Guess when women were more happy? It was when they didn't work and raised children. The entire meme of equality is capitalism. Women literally bought into being the best version of themselves was just a "toxic man." Look at any modern video game with a female protagonist. It's literally just some woman acting like a badass dude. These people are absolutely insane and hate men. The natural order is men doing masculine things and women raising kids. It's not a bug. It's a feature. That's how the world works long before humans even existed. Capitalism wants women to believe they are just men.
This is partially true. I do not fully endorse traditionalist values especially due to how much society has changed. I also don't think that going back to that culture is the solution nor pragmatic. I will say though that a lot of people who use the toxic masculine buzzword don't have an understanding of how men operate. Just like how the people who go into the forum posts of women who vent about how life is as a woman don't understand them. Any time anyone vents about being male or female here the threads end up locked. I was guilty of being retarded on some of those posts in the past and regret them.
I don't think everyone here who uses the term hates men. I think they have a huge misunderstanding of men, or don't think very hard about their issues and are confident in saying what they've heard in our culture. What they also don't realize is that we've heard that stuff before, and there's a reason why it's rejected. Because it's not the correct answer, and is putting 100% of the blame on the person. It isn't 100%. Maybe it's 70/30, or 50/50, or 20/80 who knows.
I don't think advocating for a return to gender roles is the right solution. Do you know what else was different in the 1950s? There was no internet. People were more connected to each other. I was refuting the take that toxic masculinity is the sole reason that men have problems, not advocating for the return of 1950s culture (though to be fair, there is some things we could learn from the time period). In fact, if we returned to the 1950s I'd hate it. I don't want that kind of pressure put on me.
Your posts touches on modern culture, and I do agree that this plays a role in men's issues. I mentioned in my previous post about having to bear the original sins of oppression I never committed being taught to me. Media doesn't have very many good portrayals of men, and also shuns femineity, both of which are bad things.
Men are supposed to be tough. This isn't EverQuest. It's real life. Welcome to natural selection. Men have different wants and needs than women. If you weren't 14 years old you'd know this. It's actually hilarious how people unironically think men and women are just interchangeable.
This is just how it is. Many people for some reason fail to acknowledge it. I think it's because they
want something to be true rather than see what is true.
Also "therapy" is just some middle aged women telling you how to best to be a capitalist cog in the system and not thing about anything. If anything the modern world is "toxic feminism." Just suck it up and be a cuckold.
Disagree. Therapy is effective for some men. I know someone with OCD who's been having great success with therapy who sees a female therapist. My experience with therapy has been very poor. I even had one blame capitalism for all of my problems, which isn't true. Capitalism isn't the problem, and socialism isn't the solution. We all live under the same system, and many people are content with their lives. There
is something we can do, and that's what I was trying to get at in my previous post when I said I was trying to "discuss solutions that will work for men since a lot of us haven't been able to find them yet."
I can get into the reasons why therapy doesn't work very well for men, but I've already rambled on long enough. I will say though, you're making generalizations on what therapy is, from what I assume are bad experiences. I've had those bad experiences too, but I can still acknowledge that it is an effective option for some people.
I know you agreed with most of my takes, but unfortunately I don't agree with all of yours. I hope we can continue to have a civil discussion about it.
And one last thing before I head off, having disagreements is one thing, but voicing your disagreements in a way like this is reductive. You're not being respectful in your disagreements. I get that it is coming from a place of anger, but that doesn't mean you should voice your disagreements like this. You're not going to bring anyone over to your side. You're only giving the people who don't like you more ammunition against you. You can either respectfully disagree with someone, or not reply. There is no reason to insult people. This is how threads end up devolving and getting locked. Every single time. I know this because I did it too.