[Somewhat Suicidal]

I just went to a sex date and I already regret my decision...

Please elaborate.

 

[PimpHand]

Because I think I'm not attached to the person I had sex with, I couldn't feel the same connection, and to make things worse I have severe orgasmic disorder.

We did anal sex and I didn't feel anything again, that's my 3rd intercourse and I can't reach the climax. In my first one, my partner had 2 climaxes while I could barely feel anything.

 

[Somewhat Suicidal]

Because I think I'm not attached to the person I had sex with, I couldn't feel the same connection, and to make things worse I have severe orgasmic disorder.

We did anal sex and I didn't feel anything again, that's my 3rd intercourse and I can't reach the climax. In my first one, my partner had 2 climaxes while I could barely feel anything.

Are you a girl/woman? Because then most of these things sound somewhat normal to me. For a guy it would be unusual.

 

[PimpHand]

Are you a girl/woman? Because then most of these things sound somewhat normal to me. For a guy it would be unusual.

I'm a man, and I'm the "active" one, I can't feel anything while my partners are having multiple orgasms. Good for them, but I would like to feel good too, I think porn addiction and intense masturbation damaged the nerves somewhat, plus the use of antidepressants.

 

[QuarantinedThoughts]

I probably wouldn't agree to something like that. To me, sex is something to be had between two soulmates. Having casual sex with strangers would probably leave me feeling disgusting, personally. I would rather go on a few regular dates, get personal confirmation that I really do care for that individual, before I even think of going that far!

 

[Somewhat Suicidal]

I'm a man, and I'm the "active" one, I can't feel anything while my partners are having multiple orgasms. Good for them, but I would like to feel good too, I think porn addiction and intense masturbation damaged the nerves somewhat, plus the use of antidepressants.

Not sure if you're talking about sex with a woman or man now, but I guess that's not really important here.

Anyway, thats unusual then, although I had this happening to me as well when I was taking SSRIs. Though for me the problem was mostly holding an erection with these fucking meds. The worst is it didn't kill my libido in any way, but it did kill my ability to stay erect and come. Really shitty.

Porn and masturbation if its really intense and addictive also definitely not helpful regarding that, but I don't know that personally as well as the former problem. Not that it's not a thing for me, but never to a point where it hurt my ability to orgasm with a real woman, SSRIs had way more of an impact.

Now I'm currently taking Atomotexine for ADHD and it also starts causing erectile dysfunction to an extend again. Libido still way too high. It really sucks. I'm really starting to think I'll request testosterone blockers or whatever from my doc soon. This is kinda unbearable.

 

[PimpHand]

Not sure if you're talking about sex with a woman or man now, but I guess that's not really important here.

Anyway, thats unusual then, although I had this happening to me as well when I was taking SSRIs. Though for me the problem was mostly holding an erection with these fucking meds. The worst is it didn't kill my libido in any way, but it did kill my ability to stay erect and come. Really shitty.

Porn and masturbation if its really intense and addictive also definitely not helpful regarding that, but I don't know that personally as well as the former problem. Not that it's not a thing for me, but never to a point where it hurt my ability to orgasm with a real woman, SSRIs had way more of an impact.

Now I'm currently taking Atomotexine for ADHD and it also starts causing erectile dysfunction to an extend again. Libido still way too high. It really sucks. I'm really starting to think I'll request testosterone blockers or whatever from my doc soon. This is kinda unbearable.

Yeah I think it's the combination of SSRI + a life of intense masturbation since I was 10, I used to masturbate sometimes 4/5 times aday.

I only had 3 sexual relations, 1 with a cis woman and 2 with trans women. So, I experienced every single "option" possible.

Oral sex is good, I can feel something. But on genital penetration I can't feel anything. Unlike you I can still hold erection, in fact I can hold it far too long, like tens of minutes or even possibly hours. But I can't feel anything, sometimes I can't even tell I'm penetrating bc It feels like nothing. Also I'm always using condom so maybe it's a variable...

We are unlucky in intimacy, I just wanted to have an intense night with someone I truly love, and then sleep hugging her, full of serotonin...

 

[(UN)COMMON SENSE]

sex date is crazy work