Will people speak for you when you finally pass?

[Doz]

As someone with no true friends or family, when I pass I know for a fact that people will try to speak for me. They'll say I'm things that I wasn't and say I was this kind of person when I never actually was. No one knows who I really am because no one ever took the time or cared to find out. I'll say this here and now but no one speaks for me except ME. I hope those of you with real friends and or family will have it easier in this regard.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

No one is going to say anything for me. I don't have any family or friends. Upon death, I'll be cremated, and placed in a niche in a monument at the cemetery, probably by the same guy who installed the monument, because he is the one who will have to "raise" the stone to access the hole in the bottom. No fuss or fanfare. There won't be any funeral service, no religious words by someone from a church, so no one there to say anything anyway.

 

[Gaga786]

Yeah. There's a huge stigma towards suicide and mental health in my country and quite frankly in my own family. Im sure people would call me psycho mentally ill, loser etc. The funny thing is that everyone will come at my funeral and cry crocodile tears and say fake things when they are one of the reasons why im CTBing. No one cares until your dead, then apparently everyone wants to care

 

[Holu]

I don't mean to offend so I'm really sorry if I cause harm or insecurity, but I just wanna provide my prospective.

In all honesty I just want a quiet death. If I had it my way, the few people who would mourn me wouldn't care. I don't want to cause harm on this world, I don't want to cause anything. A nice peaceful place, where I can be burned and forgotten.

I'm deeply afraid of leaving remnants following my passing. I want just wish I could cease to exist entirely.

Anyways, Ik a lot of people are worried post death, and again if I'm adding to that I'm really sorry and please just ignore to the best of your ability whatever I said.

 

[WaitingAllMyLife]

For people to speak for me they'd have to notice I'm gone. I'm gonna say no one will give a shit if they are even aware.

 

[AerialBoundaries]

Nobody will speak for me, as nobody truly knows me.

A distant relative of mine died a few weeks ago and he never even had a funeral. Just a straight cremation with only his wife in attendance. Quick and easy. No announcement anywhere of his death. This is the way.

 

[mizumono]

I've fantasized about this many times, bc i'm sure even in death people will misunderstand me. My dad even after telling him the scope of my pain many many times, insists on saying i'm "just anxious and want things to happen right away" and that i'm just "reluctant with change"… the rest of my family just thinks i'm being dramatic. I even thought of writing in my letter "do you still think i'm just anxious?" to my father bc i'm sure he will be the one to find my body. They'll say some shit how it was a shock to them and that i was a good person who was ungrateful of all the love and help they are sure i received… they'll say all sorts of lies and they won't even admit to themselves they're lies, which i guess is even worse. Fuck them, they never wanted to know me, even with my efforts of telling them. They dont know me and they never will

 

[(¥)]

no ibe wjll care. trwat md likd a crimijnal and jedp me in s morque tk rot.

 

[Mndcntrl]

I hope those of you with real friends and or family will have it easier in this regard.

Well... Im not 100% sure if my friend are real friends. But I really hope NO ONE talks for me. They knew a shit. Everyone who im trust enough get a few pieces from the puzzle Mndcntrl. I cant talk to anyone over enough that I would say that could say at least 50% true...